Why can't more fat women do like this one?

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Because being fat is an easy lifestyle to maintain. You can eat all you want, sit on your ass all day and be guaranteed to stay fat as long as you like.

Also there are guys who will still fvck them.
 

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Because for an average fattie the cost to getting thin isn't worth the reward...

your average fattie chick with a cute face lets say an hb3...can still pull desperate hb 6-7 dudes.....you see these couples in every mall...a fattie chick waddling with a in shape but plain faced dude.....the fattie would have to go from an hb3 to a 7...in order to even THINK about pulling hb 10 dudes....and then only as pump and dumps.....so the average fattie hb3 says fvck it dips another ding dong in chocolate fudge and chomps away...she's already got her orbiters of hb6 dudes who she blows every saturday night when the dudes strike out in the club....she's happy with that...plus twinkies taste real good.
 

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Burroughs said:
Because for an average fattie the cost to getting thin isn't worth the reward...

your average fattie chick with a cute face lets say an hb3...can still pull desperate hb 6-7 dudes.....you see these couples in every mall...a fattie chick waddling with a in shape but plain faced dude.....the fattie would have to go from an hb3 to a 7...in order to even THINK about pulling hb 10 dudes....and then only as pump and dumps.....so the average fattie hb3 says fvck it dips another ding dong in chocolate fudge and chomps away...she's already got her orbiters of hb6 dudes who she blows every saturday night when the dudes strike out in the club....she's happy with that...plus twinkies taste real good.
Sad but true, worse yet is that hb3-4 is not rational as you say, she doesnt realize her condition thus deciding her habits after a cost/gain ration reasoning.

The problem is that hb3-4 we are talking about after herds or orbiters,pvssy starved men hitting on her and her friend providing compliments and support on demand, surely think of herself as a hb7 or even worse as a hb7 with "something special" which elevates even more.

The rational thinking you suggested is more the case of guys, they evaluate themselves according to the percentage of chicks they get, then they estimate what gain they could have through losing some bodyfat and gaining some muscle.

We guys are rational mostly because we base our self confidence or real factors, our friends dont compliment us on demand any time we feel down, they instead make fun of us or straightly tell us whats the problem.
What we have is what we deserve,we dont have short cuts or special treatments.

Apart the reasoning process of the fatty I think you're on point perfectly.
 

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I recently vacationed at a major resort in the Caribbean and could not believe the amount of female moo-cows. With the majority of the couples I saw, the guy was in far better shape than the female.

I look at the young kids and see fat bellies everywhere.

Geezus its pathetic....a world of fat arses.
 

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Sometimes the simplest explanation is the best one. The reason why more women don't do what that woman did is because it's hard to get in shape. It requires a lot of willpower and dedication to accomplish what that woman did.

It's not easy for me to push myself to go to the gym 5 days a week. It's very hard to eat right. It's not easy to bang out those extra two reps at the gym when you're about to break mentally. And I'm a person who was always in decent shape. It's orders of magnitude harder for an obese person.

We could turn it around on a lot of us here. How come we don't all have 6 packs? How come we're not all shredded? It's not impossible. You just have to hit the gym hard and eat right.
 

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Burroughs said:
Because for an average fattie the cost to getting thin isn't worth the reward...

your average fattie chick with a cute face lets say an hb3...can still pull desperate hb 6-7 dudes.....you see these couples in every mall...a fattie chick waddling with a in shape but plain faced dude.....the fattie would have to go from an hb3 to a 7...in order to even THINK about pulling hb 10 dudes....and then only as pump and dumps.....so the average fattie hb3 says fvck it dips another ding dong in chocolate fudge and chomps away...she's already got her orbiters of hb6 dudes who she blows every saturday night when the dudes strike out in the club....she's happy with that...plus twinkies taste real good.
This is an excellent analysis.

However, keep in mind that, by definition, women under 7 can't be "HBs" and "HB" only applies to women because it stands for hot babe.
 

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Lexington said:
Sometimes the simplest explanation is the best one. The reason why more women don't do what that woman did is because it's hard to get in shape. It requires a lot of willpower and dedication to accomplish what that woman did.

It's not easy for me to push myself to go to the gym 5 days a week. It's very hard to eat right. It's not easy to bang out those extra two reps at the gym when you're about to break mentally. And I'm a person who was always in decent shape. It's orders of magnitude harder for an obese person.

We could turn it around on a lot of us here. How come we don't all have 6 packs? How come we're not all shredded? It's not impossible. You just have to hit the gym hard and eat right.
Couldn't agree more!

It's always easy to criticize others, but rarely do we take a good look at ourselves!
 

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Lexington said:
Sometimes the simplest explanation is the best one. The reason why more women don't do what that woman did is because it's hard to get in shape. It requires a lot of willpower and dedication to accomplish what that woman did.

It's not easy for me to push myself to go to the gym 5 days a week. It's very hard to eat right. It's not easy to bang out those extra two reps at the gym when you're about to break mentally. And I'm a person who was always in decent shape. It's orders of magnitude harder for an obese person.

We could turn it around on a lot of us here. How come we don't all have 6 packs? How come we're not all shredded? It's not impossible. You just have to hit the gym hard and eat right.

This. As a fat boy, I struggle with will power. Lack of will power + lack of funds for gym memberships and healthy food = big fat belly. It goes for both men and women, the only difference is that yes, an obese woman can still land some sort of man, where as a man with absolutely nothing going for him (no status, no income, not in shape, not charming) will get zero. That's no accomplishment for those women.

I don't think any of us really care about the men or women at the bottom of the totem pole, I say that as a man who is at the bottom. Everyone else just looks down at the bottom rung with disdain and hidden self satisfaction with their "why can't they just do better?" and their "Why can't they be like X?" rhetoric. You can see it in any conversation on race, or poverty, or obesity, political theory or any other 'unacceptable behavior'. It would be laughable if it wasn't such a common thing.

Take this woman out of the equation and put in any man who went from fat to fit (poor to rich, no status to celebrity) and this post could be on Jezebel or on a cosmo forum. You could easily post something like this there with an altered title. http://imgur.com/TMCEU

Here is a whole forum of progress pics. Male and female. I try to view it for inspiration. http://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics
 

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Zarky said:
This is an excellent analysis.

However, keep in mind that, by definition, women under 7 can't be "HBs" and "HB" only applies to women because it stands for hot babe.
HB in HB3 or HB4 means Ham Beast, not Hot Babe.
 

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Hmm, what could possibly be a motivator to drop 100 lbs. of fat and look good in a bikini for a woman of 27?

Here's an interesting hypothetical for you: Say you hooked up with this woman and she looked marginally hot (an HB7.5 on the Tomassi scale), but at some point she shows you her "fat pictures" to show you how she changed herself; are you more worried that she'll go back to being fat and comfortable once you're in an LTR or married than you would be if you got with a woman who'd always been in shape?

Or maybe not? There's always this beaming sense of self-confidence for articles like this. Kind of ironic since 'confidence' and 'sexiness' are also words used to describe women in fat acceptance articles. I have no doubt that the male attention she gets now provides her with a new sense of confidence, but will that last until the first guy marries her and knocks her up?
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Here's an interesting hypothetical for you: Say you hooked up with this woman and she looked marginally hot (an HB7.5 on the Tomassi scale), but at some point she shows you her "fat pictures" to show you how she changed herself; are you more worried that she'll go back to being fat and comfortable once you're in an LTR or married than you would be if you got with a woman who'd always been in shape?
I think it's a gamble. There have been women who were in shape and got fat after marriage, too.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Here's an interesting hypothetical for you: Say you hooked up with this woman and she looked marginally hot (an HB7.5 on the Tomassi scale), but at some point she shows you her "fat pictures" to show you how she changed herself; are you more worried that she'll go back to being fat and comfortable once you're in an LTR or married than you would be if you got with a woman who'd always been in shape?
It comes down to a womans penchant for being a product of her environment. A regular beta herb? What does she care. A sniff of a 3 parts alpha 1 part beta, a 10 percenter she's always dreamed about who makes her truly happy in the traditional man/woman sense? You bet she will stay fit, a 10 percenter doesn't tolerate fat assery, she knows this as much as he does.
 

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One of the chicks I'm dating is late 30s and skinny as a rail and always has been. Eats like a horse, too. If I were going to find a long-term prospect I'd search for something like that... someone who's genetically predisposed to being thin. Unfortunately this is rather rare.

She also has a perfect .7 waist-to-hip ratio. Another rarity.
 

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Zarky said:
One of the chicks I'm dating is late 30s and skinny as a rail and always has been. Eats like a horse, too. If I were going to find a long-term prospect I'd search for something like that... someone who's genetically predisposed to being thin. Unfortunately this is rather rare.

She also has a perfect .7 waist-to-hip ratio. Another rarity.

Drugs.
 

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Zarky said:
One of the chicks I'm dating is late 30s and skinny as a rail and always has been. Eats like a horse, too. If I were going to find a long-term prospect I'd search for something like that... someone who's genetically predisposed to being thin.
Change the gender and this sounds like me. I always ate like a horse, as you say, and would never gain fat or weight. Think Ed Norton from the Honeymooners. It wasn't until my late 30s that my metabolism slowed down enough that I had to start watching what I ate. I was already exercising a lot, so that wasn't the problem. It was quite an eye opener. We are not immortal, gentlemen.

I'm always surprised when I read about guys in their 20s trying to lose weight since I couldn't have put on fat in my 20s if I had wanted to. My high metabolism just burned it up. There is the issue of growth hormones in food these days that could be making things different, however. Could have something to do with all the fat women too, since females would be more susceptible to such things, with their lower muscle to fat ration.
 

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After looking at those before and after pics, this "transformation" is a bit hard for me to believe.
 

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In regards to Rollo's question. I went out with a chick that was very attractive, but on date 1 told me that she used to weigh 215. At the time of our date she was at around 120. While I can appreciate honesty, I passed. Did 1 date and that was it. I didn't want to fall for a chick that already has a fat past. There's just too much chance she'll slide back. Life's all about choices.
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They no longer have that same motivation to slim down. All they have to do is watch some online porno videos of random no-status heffers getting banged out by 5 guys simultaneously. Which is roughly the minimum number of orbiters she'll have on any Friday night out at any club or bar.
 
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