Why do women react by far the most to travel and food?

[BillyPilgrim]

In OLD at least they certainly post about wanting to travel and eat great food. This is posted by “strong, intelligent, independent” woman - but I guarantee that they’d expect their matches to pay as much of it as possible. I have no reason to believe the non OLD using population of females do not feel exactly the same way.

Provisioning = food - the more fancy the more expensive the better.
Travel = luxury and money as well, it’s again provisioning - only the best earners can provide it.

Possibly sexual transmutation as well. Sex is exciting, but so is great food and travel, and guess which doesn't get their feelings hurt? Easier to satisfy lusts if you have access to an Instagram lifestyle.

 

[member160292]

Traveling is fun, I do it often for work and vacation is always nice every couple of months.

 

[BadBoy89]

I’ll do a day trip early on but I’m not spending thousands on you on some multi-day vacation when I’ve only known you less than a couple months. 6 months? Maybe, depends on how the relationship is going. But this thing of dating for a few weeks and you expect me to take you on a vacation, fvck you and the horse you rode in on.

No no, your thinking is all wrong.

If the girl is single, hot, young, and fertile, he should spend thousands on any trip within 10 minutes of meeting her. There is no qualifying, there is no getting to know you, there is no “I don’t know her yet”. Hot + young + fertile -> spend to get her pregnant.

Now if the girl 30+, then you start to become a feminist. Take your time, 6 months, see how the relationship is going, she pays her own way, etc.

Now if the girl is 30+ and single mom, she pays for you. You should book separate rooms too, in case you meet a hot, young, fertile girl on the trip and want to sleep with her.


But bro, it’s easy to see you got this deep seated anger towards women. They haven’t even *done* anything to you and you are already swearing at them, ignoring them, putting them down. You have to remember, women don’t owe you anything. They exist for their own benefit. You should enjoy your life and they come along for the ride.

At your age, you should be able to make a hot girl’s spin within 360 seconds, if not less.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

It’s a strong stereotype. But I’ve not found it to be true.

 

[sharkfinale]

Women look for men's life that they want to be part of. Travel/food - They want to be part of that.
"interesting [career] and [that] provide opportunity for growth, learning and specialisation." - They don't want to be part of that, just want to reap benefits (travel, food, whatever) of that.

 

[Robert28]

No no, your thinking is all wrong.

If the girl is single, hot, young, and fertile, he should spend thousands on any trip within 10 minutes of meeting her. There is no qualifying, there is no getting to know you, there is no “I don’t know her yet”. Hot + young + fertile -> spend to get her pregnant.

Now if the girl 30+, then you start to become a feminist. Take your time, 6 months, see how the relationship is going, she pays her own way, etc.

Now if the girl is 30+ and single mom, she pays for you. You should book separate rooms too, in case you meet a hot, young, fertile girl on the trip and want to sleep with her.


But bro, it’s easy to see you got this deep seated anger towards women. They haven’t even *done* anything to you and you are already swearing at them, ignoring them, putting them down. You have to remember, women don’t owe you anything. They exist for their own benefit. You should enjoy your life and they come along for the ride.

At your age, you should be able to make a hot girl’s spin within 360 seconds, if not less.

Why is it when a guy has many bad experiences with something he’s always to blame? Why can’t it just be the experiences were bad and weren’t always his fault, life is just like that sometimes? I am no angry towards women. I view women like I do politicians if you want to know the truth. Women don’t owe me a thing and I don’t owe them jack either. Doesn’t mean I have to like them or feel empathy toward them. I actually enjoy it when I see a woman complain about someone who did her wrong because I think “good, I wonder how many people YOU did a lot worse.”

 

[user252009]

And again, travelling a lot this month, consistently being proven women "like" the traveling stories and crap but don't care about the actual stuff/work that I do with passion, which in the end results in me travelling. If you're not there for the grind and the passion, you won't be there for the travelling, gtfo.

 

[jaymbrs]

No no, your thinking is all wrong.

If the girl is single, hot, young, and fertile, he should spend thousands on any trip within 10 minutes of meeting her. There is no qualifying, there is no getting to know you, there is no “I don’t know her yet”. Hot + young + fertile -> spend to get her pregnant.

This the simpest quote I’ve read on SS so far.

 

[SW15]

Travel and food are seen as cool and women want to be associated with what is cool.

 

[zekko]

I think I agree with the OP's observation, women do have a fascination with travel. A lot of men do too, honestly. I think the appeal with travel is that you are getting an experience, one that is different enough to be exciting in the moment. You get to see things you don't usually see. It might also feed a fantasy, "Hey, what if I lived here, what would that be like?".

I like to travel, but I've tended to prefer to spend my money on various thingamybobs that are related to my hobbies and interests (as the OP noted). The appeal for me is that if I buy a gizmo, I have it forever (or until it breaks). If I take a trip, all I have left are memories.

As for food, yeah, everybody likes food. Usually.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Travel and food are seen as cool and women want to be associated with what is cool.

Yes. Also, women are consumers. Travel + food = consumption

 

[Bokanovsky]

Simple pleasures for simple-minded people (which most women are).

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

From my recollection, girls that like to travel a lot/every year are not LTR material.
They enjoy the “exposure” the wanna be out there factor and it’s even worse if they go with another of their slvtty friends and blast it up on social media.
These lizards tend to be very unstable, narcissistic and high drama
A pure cramp to deal with.
strictly pump and dump material

I like my girls to be more calm, less traveled and see getaway vacations as a once in a blue moon treat.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Correct. Traveling is a status symbol that is the ultimate validation. Women constantly need validation.

It’s a status symbol for poor and middle class folks (just like designer clothing). People who are actually rich would laugh if you told them that vacations and designer handbags were status symbols.

 

[member160292]

Problem with OP is that he can’t relate to these women, and they are the majority. Nothing wrong with travel, but if your date asks you about it and you’ve been in a cave, game over.

 

[user252009]

Problem with OP is that he can’t relate to these women, and they are the majority. Nothing wrong with travel, but if your date asks you about it and you’ve been in a cave, game over.

I can relate, I travel quite a lot. Problem is these topics are the only thing women can be related with; any ACTUAL interesting topics of substinance or deeper conversations are not interesting to them so they lose interest incredibly fast. Only to return the next time I’m travelling again. I’m too tired of that ****.