Why do women like bad boys ?

[Player_Supreme]

Oh I feel ya. I know where your coming from. Unfortuantely a passive guy isn't apt to survive over a agressive one. That is the way nature set it up.

The more agressive of species gets to mate so that a better gene is carried forward.

I will say one thing though:

I hope I'm there when the meek shall inherit the earth so I can slap them in the face and push them down and take it away from them.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
I hope I'm there when the meek shall inherit the earth so I can slap them in the face and push them down and take it away from them.

Actually, in the biblical sense meekness ment self-control. That's not implying that a person who is meek will allow that to occur necessarily. How else would they inherit the earth unless there was an active force greater than anything we have seen now?

 

[2xp]

I do agree with Player_suprem. well, most of what he says. i just wanted to say that does not work on ALL women. it works like a wonder on young and *very feminine* babes, but i am pretty sure that there are a good percentage of women who wants a nice guy.

I like to believe (well, i don't like philosophy, so i stick to this simple explanation) that evolution and darwinism makes sure that the population is diversified enough so as to fight against nature. so, most of the chicks dig the agressive and strong male. it is a good criteria for his ability to survive. but there are some chicks who prefer (i mean, they are genetically programmed) quiet nice guys, because maybe these guys would survive, well let's say in a war, where every agressive man went to the front and died, whereas this nice guy fled away.

well anyway, those are the chicks we don't probably notice. they don't wear tight sexy pants or have those cool 95D boobs. they pick mr passive nice guy, they don't make such a fuss about relationship stuff, they just have a happy marriage and try to live quietly in a nice home.

generalisation is dangerous. alpha males exist, and so does mr shy guy. if shyness was against nature and mating, why would you think there are still a lot of passive guys everywhere in every country of this world ? Nature should have make sure that their *pvssy* characteristic, as you would call it, fade away.

actually, i think it's good to adapt your attitude. being an alpha male is the way to go in a work situation or nightclub or playing football. but there are times i just SHUT IT OFF, like when i have to free my mind or when i talk (open-hearted) to my best friends/wise people/family ... and being agrressive all the time puts a lot of tension.

 

[Player_Supreme]

2xp

it works like a wonder on young and *very feminine* babes, but i am pretty sure that there are a good percentage of women who wants a nice guy.

And that is it right there. Who doesn't want young and very feminine babes? I think I stated that this style works on women below 30's. As I stated after they get into their late 20's and their still not married yet or have kids then that clock will be ticking at them. They will settle for a nice guy with great potential real quick.

Now if the nice guys who have great potential would like to wait for the HB10's to get just a little bit older they can bag a few.

Otherwise change up your game plan and "get em while their hot"

 

[noseguard20]

women like brave boys, not bad boys!!!

 

[NewMan]

Great postings.

I don't think I've read something as interesting in a long time.

I've got to add my 2 cents though.


I think an issue here is the definition of 'Bad boy'. Because I don't think Player is talking about an A## hole - but a guy who knows what the fvck he wants and is not afraid to go and get it.

This 'Bad boy' is a risk taker - laughs in the face of the HB10 that's just dissed him (and of course they do) - and moves on to the next chick in the room.

I think some people think of the bad boy as a guy who mis-treats people, acts like an a## hole etc. and I don't think thats the case.


I like the concept of men giving love as much as wmen give sex - which is all well and good in an LTR or marrage - and is I think necessary in order for this to survive (how many of my friends are not getting any poon after getting married - I shudder to think about - and I know these guys would fvck someone else in a heart beat) But we are talking about snagging pvssy here not getting married.


I really hate the term bad boy though - because I really don't think it gives credit to what's happening here - or describes us (and I said US on purpose) guys accurately.

I'd usa DJ - because I think the qualities that a DJ should emulate would be similar to what we are talking about here.

Level 1
Confidence.
Attitude.
Charisma
Courage
Intention
Adventurous

Level 2
Wise
Intelligent
passionate

I think these are the qualities that women look for - these are the qualities that these "Bad boys" have in common. Passive guys lack many of these traits in Level 1 - but have them in Level 2. Women will settle for level 2 - but get wet for level 1 traits.