nismo-4 said:
False IOI's. IOI's don't mean sh*t. If she shows up on the date and f**ks, that's an IOI. Anything else is fluff. Take it with a grain of salt.
Exactly right, honorable judge Nismo.
Last year, there was a girl I was gaming a bit, trying to get out, bang, etc. You know the drill.
Though I never blew up her phone or got into too many online chats, there were a few (and none very long). At the end of every one, she signed off "xoxo" and a smiley face.
What to know what become of that?
1) She never agreed to meet me out.
2) She lied about her relationship status (i.e., said she was just out of a divorce, was reticent about dating...all the while banging a buddy of mine, though she didn't know we knew each other).
3) Continued her flirty ways with me after dropping guy in (2) above and branch swinging to new guy... while still signing off with "xoxo."
I dropped my pursuit before I even knew about these guys because she didn't play along with my game plan. Still, when I found out, I chuckled. Women...
X's, O's, and smiley faces meaning nothing to most hos except as a way of keeping a man like a cat chasing a dangling string. Proceed with caution.
Yes, ultimately they mean nothing until the P is in the V.