why do guys think large girls are unattractive ?

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Fat usually isn't an attractive thing.
 

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Originally posted by knight56
Why do most men think that? Is because of her looks?
uh, it's not feminine. If a chick is fat, even if she's "chunky", I won't even think about her sexually
 

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so you saying that fat girls are a no-no when picking up chicks?
 

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uh, it's not feminine. If a chick is fat, even if she's "chunky", I won't even think about her sexually..ooh i see

So you would not use your DJ moves on them lol..
 

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Personally, I like women with good muscle-and-bone curves; they look healthier and more feminine than skinny women.

Still, I don't like fat chicks any more than you guys.
 

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but what if a 200 pound woman hits on you?? Would you say hi?
 

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For me, the large girl often comes with wrinkles or folds in the skin, and sometimes cellulite as well. For me, a smooth complexion, and smooth contoured body is what I prefer. That's the initial unattraction for me.

On a deeper level, if I were to become involved with a larger girl, she wouldn't be able to keep up with my lifestyle. My lifestyle includes mountain biking or road biking around 50 miles a week (between mountain and road together). Or snowboarding in the winter. Or even just lots and lots of walking around (I don't use my car unless I'm pressed for time and need to get somewhere quickly. . . otherwise, I use my bike or walk). She wouldn't physically be able to keep up with me.

I'm not saying that ALL thin girls can either, but the odds of someone thin being able to keep up are certainly greater than the odds of someone large. And so I play the odds when I look for a girl.

Alexi
 

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What do you mean by "large"? Do you mean obese or curvy/thick in the right places? Anyone who is obese is not going to be very appealing to most people, male or female. However, as a curvy/thick woman I can attest to the fact that most men are attracted to women with curvy hips and larger breasts. In fact, in my experience, the majority of men find a curvy woman more attractive and feminine than a very thin anorexic looking woman with no curves and very small breasts. At the same time, the more visible body fat in the wrong places that a curvy woman has, the less attractive men will consider her.
 

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I think you've asked this before Knight.

The true concern here is your decisiveness. You seem to like fat chicks but because of social opinions you are apprehensive about pursuing one.

Personally, I find fat slothlike and gross. People shouldn't have mounds of fat hanging from them. It's not natural. Obesity has only really become a problem since the US was established. Before that, it was a rare thing that only the wealthy "enjoyed", or the Pima indians had due to genetics.

But if you like fat chicks, you're in luck. Since nobody wants them, they're all yours for the pickin. If anyone judges you based on your girlfriend, don't even acknowledge it. Just go for what turns you on.

So you like fatties. so what?
 

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Originally posted by knight56
but what if a 200 pound woman hits on you?? Would you say hi?
I know a woman who is around 200lbs and a little over 6 feet tall. She has very little body fat and is very athletic. Weight isn't really as important as how a person carries it, how tall they are and how fit they are. Women who are bodybuilders weigh quite a bit but are mostly muscle.
 

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Originally posted by superchristx
If she's fat, then subconciously you know she will bear fat children.
LMAO, that's one of the dumbest things I've read on here. Two of my sisters are rather overweight and they have three adult children who are all very physically fit.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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tell us knight, what reasons do you have for finding large chicks attractive? i'd be interested to know.
 

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This post is not about me..I want to know how guys feel about fat girls.
 

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Originally posted by knight56
This post is not about me..I want to know how guys feel about fat girls.
are you not a guy? tell us how you feel.
 

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