Why do MEN today tolerate so much abuse from women?

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I have a serious question for all men: Why would you tolerate being treated like anything less than royalty in your relationships with women?

What I see more often is men treating women like royalty and women treating men like dirt. And how do these men respond? By treating the women even BETTER. :crackup:

Men.. when will you take back your dignity? When will you take back your self-respect? When will you stop being co-dependent fags?

Imagine what would happen if ALL men refused to be in relationships with women UNLESS that woman treated him like loyalty. Women NEED relationships more than men do. So why are men to desperate?

Arrogant women should only be used for sex. Real women treat men like kings.
 

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Can't speak for anyone else, but I tolerated 2 long term emotionally and physically abusive relationships because I didn't know better. I fell for the bait that men are supposed to 'endure'. I also had very little self worth at the time.

I agree with you, we should accept nothing less than good treatment. My bull**** threshold is way lower now.
 

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You been hanging out in the wrong circles. I know loads of dudes who put themselves first and don't take $hit from anyone including women.
 

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Poon King said:
I have a serious question for all men: Why would you tolerate being treated like anything less than royalty in your relationships with women?

What I see more often is men treating women like royalty and women treating men like dirt. And how do these men respond? By treating the women even BETTER. :crackup:

Men.. when will you take back your dignity? When will you take back your self-respect? When will you stop being co-dependent fags?

Imagine what would happen if ALL men refused to be in relationships with women UNLESS that woman treated him like loyalty. Women NEED relationships more than men do. So why are men to desperate?

Arrogant women should only be used for sex. Real women treat men like kings.
Come on bro I think you answered your own question in one of your previous posts.

Society loves men with low self esteem, and values men in relationships and who are married. Whether they take constant abuse, spend loads of $$$, lose their sense of value and identity, they are still considered more valuable than the single guy because the woman has deemed him "worthy" enough of being with him.

Being in a relationship/married is almost the end all and be all now. Doesn't matter the backstory, doesn't matter the abuse, doesn't matter anything. Girl on your arm -> you have value. Society values what they can see, and they can see a girl on your arm. People can't see that you are alpha behind the scenes and take no bs, they don't care about that stuff.

When you got the commander in chief afraid of his wife and getting divorced, regular guys don't stand a chance. Also, low self esteem + relationship = consume consume consume + spend money spend money spend money!
 

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Poon King said:
Women NEED relationships more than men do. So why are men to desperate?
1. Arrogant, yet desperate women know their targets which are usually weak, passive males. The weak, passive male doesn't really know that much about women because they have very little experience with women in general because they have lacked confidence, looks, or something tangible. The dominant female seeks relationships with these types in order to CONTROL.

2. Good natured, well-behaved women know their place and respect the male role in the relationship. These are the relationships that last.
 

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I love seeing these types of girls. I always call them out on their BS and it horrifies them to no end.

They don't deserve it. I don't understand how a girl can say the EXACT same thing as me, but since she's a girl it's okay for her to say. But if I or any other man said it, he'd be a douche / d!ck / creep. That's why I say what I want when I want to whom I want. And if somebody doesn't like it, tough luck, that is who I am.

Men, take back your man hood and call women out on what they do wrong. They need to learn their place. Women call for equality? Give it to them. If they say something stupid, look at them weird like they would you. If she says something not funny, don't fake a laugh. Otherwise they think that in fact they are comedians, but they're just like everyone else. This is where women get empowerment.

I think we should all take a stand.
Oh so young, yet oh so wise. :up:

I'm actually jealous.

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Come on bro I think you answered your own question in one of your previous posts.

Society loves men with low self esteem, and values men in relationships and who are married. Whether they take constant abuse, spend loads of $$$, lose their sense of value and identity, they are still considered more valuable than the single guy because the woman has deemed him "worthy" enough of being with him.

Being in a relationship/married is almost the end all and be all now. Doesn't matter the backstory, doesn't matter the abuse, doesn't matter anything. Girl on your arm -> you have value. Society values what they can see, and they can see a girl on your arm. People can't see that you are alpha behind the scenes and take no bs, they don't care about that stuff.

When you got the commander in chief afraid of his wife and getting divorced, regular guys don't stand a chance. Also, low self esteem + relationship = consume consume consume + spend money spend money spend money!
Spot on. And yes I know the answer to my own question. The purpose of this thread is to get other men to ask themselves this question. To ask themselves WHY they have no dignity.

Men need to ask themselves what value women bring into their lives compared to the cost. Is it a good deal? Does she enrich your life and make your life easier than it was as a single man (financially, emotionally, sexually, etc)? High value women enrich your life and are highly useful outside of sex. They respect men and treat the man they are committed to like royalty. No man should "commit" to anything less.. ever.

If your woman doesn't worship the ground you walk on.. then she is trash. Why? because the very definition of "trash" is to be worthless. And a woman who doesn't respect you and doesn't add value to your life is indeed worthless to you.
 

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Poon King said:
Oh so young, yet oh so wise. :up:

I'm actually jealous.



Spot on. And yes I know the answer to my own question. The purpose of this thread is to get other men to ask themselves this question. To ask themselves WHY they have no dignity.

Men need to ask themselves what value women bring into their lives compared to the cost. Is it a good deal? Does she enrich your life and make your life easier than it was as a single man (financially, emotionally, sexually, etc)? High value women enrich your life and are highly useful outside of sex. They respect men and treat the man they are committed to like royalty. No man should "commit" to anything less.. ever.

If your woman doesn't worship the ground you walk on.. then she is trash. Why? because the very definition of "trash" is to be worthless. And a woman who doesn't respect you and doesn't add value to your life is indeed worthless to you.
Anyone would eventually grow bored and lose respect for any chick who worshiped the ground he walked on. It becomes a boring no challenge.

Treated like royalty? Lmao. Poon you've been watching too many Disney movies and are brainwashed by them. Snap out of it dude. You want to be the little princess in a relationship? :crackup:
 

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Women have been so twisted by our society it's really sad.

They are told that they can 'have it all', and simultaniously told, "they are victims".

Well.... what the fvck is it.... are they queens or victims? No wonder women are confused as hell.

This is all the the fault of weak @ss beta chumps who continue to treat women in their lives like they can do no wrong. The problem of the beta AFC is that all this bowing and scraping does is drive down any respect she has for you. No respect = no love.
 

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And one of the big reasons why men have turned into chumps, is because they don't have the strong role models of the past, did Grant pander to Hepburn in any movie, did he ****?

Compare that to Friends, written by biggest AFC's ever - no wonder men don't know what to do...
 

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nemz said:
Compare that to Friends, written by biggest AFC's ever - no wonder men don't know what to do...
In retrospect, Friends kinda sucked. I wasted a good few years on that show. Earlier episodes were more smartly written, true, then after its success was realized, I felt plots and situations started pandering to the audience, not unlike what happened with Family Guy, the characters became caricatures, awash with double standards....The Danny DeVito episode where he was a stripper was absolutely painful viewing for those who have been at that end of humiliation by a female audience...

Look where's it's brought us. Jen Aniston is still plugging products, and lets face it, as a celebrity, she's now in the same circles as vile prejudicial cvnts like Katie Hopkins.

Alas, it was the status quo at the time.

Also the posts about value and consumption are right too.
Makes me wonder what all those years of schooling, being worked like dogs by authority figures, was all about.
 

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I'd say my only problem would be lack of self esteem and self belief, when your with a women you think the bad treatment is what you deserve.

And I suppose having lack of self esteem also means having few to none options. So there's that as well.

Fortunately I'm leaving the old me behind me in 2014 and am done with the excuses this year.
 

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Because most fools female-radar is tuned to what was up in the 18th century. "Oh a pretty girl she must be nice". I was like that too nothing to be embarassed of its just what society teaches you.


You have to notice evil (above average evil) women and if you call them on their BS they will be the sweetest beings ever.

See, I have this girl I know, she is the worst kinds of an evil *****, she broke the friendship of two best friends (ofc its their fault they were dumb enough to allow it, high class faggotry). So I recently met her by accident and ended up at her place for a cofee. It is apparent she got tired of her current fool, but instead of givin her the D, I called her on her BS, said that a normal guy would not tolerate her in any matter, and if she was my girl and pulled these stunts and talks down to me like she does to her boyfriends Id dump her ASAP. She actually agreed and even said shes becoming worse and worse with time lol. ****ing psychos.

See, a week later she wrote me she started this sweet job and sent me the link to the job site where their advert was so I applied and guess what the HR girl on the phone digged me and the interview is on Tuesday.

I know she has some stupid plan in mind, I see through female BS easily, but why should that affect me? I know this game, I was like that too, "helping" people who didnt ask for it only so you can feel less of an *******. This is the ultimate narcissism, and I try to avoid such acts nowadays. She always traps her fools this way, she helps them in some matter, so they feel oblidged to her so she can pull her stupid stunts. Ahaha I think shes trying to sell used cars to a used cars salsemen here.

See there is use of these evil women just DONT ****ING SLEEP WITH THEM. If you sleep with them grats youre ****ed.

There are also these kinds who are not exactly evil, more like unintelligent, to a point they do evil stuff out of stupidity much like a kid. They are even worse and are of no use at all.

PS: Just listen to Poon if you want to prosper this guy is golden.
 
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TarantulaHawk said:
Anyone would eventually grow bored and lose respect for any chick who worshiped the ground he walked on. It becomes a boring no challenge.

Treated like royalty? Lmao. Poon you've been watching too many Disney movies and are brainwashed by them. Snap out of it dude. You want to be the little princess in a relationship? :crackup:
No the KING.. not the Princess you goof.

And if more men raised their standards, self-respect and dignity.. we wouldn't have so many arrogant, careless, abusive and disrespectful c*nts who believe they can treat men like disposable tools.

Men are still the most powerful gender. However, women are more skilled at mind games and manipulation as women focus most of their lives on "relationships" while men focus on worldly matters.

In short.. men manipulate the world and women manipulate men. Which is why foolish men become white knights and take pride in self-sacrifice. All those boyfriends who took bullets for their girlfriend during the Dark Knight shooting a few years back.. guess what? Those men are dead and their women are f*cking someone else. :crackup:

Now consider a KING and his harem of women. Would a KING take a bullet for any of those women? HELL NO. Why? Because he is not a f*cking idiot and actually values himself. UNLIKE most men today.
 

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Poon King said:
No the KING.. not the Princess you goof.

And if more men raised their standards, self-respect and dignity.. we wouldn't have so many arrogant, careless, abusive and disrespectful c*nts who believe they can treat men like disposable tools.

Men are still the most powerful gender. However, women are more skilled at mind games and manipulation as women focus most of their lives on "relationships" while men focus on worldly matters.

In short.. men manipulate the world and women manipulate men. Which is why foolish men become white knights and take pride in self-sacrifice. All those boyfriends who took bullets for their girlfriend during the Dark Knight shooting a few years back.. guess what? Those men are dead and their women are f*cking someone else. :crackup:

Now consider a KING and his harem of women. Would a KING take a bullet for any of those women? HELL NO. Why? Because he is not a f*cking idiot and actually values himself. UNLIKE most men today.
Cancel your subscription to the Disney channel before it winds up driving you to shoot up a theatre showing Cinderella 2015.

Either that or come out of the closet and move to San Fran where you can do something "strange for change".
 

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Poon King said:
No the KING.. not the Princess you goof.

And if more men raised their standards, self-respect and dignity.. we wouldn't have so many arrogant, careless, abusive and disrespectful c*nts who believe they can treat men like disposable tools.

Men are still the most powerful gender. However, women are more skilled at mind games and manipulation as women focus most of their lives on "relationships" while men focus on worldly matters.

In short.. men manipulate the world and women manipulate men. Which is why foolish men become white knights and take pride in self-sacrifice. All those boyfriends who took bullets for their girlfriend during the Dark Knight shooting a few years back.. guess what? Those men are dead and their women are f*cking someone else. :crackup:

Now consider a KING and his harem of women. Would a KING take a bullet for any of those women? HELL NO. Why? Because he is not a f*cking idiot and actually values himself. UNLIKE most men today.
I reckon you won't stop anytime with these men are kings post. Your posts contain some enlightening and wise words but sing a new song already. Talk about something else. It's like you're on auto play.
 

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El Payaso said:
I reckon you won't stop anytime with these men are kings post. Your posts contain some enlightening and wise words but sing a new song already. Talk about something else. It's like you're on auto play.
Listen... there are many men on this site talking about something else. Read their posts.

I'm here to educated men. Not to provide entertainment. Reality is on auto play until it changes.
 

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Poon King said:
Listen... there are many men on this site talking about something else. Read their posts.

I'm here to educated men. Not to provide entertainment. Reality is on auto play until it changes.
You're here to "educated" men? Get an "edumacation" yourself first and worry about being treated like a royal Disney princess afterwards. :crackup:
 

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Anyone seen bridezillas on netflix? Seriously you guys should watch it. It goes right to the heart of this topic, and gives a lot of examples
 

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Question.....

So OP, I'm assuming you speak from experience, as most people say you do. Now my question pertains to your view of high value women. Now according to you, these are the only type of women who should be considered for marriage.

How many of these 'high value' women have you seen/dealt with and why haven't you married one yet? {And why is marriage such a 'blue pill' idea if one does marry such 'high value' women? What about polygamy with 'high value' women? Is it still a stupid idea?}

Another question, I know you do advocate men to have self respect and dignity. This is great wisdom indeed. But why can't women have self-respect either? I personally would prefer equal rights with both men and women (because I look at people as humans, not 'man' or 'woman'), I just want men and women to play different roles in society though, but have equal rights nonetheless. I tell you this just to give you an idea on my stance. So I ask again, why can't women have self-respect? You got me wondering this because you said that any woman who doesn't treat you like a king is utter trash. That's basically saying that a woman must be the female version of an afc in order to be considered as high value. Of course, afcs have little to no value. So this contradiction confuses me.
 
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TarantulaHawk said:
Anyone would eventually grow bored and lose respect for any chick who worshiped the ground he walked on. It becomes a boring no challenge.

Treated like royalty? Lmao. Poon you've been watching too many Disney movies and are brainwashed by them. Snap out of it dude. You want to be the little princess in a relationship? :crackup:

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to TarantulaHawk again.

As f*cked up as is sounds this sooo damn true. It feels awesome for awhile but then it just like they are trying to buy your love/attention.

Manipulation at it's highest degree, as we all know woman are completely comfortable with taking advantage of a chump & then tosing them.

There needs to be healthy balance, prize mentality but not to the 10th degree.
 
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