Why Do Girls Show COMPASSION?

[Paid Laid & Made]

I am having an AFC moment. I talked to one of my EX's best friends and after almost 1 1/2 months of having been broke up with my EX, she finally came to me and told me that she was very sorry for having treated me bad and she never meant to do any of it. She even went as far as straight out saying that it hurt her to see me suffer with my EX, cause I was trying so hard of being the best BF possible and she could sense it did not matter to the EX and she felt helpless cause she could not help me out. She told me that I never deserved to be treated like that and she hopes that I end up with a girl that can appreciate me and will NEVER treat me the way the EX did. Keep in mind the two of them are very tight. Why did she decide to show compassion and let me know that I was not at fault and her GF was the one with issue?

 

[Big Pappy]

Ask her

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

I already tried, she did not give me a straight answer.

 

[chili kat]

They probably had a little argument over "guys" and somehow, for god knows what reason, you were thrown into the fray to make some kind of point.
My guess is that in result your Ex's friend came off feeling like you did in a way. It's a confirmation that your ex needs to be forgotten about.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

That was my original guess as well. Girls are weird like that. I found it nice of her to admit to me not being a complete failure as BF to her friend, though.

 

[chili kat]

Yeah, you're cool. You just got an ego rub. Run with it.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

After this week, I deserved this ego rub. This made my day. Hope the EX wont find out about her traitor friend, otherwise she will flip. She has managed to basically turn all of our mutual friends against me and yet managed to stay friends with me.

 

[chili kat]

I wouldn't go as far as to say "traitor". More like a "moment of clarity". They tend to fuzz up pretty quickly though.

You're all set with the he said she said. Hit something new.

 

[TTAG]

I think, that maybe she likes you?????

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

LOL. I doubt it, although she might. There are several things preventing me from discovering the truth behind that though. I can't elaborate due to guessing that my EX might know about this site. I can only say that if I could pull it off with her ... I know that I would become a wanted man in a matter of a day

 

[drixsa]

the truth is that it probably was your fault that you got broken up

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Ouch. We like assuming things. My EX got cheated on 5 times in row by her other BF's, I never managed to do that. If you get cheated on 5 times and can't keep a relationship for longer then 1 month, my guess is that I am responsible but definitely not 110%.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Paid, Laid & Made
Ouch. We like assuming things. My EX got cheated on 5 times in row by her other BF's, I never managed to do that. If you get cheated on 5 times and can't keep a relationship for longer then 1 month, my guess is that I am responsible but definitely 110%.

you are generally headed for downfall when you try to be a "good boyfriend"

also you knew your ex had issues yet you dated her anyways

which means you didnt qualify her properly to see if she was suitable to be your G-F

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Oh, I learned from the mistakes I made with her. Don't worry. I was a little AFC and waited before asking personal questions, like did ya ever get cheated on. I also should have been less clingy and less of a puppy eyed dog ***** when around her.

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