Why do gays like me?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

So I'm gonna preface this by saying that I'm straight.

I tend to notice more often than not that for some reason, gay dudes like me. It doesn't happen a LOT, but definitely more than most guys as I always feel like it happens to me more than most other guys I talk to. I think it has to do with the way that I look, because my brother had some creepers too, and my dad had gigolos come after him a lot too when he was younger (my mother always laughed and made fun of him for it because he knew he hated them lol). Now me, I don't hate them per se and I might even make acquaintances with one, but if one of them touches me, then I'm gonna smash their face in. That stuff just weirds me out. And I don't know why they have a liking towards me. Any thoughts?

 

[Meektrop]

Gay guys hit on me all the time so do girls... I don't see why you are tripping it's an ego boost

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Gay guys hit on me all the time so do girls... I don't see why you are tripping it's an ego boost

Cuz I swear it's like I have more guys hitting on me than girls.

 

[wifehunter]

Same here...Cause I'm hard to get.

They have no chance.

 

[The Duke]

I've had more faggots hit on me than girls. One night I had 3 try to hit on me. By the 3rd I was pissed. I understand how girls must feel about unwanted advances.

 

[Urbanyst]

Gay guys like me too.

Don't really care.

 

[John Constantine]

Same here

 

[Who Dares Win]

Never happened in my life..apparently being ugly has some positive sides too

 

[Serenity]

Because you're a man, gay men like men. You're probably an attractive man then, both women and gay men like attractive men.

Also, the tags made me laugh.

 

[Billtx49]

And I don't know why they have a liking towards me. Any thoughts?

You may be more outwardly accepting of others regardless of what you think their sexual orientation is.
I took the a prior GF for drinks to our town gay bar a couple times for sh|tz and grins. She really got into talking to the drag queens, trannies, and lesbos at our table. I got hit on a couple times by men getting drinks at the bar. No big deal.

 

[Thorninmyside]

She really got into talking to the drag queens, trannies, and lesbos at our table. I got hit on a couple times by men getting drinks at the bar. No big deal.

I've had the same scenario. A lot of the time they flirt because it's fun for them regardless of what you like, or they want to see how secure a man is in his own sexuality to either squirm. Homophobes will usually get quite offended.

I laugh it off or make **** jokes. Sometimes single girls have gay friends that will screen you just like one of their girlfriends would.

 

[Dingo]

Never happened in my life..apparently being ugly has some positive sides too

Lol....

I get attention too... Just be polite and decline... No big deal...

 

[dk1990S111]

Man I'm glad to hear you guys have the same problem. There's two guys that work in restaurants near me that make it pretty obvious they want the d lol not mad about it but always wondered if I gave off that vibe or something

 

[resilient]

Weird stuff happening. Glad this doesn't happen to me (or I'm being oblivious to it).

 

[Fruitbat]

I am a big, fairly untidy hairy man. I do OK with the ladies. I am tall too, and big shoulders.

My best friend is a lot smaller, but chislled, dark, italian looking. He spends half his life with gay dudes literally obsessed with him. It is SO funny, me and his GF came to the conclusion it's because he is good looking yet quite small. Many of these gay dudes assume I am his BF as we tend to hit the dance floor together, yet he has a GF so often it's just me and him on there together as his GF dances with her mates.

It's so funny, he has a very even temper, but it always ends up with him saying "Look mate, I'm not gay, I'm sorry, that's my girlfriend" and seeing said gay dude crumple in pain. I mean, ffs, don't they understand 90% of men are straight. It's not even gay/gay friendly clubs.

So glad it isn't me. Only a woman could love me

 

[MillionBillionaire]

I had a guy come up to me and a group of friends and literally do the hand of god. I said.. "WHAT THE FVCK ARE YOU DOING?"

That was the end of that.

 

[The Duke]

There are 2 gay guys that hang out in one of my social circles. They are very friendly and pleasant to be with, but once they get a few drinks in them, they get way too flirtatious and start hanging all over me. I've nicely told them to stop and tried to laugh it off, yet they keep at it. It took getting confrontational with them before they got the message. And when I did, they got all butt hurt like a bunch of chics. They are about as much drama as a bunch of women. I prefer they stick to the gayborhood.