Why 'cold approaching' doesn't work.

[Prince of the World]

Women are instinctively fearful (or at least, highly suspicious of the intentions) of strange men (ie men who aren't in their 'tribe.') This is why 'cold approaching' usually doesn't work.

 

[Icegreen]

The great majority of the women I've been with romantically have been from me "cold approaching" them. Your premise is false.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Your gonna catch mad flack for this.

Cold approaching does work homie, correct your post to;

" Women are instinctively fearful or at least highly suspicious of the intentions of a strange man SUCH AS MYSELF & Why cold approaching usually doesn't work FOR ME"

Brush up on your game, and get back out there. Stop with these nonsensical, exorbitant, unconscionable posts.

 

[J Roc]

Cold Approaching works. The night club scene is a numbers game. I went out Friday and Saturday and got 27 numbers. I've ****ed 2 of the chicks so far. I step to every chick I find attractive, put my bid in and let her choose up on me.. The power is in the numbers. Stop playing the wallflower, open your mouth and start spitting game at these broads!

 

[Maximus Rex]

Answer This Question

So where are you suppose to meet women at?

 

[a2chance]

I agree with everyone else. cold approaching does work because you are already perceived as an ALPHA MALE to begin with because usually only men with confidence/women/preselection/etc. approach in this fashion
talk soon,
Bryan P.

 

[JoeMarron]

You're either a keyboard jockey, an extremely ugly mofo, or a dude with weak game.

 

[Prince of the World]

I'm not saying men should never cold approach- rather that the natural female tendency to fear/distrust men she doesn't know is a big obstacle that has that has to be overcome. You have to convince the girl that you are not a threat to her before you can get anywhere else. Remember- women value safety and security above all else.

 

[GotED?]

I'm not saying men should never cold approach- rather that the natural female tendency to fear/distrust men she doesn't know is a big obstacle that has that has to be overcome. You have to convince the girl that you are not a threat to her before you can get anywhere else. Remember- women value safety and security above all else.

The foundation of your premise is correct:

Women ARE cowards and comes from a place of fear based thinking.

However you missed the forest for the tree here on this forum. We are all here to learn the GAME and strategy which will bypass her B!TCH shield in the beginning.

You just need to work on your game, keep going. Add more rapport and charm to your interaction before dropping the bomb to get her number. Also try to gauge any signs of interest before approaching like a kamikaze pilot doomed to fail.

Save your ammunition and firepower for the worthy targets.

Exodus

 

[Pardner]

You gotta be a troll. Before the internet, men met women either through social circle or COLD APPROACH. Women are only turned off by old, ugly, or creepy looking guys.

 

[Peterpack]

Of course it works ! not all of the time but you see all of the success stories

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

If you ever make a BOLD statement like that you should back it up with proof ( which obviously for a statement like this there can be no proof). Cold approaching has worked for me many time and I'm sure it works for everyone as well.

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[MtnMan]

lol@OP
I just started cold approaching for the first time in my life, and I kick myself for never doing it before. Of course it works! (and its fun)

 

[zekko]

Cold approaching can work, but the OP does have a point. Most men are wrapped up in their own problems with anxiety and their own view of the world. They don't often think about it, but women are the weaker sex, and they do have to think about male predators out there sometimes. To some extent, you do have to put them at ease.

This may be one reason why preselection and social proof works. If you have women around you, then chances are you're not the crazy mad rapist killer.

 

[Night-hawk]

Cold approaching is a term with rather negative connotations due to the negative associations, or, to say it another way, the meaning of the term clashing with a limited perspective and or experience. Cold approaching can be as effective as cold reading as long as you know what you are doing: it's turning the unknown into the feeling/ appearance of the known.

 

[nismo-4]

That's if you ain't got the balls to make a move or you're really ass ugly. Get off yo ass and start approaching. You gotta make moves. Don't hold your breath for a woman to fall in your lap.

Case closed. Thread closed. Clear the courtroom.