Ok, as I previously stated, I was basically in the exact same situation as you just a few months ago. If you read the start of my journal, you can see that some people may have thought that I was bragging. People told me just to 'let it be' and it would happen. Well it turns out that's exactly what I couldn't do. Here are the main things that I changed in my life that I felt made a HUGE difference in my success with girls.
1. Positive Attitude
This one is #1 for a reason. You have to ALWAYS look for the positives in life. Since you've got so much going for you, anytime you begin to feel bad just think about how well you're doing. Think about the amazing job you're going to get, and all the money you'll earn. Honestly, I haven't felt upset for more than a few moments for weeks. I promise you that in high school, this is a RARETY. Since you've got the social proof, noone is going to call you a loser for being like this, even though it is different from everyone else. Girls will GRAVITATE to you. Perhaps in your school, the 'cool' guys just sit back, get high and complain about life and get all the girls. By being outgoing and HAPPY you will CRUSH these guys. Honestly, I have girls calling me up all the time because I make them feel good. Your GENUINE positive vibe is contageous. A final advantage is that when you're looking for positives, positives will happen. I've recently been reading up a lot on the power of the human mind and positive thinking and I'm really starting to understand it. This has helped me a TON at the gym as well as in hockey, and I can't wait to see what my new mindset will be able to help me with in baseball. Honestly, if you can just do this, it will improve EVERYTHING in your life. I was going to put #4 as learn to control your emotion, but basically this is the same thing. Never allow outside circumstances to dictate your feelings. You control your emotions. With the power of knowing that, why on earth would you ever let yourself feel angry or sad when you can feel good?
2. Being Sexual
The problem with the above is that many of the guys who can achieve this mindset are 'nice guys.' You still have to show the women that you're interested in them sexually. Honestly, the best way to combat their feelings is to use A LOT of sexual innuendo and kino. Sexual innuendo is great becasue it'll get them thinking about sex while they're with you. Kino is fvcking unbelievable, for turning girls on. Then obviously, the part which was the toughest for me, you've gotta be able to close. I don't think anyone consciously thinks 'I'll let her make the first move' but that's the thought that I used to always seem to act on. Just go for it, you're going to have to take the chance sooner or later. If you want to hold her hand, do it. If you want to kiss her, do it. In my experience since school has started, I've atleast made out with 9 girls and only 1 has stopped me at the end of the date, but she called me immediately after to say she had a great time and we still go out on dates. If you keep the kino and sexual innuendo strong, by the time you go to make the move, the girl will jump your bones.
3. Keep Plenty Of Options, and Be Honest
I've read a lot of threads around here, and this one might be for high-school only, but it's one of the most powerful things I've done. Obviously, to start you have to talk to lots of girls, and create lots of options. With your sense of humor, status and positive vibes, this won't be a problem. Now you have to ask them to hang out. HB5 - HB10, doesn't matter. Go out, in public. Come home get girl 2, same thing, public. It's high school, word will get around that you've been hanging out with lots of girls. This raises your social proof HIGHER, and the girls will become a little jealous and their attraction for you is AMPLIFIED. Now here's the important thing. You want to keep MYSTERY but NEVER lie. Believe me, there will be more than one occasion when 2 girls ask you to hang out at once. DONT lie about what you're doing. Just say you're BUSY. The girl will keep pressing, but stay strong. They might appear a little flustered, or call you a jerk, but they don't mean it. If you get asked about a certain girl, ALWAYS say 'we were just hanging out,' 'we were just getting a bite to eat,' 'we're just friends.' The WORST thing you can do is go brag to your friends about what you've done. You'll just be shooting yourself in the foot. With these methods, I haven't had a single serious confrontation yet, I've just had LOTS of attracted girls. Another advantage is it will get back to the girl that you said you were just friends. Imagine the last time you got LJBF'd, and imagine the power in them hearing that. However there is a disclaimer to this style, NEVER EVER lie, or promise a relationship to get sex, as I've seen guys get caught doing this and labelled an a$shole. A final advantage to all of this is that even if you go out with a bombshell and get LJBF'd, people will assume you did it because of your reputation. Plus you were seen in public with them, your social proof barrels higher.
