Why do girls lie about their sexual past, and why does it hurt me to find out?

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I've never been inn love no, but that's more because I'm emotionally inept at times :p
 

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You gusy are ridiculous ignorant about women. Why do you gusy post and just listen and try toi learn something . I know that deep down inside you have to feel like if you are just talking out of your butt.

"That's the sign of a true pimp. A guy that was obiviously very physically atractive to her and has game to emotionally make her comfortable and horny to fuvk. "- Pimp Sicle

Give me a break dude --- you honestly believe in pimps --ok this what you need to do to get you started on your pimp history.

READ: the ARt of Seduction, and watch American Pimp

then realize that a seducer and a pimp's work both take time and patience ...and thats more than one night.

When it comes to a women --its all about the right time, right place, right guy and her right mindset. Ofcourse if she is drunk thats another story , even my grandfather could **** Daisy Fuentes drunk. There are also different types of women, and they way the define the right moment might differ. For example White AMerican , Black American , And Latin Women have many different views of sex and therefore they fvck depending on different circumstances, but they have one thing in common ,: " THEY DO THE CHOOSING AND THE DECISION MAKING, AND THEY ARE ALWAYS IN CONTROL"( unless is rape).

The guy who gets to fvck them that night is the guy who was able to get them at the right time. Therefore instead of trying to fvck all *****es i suggest go hunting for the ones that show signs of weakness---therefore easier to seduce if you want to put it that way.

Lets say now you found one in a very weak state ---Bro i dont care what you tell that women - she will eavluate you and say i want to fvck him or not.

Some girls go out sometimes with the mindset" the next guy who talks to me is getting lucky" or " if mr tonight is worthwhile he si getting lucky", and many others. Women are to liberal and to free !

If the girl fvcked him into weeks is because she wanted it for some reason and the guy just did the smart move : NOT TO SCREW UP in the time being and went for the ride. Now women are going to make it look like if thee guy is doing all the pushing but in reality they are controlling everything from the backstage.
This is even true for a 15 year old girl and the reason for this is because this is natural to them.


In a concludin remark ...always remember one through fact ....girl multiply the time it took the guy to fvck her by 3 and divide how many guys they have been with by 3 but after 6 they stay at 2 or 3 USUALLY .

A donkey asking questions is wiser than a wisemen answering . Therefore crawl , before you can walk and listen to others and hope they are not talking bs like you guys did today . PRL lover can give you good advice.
 
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Yes Kinetic, I understand - you have 'detached' yourself from an emotional bond with women - I wonder why? Is it because deep down in your conscious you know that they are 'unworthy'? We all have been there and still are!

Yes Bro, 'trust' is the most important factor - never trust a hor!!!

If she isn't your wife and you are 'sexing' her she is a hor and you are just the next pimp in line!! Read The "Knock it off!!!!!!!" thread starting from page 2 - I explain this logically!
 

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Dear kinetic Charm:

"Ah girl won't know she is going to take her panties of, but she might go out open for it, many will be.

It does NOT make them a wh0re or a slut because they sleep with someone the first day they meet, it makes them sexually unrestricted/cool."

bro all women that fvck on the same night are troube-- we are not even talking about if she is a slut or not, who cares by now, chances are she sell you or anyother man that she has never done that and you will never find out. The problem is that women loose their purity and maybe they can hide it from us but not from themselves and they will live with this forever. They will call it a mistake but , bro when the women has been ****ed by so many different guys or in s many disrespectful ways like in a one night stand ---the next guy who gets into a relationship with her usually gets the bad end of the stick --because that women little by little has killed her blue prince - and her views of men is as ****ed up as my views of many women and what ends up happening -- the guy instead f being the man of her dreams , becomes just another man , but in this case he is just a provider....

Its complicated and very hard to explain...hope one day you understand.!
 
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Refer to the "Women's sexual past" thread for further clarification of the 'Hor tarnished mindset' !!!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Yes Kinetic, I understand - you have 'detached' yourself from an emotional bond with women - I wonder why? Is it because deep down in your conscious you know that they are 'unworthy'? We all have been there and still are!
No, I don't think of women as unworthy nor men.

Yes Bro, 'trust' is the most important factor - never trust a hor!!!

If she isn't your wife and you are 'sexing' her she is a hor and you are just the next pimp in line!! Read The "Knock it off!!!!!!!" thread starting from page 2 - I explain this logically!
I do not understand your logic. Why would marriage make sex more or less wrong?! So what if I'm one in a line of several?! One of my very best friends that I trust ALOT is a girl, a girl I used to fvck, a girl that fvcked 11 guys in one year without hesitation. Did I mind? HELL NO, why would I? She is a great girl, the sex was great and she was nice and full of sexual energy, somewhat of a player. She is with a guy now, in love and has been for 6 months and she has NOT cheated on him. Now you might ask how I know this? Because we talk about everything, she even detailed their first sexual experience and his equipment. See, I love this kind of honesty.



Originally posted by tiburon
bro all women that fvck on the same night are troube-- we are not even talking about if she is a slut or not, who cares by now, chances are she sell you or anyother man that she has never done that and you will never find out.
I see you have been hurt or lied too. Sorry mate but I don't see sexually active girls as sluts, nosir. I don't even see infidelity as slutty.

The problem is that women loose their purity and maybe they can hide it from us but not from themselves and they will live with this forever. They will call it a mistake but , bro when the women has been ****ed by so many different guys or in s many disrespectful ways like in a one night stand ---the next guy who gets into a relationship with her usually gets the bad end of the stick --because that women little by little has killed her blue prince - and her views of men is as ****ed up as my views of many women and what ends up happening -- the guy instead f being the man of her dreams , becomes just another man , but in this case he is just a provider....

Its complicated and very hard to explain...hope one day you understand.!
I think you need to grow up and understand one day. First of all there is nothing PURE about sex or about pvssy. A virgin is not pure, that's just religious bullsh1t. They will call it a mistake?! Ok I guess you just meet lame women. I almost ALWAYS end up GOOD friends with my lays (depends on what kind of girl and how good she was) and I ALWAYS debrief the girls in bed. If I followed the logic around here that a girl will divide by three or keep it below 3... Then one girl I fvcked really had over 30 guys and another over 90... Girls have no problems telling me they've had 14 guys, one girl even had 35 guys before she was 20. They still managed to fall in love. You know WHY these girls are honest?! Because they know that for me it does not matter, I'm "secret society", I'm a player, they know this, they know I fvck alot of girls, they know noone will hear of our sex and that the details are between us.

Sure girls will lie to guys that they see as providers, as AFCs or as potential usable BFs but they will NOT lie or hide stuff like that from someone that it is not necessary todo too. I think even PlayerSupreme will back me on this one.

Like one of the girls I'm seeing now, I KNOW she is seeing one sometimes two other guys, HOW? She told me. Do they know she sees other people? Hell no (this I know for a fact). When she is together with one of them, she is thinking "Wooow slow down, it's not you and me, I just got out of a relationship, take it slow, i'm not ready" when she's with me? It's OMG *RIP OF CLOTHES*. I had a party home last night, 13 people including her.

My room was open since the music was played from there, we fooled around and dryhumped on the bed the wholetime until she crawled under the sheets and pulled me inn and proceeded to rip of her pants and my pants and get it on WITH 12 OTHER PEOPLE walking inn and out of that room. She's constantly wanting to know how many girls I've been with, telling me I'm a s|ut, a wh0re and what not and in return I call her a s|ut, a wh0re, a cnt, cheap and what not. We do this the whole time and it's MAJOR ATTRACTION but I don't see her as a slut though, I see her as someone that is seeking what she wants and needs.

Another girl I saw that I've written about before. She had 35 guys before going into a relationship. She had been seeing him for like 5 or so years when she one day threw herself over me in the kitchen and we went into a bathroom and fvcked and fvcked and fvcked until she was exhausted. Everytime I saw her out clubbing or somewhere I could just give her one of my stares and I could see DDB eyes and her hornyness almost killing her. She would gladly suck me of for an hour in the park. Do you think she was doing this with EVERYONE?! Or actually anyone else ?! Sorry no.

Do I see her as a slut? Nope sorry I don't, but you people probably do.

Keep your moralistic crusades going, they are hilarious. OH NOES A WOMAN HAS FVCKED A GUY AFTER ONLY 3 HOURS OF KNOWING HIM, I really wish it was me so I would have been the one making her the wh0re and I ofcourse would just be another guy so it would of course not be MY FAULT!! Stupidness.
 

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Some responses from this board

***She is a fvcking slut. She is impure***
Hypocrisy. I know the double standard of calling a woman a slut if she sleeps around but giving props to a man who does so has been discussed a lot, but it seems that it still hasn't really sunk in for some people. Come on everybody, look around, what kind of message board are we posting on? A message board about getting women. One of the dominant life philosophies here at SoSuave is having sex before marriage. So why so vehemently condemn a woman who has done pretty much what most every guy on this site has done or is trying to do? It's not like Engestsu's girl went on a bedroom crusade sleeping with seven people.

***The girl is a liar. What else has she lied about?***
Why did this girl lie? Because she felt an extreme societal pressure to not do what she did and she feared societal repercussions. I know a girl who is a complete virgin, yet within her Christian group she has the reputation of being a hor and is ostracized because of it. Her accusers, however, are not virgins. I think this hypocritical situation parallels what is going on with this discussion right now.
Because Engetsu's girl lied about her sexual past does not necessarily mean she has lied about lots of other things. Almost everyone lies about their sexual past.

***First of all there is nothing PURE about sex or about pvssy. A virgin is not pure, that's just religious bullsh1t ---Kinetic Charm***
Yes. Welcome to reality everybody.

Engetsu, you really didn’t object to having sex with this girl outside of marriage and didn’t complain when you were getting some, yet when you found out your partner had done so it sent you trippin. Did you lose your virginity with this girl? If you did, it would imply that you too were “just trying to get it over with” and not waiting for marriage and were just upset because it wasn’t you who broke the girl in. If you didn’t lose your virginity with this girl, then it means you have had sex before, which means you and the girl are on equal footing. Therefore, she must be a slut…wait, no.

PuertoRican_Lover, you strongly condemn this girl for having sex outside of marriage. Have you ever had sex outside of marriage? Yes, you have.

Peace.
 

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Bo hoo the girl had sex.

Bo hoo the guy had sex.

Give me a break.


Girls lie about their sex partners they have had or have not.

Guys lie about their sex partners they have had or had not.

I mean look at this message board. More then half the people on this site are "internet DJs".

so stop complaining about some girl who had sex with somebody before you.

Unless your banging a 12 year old girl , the chances of u hooking up with a virgin become slimmer everyday that u get older.

and if u aint a virgin yourself, what the hell is your point.
 

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Silly, plain silly.

Firstly - your chick had sex with 1 guy before she even meet you - and your crying about it. AFC.

All the other guys who calls a woman THAT HAD SEX WITH 1 GUY a HO - you've got some serious problems to deal with.

I wonder why PRL and the others are still single in their 40's.

I'll tell you why, because they are part of the fanatics in this world who are so quick to judge others.

Sorry - but that is the truth of it.


Having sex before getting married is an absolute must..... We no longer live in the 1800's - we live in the 21st century.


Guys you have one life and one life only.

Look for a woman that will make you happy. Look for someone you can trust and that is honest.


To the original poster.

Forget about the last guy she slept with.

Make her understand that if she lies to you again it's over. Move on. Your to young to let sh#t like this get in your way.

You'll be lucky to find a girl that's only slept with 1 guy by the time your 25.
 

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I agree with NewMan about keeping it in perspective. A lot of guys on this board have seen and talked about much worse (and most girls have had ONS at least once).

This particular lie was a face-saving lie, and less an issue than other things she could have lied about
 

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This is unbelivable

This reminds me even more why I stopped posting here. Kinetic [C]harm , you dont even believe the bull**** coming out of your mouth.

Like i said before women and men , humans are very complicated creatures and none of us will ever compltetely understand our kind , even less the opposite sex. Women tend to understand gbetter men than men do women, and this whole website is a perfect example of how little the people in it know about them.

The truth is think whatever you can , try to lie to your heads if that makes you happy and sleep at night, but the truth is if yoiu guys ignore the concept of purity in the pyschology of women and men you might aswell say that 1-1= 55;

Kinetic [C]harm since i am not going to waste my time trying to teach a rookie whoo is closed minded and will get burned hopefully before you get married which i doubt it, I will just give you another tip , that maybe will help you with this women whoa are making you a looser.

Good Friends with your laids..lol....nigga please ...lol? You really not see the problem with was going on here? Finally stop assuming stuff in life like you sjut did about me because you will make many mistakes.

For example this time you just missed and if you keep on this assumption routine what will end up happening is that you will do the same for some women and you will get burned nasty. You are just trying to excuse your slutty friends from being sluts but you yourself konw you wouldnt want them for the mother of your kids. Its only natural, because I can only hpe you dont want the mother of your kids telling your little daughter that is ok to **** 90 guys.
 

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THIS IS NORMAL CHICK BEHAVIOR.

Get over it.
 
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One sided love is always a bad idea, and it seems that's what we have here. She didn't seem sorry because she's not and now she thinks you're a overemotional baby who can't be a man. Harsh, but that's a chick for you.

Please remember that 90% of women are STONE COLD WH0RES.

Your judgement here is correct tho:
"you're just the next pimp in line".
That's all you are to her, sorry dude.
 

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One sided love is always a bad idea, and it seems that's what we have here. She didn't seem sorry because she's not and now she thinks you're a overemotional baby who can't be a man. Harsh, but that's a chick for you.



What do you expect? Someone to regret his/her past? Why? in this case there was nothing bad about it. She's not a hooker or stripper. She had sex with some guy

What you all fail to realize is the your past exepriences etc. make you the person you are today. She meet him - perhaps if she had never fvcked this other guy she never would have meet him.

You can't change the past.

The past is what makes you the person you are today.


Let's say your now a DJ - you meet a girl - and you tell her all about your AFC past. Then she dumps you because she says that you paid more attention to the other girls you were with - and now you won't even buy her flowers etc.

That's not fair - becaus ehte other girls turned you into the man (DJ) you are today.


Don't deny the past. Use it to learn.


Your all very insecure men if this kind of sh#t bothers you.


This is the kind of sh#t you need to overcome to become true DJ's.
 

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Re: This is unbelivable

Originally posted by tiburon
Good Friends with your laids..lol....nigga please ...lol? You really not see the problem with was going on here? Finally stop assuming stuff in life like you sjut did about me because you will make many mistakes.
english speak must can soon yes.... Yes I am good friends with several of my lays, works GREAT!! They are PERFECT pivots, and GREAT and HELPFULL friends!! I love them as much as I could love friends.

The truth is think whatever you can , try to lie to your heads if that makes you happy and sleep at night, but the truth is if yoiu guys ignore the concept of purity in the pyschology of women and men you might aswell say that 1-1= 55;
Have you been drinking?! Sorry what on earth is pure about women?! The second blood starts gushing out their vagina they lose any right to call themselfs pure cause it's just disgusting.

For example this time you just missed and if you keep on this assumption routine what will end up happening is that you will do the same for some women and you will get burned nasty. You are just trying to excuse your slutty friends from being sluts but you yourself konw you wouldnt want them for the mother of your kids. Its only natural, because I can only hpe you dont want the mother of your kids telling your little daughter that is ok to **** 90 guys.
I missed what?! I'm not making any excuse, I don't think they are slutty.

Kinetic [C]harm since i am not going to waste my time trying to teach a rookie whoo is closed minded and will get burned hopefully before you get married which i doubt it, I will just give you another tip , that maybe will help you with this women whoa are making you a looser.
Who is closeminded? The person trying to force me to agree with him or the person that has an openminded view of womens sexual life and urges?!

and yes of course women make me looser, if I wasn't loose I wouldn't **** as many girls! DOh. But I guess you actually ment loser, eh?
 
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