So in your mind, there's only paycheck-to-paycheck and more than six figures.... Most people make 50,000 or less, so why are you surprised when they don't have the means to just burn money, and want to do drinks dates? Why would one want to live a mediocre life at the expense of experiencing as many different women as possible? Those workers that fill those low paying jobs that make society run and your life easier deserve to be don juans as much as anyone...
you just have other problems and banging women is the last one that you should have in that particular scenario
In my opinion is that because guys feel that they are failures they try to demonstrate themselves that they are not by having an obsession about being a pu$$y slayer
which leads to the obsession that money = pu$$y , and then have the idea that women are gold diggers
this is the fatality , and guys in general do not want to accept this as they will have to also accept that they are failures
much easier to blame women than to accept that you are a failure