spang said:
i know this type. i once heard a guy refer to himself as "i am woman man!". then he went on to describe himself with a big W on his chest, like a superhero who comes to their rescue. of course, woman man is a virgin.
Man, thats just too funny. :crackup:
I think a lot of guys view women as innocent, precious, delicate, and in need of rescuing. Women, of course, aid in this - in their attempts to save face and appear this way. But most guys end up finding out (the hard way) that its all BS, and they are no where near as good or innocent as they want to be perceived. Or, as the guy WANTED them to be. A lot of this fairytale **** is in the guy's head. And, the fact that they get no where with them - other than used, played, deceived, etc, and the women STILL act innocent and play the victim, and blame the guy. This truth is very harsh, and ends up with a lot of extreme behaviors (ie, jerks).
Its mostly just believing what women say. Its always someone else's fault, they can never get a break, all guys are jerks... Never holding accountability for anything - even though THEY make the choices. And guys buy right into it, and sympathize with them - not realizing who they really are.
You see a lot of this on internet articles, too. "Why women date bad boys", for example. They never take the blame, or tell the truth. And its even the good guy's fault for being boring and unexciting. Or their parents, for being unavailable. You never hear, "theyre shallow, horny, and just want wild sex with hot guys", or are selfish and want only what they want, and feel entitled to getting their way, or projecting their flaws and insecurities onto the bad guys, so they can complain and blame them instead, or they share the EXACT same characteristics and attract what they are, or theyre co-dependant and crazy-obsessive, and need to be needed, seeking approval, etc. Nah... Theyre so nurturing, selfless, helpful, and want to save them out of the kindness of their hearts. Most of them even claim to be good girls falling for bad guys... Like they were tricked into it. Ha Ha.
Please... *****es are very intuitive about people, and know whats up. They choose these shady characters, and avoid decent folk. Theyre not oblivious to whats going on; who they're targeting and what their intentions are. They just dont want anybody else to know.
Even to the extent of having them feel special when the bad guy is nice to them... This is because they view themselves as special, unique, different, and better - only to ***** and whine when this isnt the case. There's a lot of ego, competition, and **** involved. The high status guy chose them, and is nice to them, so now theyre a special snowflake, and have a hot guy to show off. But when this doesnt happen - they ***** and cry because theyre not special, cant get what they want, dont have a prize to show off, etc.
I think a lot of them also delude themselves into believing all this ****. Even the worst of the worst claim to be good, wholesome, and of quality. ****, even when they become all-out *****es and *****s - its STILL the guys fault for making them this way. Nothing but excuses to justify everything they do wrong. They'll even go as far as blaming "biological" caveman ****.
But the guys do this all the same. ****, most of these articles are written by men. They justify everything they do wrong, too, and the women lap it up. Just more excuses for them to use. Idiot men. :cuss:
Pedestalizing women also has a lot to do with it. They view them as angels based on how they look on the outside; become infatuated and have their head in the clouds; hear and see only what they want to; put themselves in their shoes and take their side; make up excuses for their behaviors; and always view them as the perfect innocent little victim in need of saving.
Of course, it all comes crashing down in the end, and they find out women are just as selfish, shallow, two-faced, manipulative, etc as the rest. They arent special, they are responsible, etc, etc. Just like everybody else.
Its all illusions, really. Bunch of fluff and crap shrouded over reality.
Theyre all idiots if you ask me. The guys for wanting women to be this way / believing this **** to be true - as they perceive it to be - and the women who aid them based on self-delusion. A lot of people - WKs included - simply believe to be far better, more honorable, and selfless than they really are. Theyre all living in a fantasy world.
The truth usually comes out when people cant get their way. The hot girl didnt choose the WK, so now he becomes a jerk and views all women as *****s. When he wasnt all that great to begin with. So on, and so forth.