Why do frat guys get laid so much?

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Just some constructive thoughts and observations :)
 

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In no order of importance:

1. They are typically higher in the university social hierarchy like an inner circle of a tribe. This can provide security and safety like any "cool kids" group.
2. They are typically more masculine. They work out regularly and demonstrate stereotypically masculine traits, which can be attractive to more feminine women. They also brainwash members with a code or list of principles that provides them a sense of grounded masculinity and potentially greater maturity.
3. They host parties. When they are at their own parties that they are hosting, they inherently have more power and authority. The experience of regularly hosting parties lends itself to more leadership habits.

In hoc signo vinces
 

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I was in a fraternity(white social one, I don’t know much about the others) in college, and this is a huge misconception. Before I go in to detail and break it down, your fraternity’s clout at the university determined your parties, sororities, and if the campus fvcked with you or not.

1). Do not join a fraternity “to get laid” because they are expensive and you will just get some one night stands out of them if you are coming in to college inexperienced. Yes, you will be exposed to women at parties, but the ones available are mostly sloots nobody wants. Social circles exist in fraternities that stem from High School and other events, so that’s how most fraternity guys find girls.

2). Most of the guys in the fraternity are desperate and single or in a relationship. It is a huge misconception that frat boys are constantly rotating pvssy.

3). The top 1% in a fraternity do have the ability to rotate pvssy and might do so for a semester or two. However, they do end up settling down for a LTR later.
 

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your fraternity’s clout at the university determined your parties, sororities, and if the campus fvcked with you or not
Facts.

Most of the guys in the fraternity are desperate and single or in a relationship. It is a huge misconception that frat boys are constantly rotating pvssy.
Again. Depends on your frat though. Lol

The top 1% in a fraternity do have the ability to rotate pvssy and might do so for a semester or two. However, they do end up settling down for a LTR later.
If the top 1% are in a LTR, that's not a frat u wanna join lol.
 

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There's a lot of variability in frat guys getting laid. Some guys in some fraternities get laid with multiple women. Some fraternity guys get into a relationship with some sorority woman.

We have a great thread about sex life on college campuses. Most men fall victim to the hype of an exciting sex life on campus with multiple women.

 

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If the top 1% are in a LTR, that's not a frat u wanna join lol.
Chads aren’t bitter Red Pilled and are open to settling for LTRs just like anyone else. Also, your animal house Type fraternity is a huge walking target in today’s world and will easily get banned off campus.
 

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Chads aren’t bitter Red Pilled and are open to settling for LTRs just like anyone else.
The dominant ideology towards relationship is the blue pill ideology. There are good looking men who possess a blue pill ideology towards relationships. There are men who are able to attract women with their looks and then seduce them, getting sex. There are good looking men who do have a beta frame and their beta frame becomes more pronounced as long term relationships progress.

It's totally possible for a good looking man to get sex with many women, put up an impressive notch count, and then settle into an LTR and behave in a classic beta male manner.

Also, your animal house Type fraternity is a huge walking target in today’s world and will easily get banned off campus.
True
 

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Seen way too many good looking men and athletes even who almost broke down or killed themselves over a girl. Strong in body but not in mind. Even the guys who got laid a lot and threw away women eventually would find the one and he would invest everything into her. Frat guys are not the stereotypical chad. Same goes for the guys who have a lot of money and are buying their way through life. They do the same as the frat boys cause status and accessibility to girls through a resource yet as soon as they find the one they shrivel up into meek guys. It's funny to watch. And sad. Very sad. But we have all been there before including me. It just means most guys do not have the strength to keep up a masculine frame. Which makes sense. Nothing but soft men these days.
 

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Seen way too many good looking men and athletes even who almost broke down or killed themselves over a girl. Strong in body but not in mind. Even the guys who got laid a lot and threw away women eventually would find the one and he would invest everything into her. Frat guys are not the stereotypical chad. Same goes for the guys who have a lot of money and are buying their way through life. They do the same as the frat boys cause status and accessibility to girls through a resource yet as soon as they find the one they shrivel up into meek guys. It's funny to watch. And sad. Very sad. But we have all been there before including me. It just means most guys do not have the strength to keep up a masculine frame. Which makes sense. Nothing but soft men these days.
I am getting strong Who Hurt You energy from this post.
 

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Their Daddy is rich and they pay people to be their friends. Sororities and Fraternities usually have a brother/sister relationship where one fraternity will be linked with one sorority and there is pressure to date someone from within that group.
 

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It's an easy way of SocialCircleMaxxing, for both sexes. And AIUI, some sororities have a reputation for being loose, like Kappa Kappa Chlamid. :eek:
 
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