Why do we have to come up with excuses for not liking women with a high body count?

[Millard Fillmore]

I met the girl I married in high school. We dated long distance for several years due to attending colleges in different states. She graduated1.5yrs before me. I told her if she wanted to be with me she needed to move to XYZ city because that's where I was headed after I graduated. That's exactly what she did. It was a city that was near my family as well. It was the first true test of submission. Never once did I hear any crap about it either.

Are you two still together?

 

[The Duke]

Are you two still together?

No, The flame has long burned out on my end. She cheated on me and ended a great relationship that lasted almost 15yrs. Best relationship I ever had. I never knew it but I was her high score guy.

 

[Dr.Suave]

She cheated on me and ended a great relationship that lasted almost 15yrs. I never knew it but I was her high score guy.

This sounds contradictory imho, bro. Maybe she had some loose screws because a sane woman would never risk losing her High Score guy by cheating with a lesser option.

 

[Isildur1]

on the one hand we want low body counts on the other hand we want women to just wait for us and hope that they magically wait for us to approach them while they are a virgin and for them then to submit to us . this expectation is pretty wild and unrealistic. You need to be proactive and keep approaching and do your own due diligence for sure on the women you meet - the black pill expectations simply don't make sense in real life when applied.

 

[The Duke]

This sounds contradictory imho, bro. Maybe she had some loose screws because a sane woman would never risk losing her High Score guy by cheating with a lesser option.

I could see that. You are free to assume whatever you would like. You are also drawing conclusions based on a few lines from a book you have never read. Not everything you read on SS translates perfectly to the real world, including your theory here.

 

[Velasco]

Maybe she had some loose screws because a sane woman would never risk losing her High Score guy by cheating with a lesser option.

Post hoc rationalization

 

[CBear]

I could see that. You are free to assume whatever you would like. You are also drawing conclusions based on a few lines from a book you have never read. Not everything you read on SS translates perfectly to the real world, including your theory here.

Would you expand on that? What led to the cheating and do you still feel like it was worth it to be married to her for 15 years in that case? Were there any signs based on her values and behaviors that would make sense as to why she would cheat on a relationship that was so great? Or did the effort or care just diminish from one or both sides just from being with each other so long? All just out of curiosity to reflect and learn from your experience. No pressure and you don't need to go into it if you wouldn't like to.

 

[The Duke]

Would you expand on that? What led to the cheating and do you still feel like it was worth it to be married to her for 15 years in that case? Were there any signs based on her values and behaviors that would make sense as to why she would cheat on a relationship that was so great? Or did the effort or care just diminish from one or both sides just from being with each other so long? All just out of curiosity to reflect and learn from your experience. No pressure and you don't need to go into it if you wouldn't like to.

I don't want to hijack this thread, so I will start a new one. Whenever I share bits of my exwife story it always generates curiosity.

 

[Dr.Suave]

You are free to assume whatever you would like. You are also drawing conclusions based on a few lines from a book you have never read. Not everything you read on SS translates perfectly to the real world, including your theory here.

That´s totally fair, brother. I didnt mean to offend in any way or touch a nerve and I apologize if I did.

 

[soulforge]

This sounds contradictory imho, bro. Maybe she had some loose screws because a sane woman would never risk losing her High Score guy by cheating with a lesser option.

This high score thing is not something that guarantees her loyalty..
You put on a bunch of weight, get a little sloppy with your frame from time to time which happens to most men, see how quick she starts looking around at greener pastures.

As pointed out by @AmsterdamAssassin woman leave high score guys all of the time, so they can get back on the cawk carousel, only to find out, nothing better is outhere.

If females who view you as her best option, can leave or cheat on you, what do you think the girl with 38 body count is likely to do.

 

[The Duke]

This high score thing is not something I believe is something that guarantees her loyalty..
You put on a bunch of weight, get a little sloppy with your frame from time to time which happens to most men, see how quick she starts looking around at greener pastures.

As pointed out by @AmsterdamAssassin woman leave high score guys all of the time, so they can get back on the cawk carousel, only to find out, nothing better is outhere.

If females who view you as her best option, can leave or cheat on you, what do you think the girl with 38 body count is likely to do.

Perspective is something a person only gets after the wheels come off and you experience something different. You don't know how great something was until you have experienced something less. Thats when the scores are assigned.

 

[MatureDJ]

on the one hand we want low body counts on the other hand we want women to just wait for us and hope that they magically wait for us to approach them while they are a virgin and for them then to submit to us . this expectation is pretty wild and unrealistic.

There are some women that will let an otherwise Normie get her virgin poon, but he will have to "pay the piper" to get his "pipe" involved:

Virginity auction - First Night

A private virginity auction on FIRST-NIGHT.COM, where a girl can expose her virginity for sale through an auction.

first-night.com

https://mypureclub.com/

 

[Dr.Suave]

There are some women that will let an otherwise Normie get her virgin poon, but he will have to "pay the piper" to get his "pipe" involved:

Virginity auction - First Night

A private virginity auction on FIRST-NIGHT.COM, where a girl can expose her virginity for sale through an auction.

first-night.com

https://mypureclub.com/

If there´s money involved, I think its probable most of those girls are lying.

 

[MatureDJ]

If there´s money involved, I think its probable most of those girls are lying.

I wonder if a customer gets to return the merchandise if he determines that she is not virginal. Henry VIII did it with Wife #4.

Anne of Cleves - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

The couple's first night as husband and wife was not a successful one. Henry confided to Cromwell that he had not consummated the marriage, saying, "I liked her before not well, but now I like her much worse".

The marriage was annulled on 12 July 1540, on the grounds of non-consummation and her pre-contract to Francis of Lorraine. Henry VIII's physician stated that after the wedding night, Henry said he was not impotent because he experienced "duas pollutiones nocturnas in somno" (two nocturnal pollutions while in sleep).[31][32]

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I seem to attract aggressive, high-notch girls. So I’ve had my far share. What I’ve noticed about them is:
1) They are Very horny
2) They are obsessed with sex.
3) Size queens.
4) confident & boastful of their sexual prowess.

Now most women exhibit these traits to some degree. But high-mileage girls seem to carry them to the extreme.

For example. One girl wanted me to
fvck her in ever room in my house. (I have a decent sized house). On the stairs. Bent over tables. In the shower. In the bath…

 

[Divorced w 3]

A slvt can reform herself overnight into the saintliest good girl if she sets her mind on snagging the right guy; maybe you and then go back to being an intrepid and shameless whxre when her pvssy tells her it's time to meet the wrong kind of guy again. This can all happen before you bat an eye and you would be none the wiser.

They "reform" when they get old and dry with children normally after their 3rd decade and they become inveterate churchgoers, suddenly real close to her parents and community organizers. Women have the genius for life, they roll with the punches and they take what is on offer. For this, they have my not-so-grudging admiration. That, and the exquisite and unspeakable uses of their splendid curves and alternately wet and dry holes.

High body count is the most insidious and disgusting of LTR-girlfriend-worthy violations. It is really unfortunate because basically every chick out there outside of Saudi Arabia has been chain smoking pole since their late teens. So what's a guy to do..

You can either rationalize by burning that into your frontal cortex and potentially LTR/wife up a used cvm dumpster female who will lie to you about her sexcapades

or

dive into the deep end of the Mack daddy player lifestyle by icing the heart and offering no commitment whatsoever when going thru the ringer with women.

If you are banging a chick for long enough regardless of her past you will develop some kind of pair bond, and eventually that will lead to emotional investment, and it's concomitant pain, one way or the other.

My father once told me “Your gut is God and Nature whispering in your ear” and I been running with that ever since.

I wonder if this logic creates a stronger case for LTR the right single mom

 

[jhonny9546]

That happens to women, but what about men?
Did you feel that after a certain number of partners, it became difficult to bond with someone? If yes, what was that number for you?

 

[Dr.Suave]

I saw the correlations with body count and behaviors/attitude. My 1st relationship had 30, my 2nd had 10+, my 3rd had 3, and my current one had 0. I refused to settle although every single one loved me. I cut it off with all of them. Each one was progressively less crazy and where the first had a mental illness + so many other issues and the second had major daddy issues and narcissistic qualities. The one I'm with now is so appreciative of everything, isn't possessive, doesn't try to control me or change my stubbornness, and there's just a different level of comfort. I would've been happy with just a lower body count but I'm glad that I didn't settle and I encourage all men to not settle as well.

Are you still together?

 

[jhonny9546]

What is bonding to you?

You feel a more intimate connection with someone, rather than a connection, you can have with anyone

 

[jhonny9546]

It's like the difference between a promise and an oath and a vow.

Understood.
Could there be bonding but no intimacy?