happyendings said:
I think thats the best response. I only stood there because I was winging for a bud. Yeah, I spoke with other girls real briefly when I went up at the bar for my drink. I felt good vibes thats why Im kinda kicking my ass over this flake. I think 5 to 10 minute clock will work ill try it tomorrow. Question is it me or younger girls 18-25 tend to flake more than older girls.
Well, I (36, look late 20s), got flaked on by THREE different women yesterday. The first one, we'd setup our date for yesterday evening, mid-week last week (can't remember the exact day I called her). She is native-born French (I speak French decently now too), smokes (I looked past that), hot thin body, very mature for her age at 26, just put the A in Ad-ult. Nonetheless, she cancelled, no excuse really just that she couldn't make it, but to try to get together Monday? Um no, I say. But she's not on my bad side, Yet, because she cancelled early yesterday morning; therefore, I had plenty of time to call up others I'd been priming 'as if' we were set to go out too (would have had to call them up to flake them too (or simply not even call lol) if the French European one hadn't flaked me).
The second one was a blond brown-eyed thin-bodied catty, late 20s, control freak, tat on her right thigh (but I'd looked past that when I'd first met her, not my first choice). She'd told me before that she was bi-sexual. I KNOW bi-sexual women...Extremely Moody types of women are bi-sexual women. They tend to be VERY controlling, disrespectful of You as a Man. They don't see you as being anything special, being a Man, actually MOST bi-sexual women see us men as less than human, something to be trampled over, something to be abused physically And mentally. That's been my experience with bi-sexual women. We'd been on good terms up until yesterday afternoon. This is not really a flake, but a more of her giving me some serious petty Sh!t! asking me to do stuff for her, you know, extremely RULEY trying to make me do everything by her dictation (establish a strong frame with me, to try to bring me into her HER reality, Her "world"). I'm not submissive and a real man, so we locked horns yesterday and I was "See yah
" no wait, I'm NEVER gonna see her again, this psychopath. She was born and raised in the swamps of Florida, so I did not want to become another Lorena Bobbit victim. She was That nuts. When I'd first met her, while strong personality type, wound up tight type, she wasn't as offensive or abusive as the attitude and behavior she showed toward me yesterday. Not cool. Drop her like a rock!
The third flake, is one I'd first met in April and have maintained contact since, finally getting her to do something last night (or so I'd thought). We were supposed to meet up at a club. She was already there, and when I'd got there, I messaged, called no answer, then she answered (but thought she'd hung up) and I could hear that she was no longer there but in a car talking with another guy, I could hear the convo about something in the news can't even remember what they were talking about. I hang up after a minute of eavesdropping. When I leave the club about 30 mins later, she calls apologizing that her battery had went dead, blah blah, phone fvcked up....I'm like yeah, riiiight, I tell her that I don't want to be 2nd. She insists that she's not with any other guy. I call bullsh!t and hang up. This b!tch, young and hot-bodied, simply Lied to my ears (she did not know that she'd accidentally not hung up her phone). She's also a drugie, I suspect, so..
3 flakey b!tches in one fvckin day guys. That's a record, for me. Have contacted 2 others to do something this afternoon. One is married (careless sexless husband) with 2 adolescent sons, I've been in contact for months. She wants to come clean my house, but I told her this morning that I'd already hired a Mexican team to come clean it first week of September.
The other is a young Amero-Indian girl I'd met recently through that same nerd girlfriend (my main social circle, I've fvcked 5 of her friends). She probably can't do anything today. I'm just fishin,' castin' my line.
Bad weekend guys
