Why being overweight is more attractive than being underweight.

[ThreeStorms]

Being a rather thin person all my life, I believe I finally found the true reasons why many women don't mind a little fat on her man, while ignoring the really slim boys.

1) Most girls are not content with their bodies. They think they will never be fully accepted by a man who has a very slim figure and that she won't be able to enjoy her fat unhealthy lunch anymore.
2) Deep inside, women believe a man who doesn't even enjoy food won't be having much fun in other aspects of live too.

Men are far more competitive than women. Working out is mostly an ego thing (nothing wrong with that!)
A somehow mature woman won't choose a man over another just because his bodyfat is one percent lower or his biceps is an inch wider. At least for anything more than a one-nighter.

 

[LeviathanIYG]

You can spin it however you like but the fact is women prefer men with abs and great muscle tone or even skinny men to overweight men.

It’s all about reproduction when a woman sees a man her sub conscious accesses all his strengths and this tells her if he is a worthy breeding partner. Obviously a women won’t be consciously thinking “will this man give me good babies” but subconsciously that’s exactly what’s being processed (this is proven by science).

So when a woman looks at a rich man with a good body and good looks she believes he is likely to produce good offspring that have better a better chance of survival in today’s world.

If a woman were to see a slightly chubby man dressed reasonably well exit from a middle class car her attraction to said man would probably be 4-6/10 depending on the woman.

If 3 months later the man became a millionaire lost weight and suddenly became fashion conscious and she saw him dressed very well exiting from a Porsche with a good body her attraction to the same man would be 7-9/10.

This does not mean he cannot seduce her when he is chubby and not rich. If he were to approach her and say the right things he would definitely be able to get her into bed.

But the fact remains that women have a higher IIL (initial interest level) for rich guys who are skinny or have a good body because they believe sub consciously that the rich attractive guy will produce better offspring,

So your theory is majorly flawed.

Of course you could work on your body (go to gym) and this will raise a females IIL .

 

[Ice Cold]

You bodyfat doesn't matter much or at all.

As long as the ass/waist ratio and V shape is there, it's all good.

 

[Tomatoes]

Originally posted by ThreeStorms
Being a rather thin person all my life, I believe I finally found the true reasons why many women don't mind a little fat on her man, while ignoring the really slim boys.

1) Most girls are not content with their bodies. They think they will never be fully accepted by a man who has a very slim figure and that she won't be able to enjoy her fat unhealthy lunch anymore.
2) Deep inside, women believe a man who doesn't even enjoy food won't be having much fun in other aspects of live too.

Men are far more competitive than women. Working out is mostly an ego thing (nothing wrong with that!)
A somehow mature woman won't choose a man over another just because his bodyfat is one percent lower or his biceps is an inch wider. At least for anything more than a one-nighter.

Here comes another excuse for a guy not getting laid.


Load of bull****. Weight is not important.

 

[blinkwatt]

I second tomatoes. I'm 5 8,135lbs and loving it. Look skinny by day and getting the girls when I go swimming.

 

[FRëSHURE]

Re: Re: Why being overweight is more attractive than being underweight.

Originally posted by Tomatoes
Here comes another excuse for a guy not getting laid.

you took the words right out of my mouth.
it must have been while you were kissing me. errrrr......

well said

 

[squirrels]

If being overweight gets more chicks than being healthy...then I guess I'll be single for a while.

I enjoy a good workout as much as I enjoy a good meal.

Women don't PREFER fat OR skinny guys. They prefer guys who are comfortable with the shape they're in. Are you?

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Screw what the women like, Screw what the women want. Im a tone/skinny kinda guy, and it simple. Do what you KNOW IS BEST FOR YOU, YOU DAMN PVSSIES. Achieve what you want to achieve, become the best person you possibly can, not because a woman MAY notice you more, BECAUSE THAT SHOULD BE YOUR NUMBER ONE GOAL IN LIFE. NOW GO WORKOUT AND EAT HEALTHY.

 

[ThreeStorms]

Re: Re: Why being overweight is more attractive than being underweight.

Originally posted by Tomatoes
Here comes another excuse for a guy not getting laid.

I should have written in the original post that I got more massive in the last years and don't have many problems with the chicks anymore (this is not the only reason). But I still see those things I wrote about in some of my friends. So I have the necessary distance to talk about it.

 

[ThreeStorms]

Originally posted by squirrels
Women don't PREFER fat OR skinny guys. They prefer guys who are comfortable with the shape they're in. Are you?

Yeah I am Good point.

 

[ThreeStorms]

It also depends on age. A 30 year old really skinny man just looks sick and ridicoulus, while its ok for a 16 year old.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by ThreeStorms
It also depends on age. A 30 year old really skinny man just looks sick and ridicoulus, while its ok for a 16 year old.

i've been on both sides, and i feel more comfortable when im very fit, in a lean mean fvcking machine kinda way.

chubiness is not sexy at any age. stop making excuses and hit the gym.

 

[backbreaker]

when I was 5'8 215 and 29% body fat, I coudln't **** a horse if you tied it down (not that I would want to)

now that I am 5'8 162 and 11% Body fat, women throw ***** at me like boomerangs

 

[LuvLadies]

I wouldn't say a woman would be more attracted to a Fat persons BODY, but their personality. Bare with me and my blatant generalization. I think an overweight person would just have a more fun personality.

Think back to when you were a kid. Your fat friends were always funny I bet. ITs like they learn how to laugh and make fun of them selves before others do.

The underweight kid is probably the one getting bullied and stuffed into lockers. Hes probably more bitter.

That being said your weight doesn't really matter as you think, unless of course it is tied to you confidence. If you don't care they won't.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by LuvLadies
I think an overweight person would just have a more fun personality.

thats a biggest load of bullsh!t

most fat people i know are miserable whiners.

 

[Holland]

2) Deep inside, women believe a man who doesn't even enjoy food won't be having much fun in other aspects of live too.

What a bunch of shiz.
Thin people don't enjoy unhealthy food. :crackup:
I eat all the unhealthy food I can handle and I also eat a lot of food and I'm still very slim. Maybe that's because I'm a very active person and get a lot of body exercise everyday. It's f*cking ridiculous what you are saying.
Thin people don't enjoy food, lol you should be a comedian :crackup:


And, besides: Outside stuff doesn't matter when it comes to attraction.

Originally posted by Tomatoes
Here comes another excuse for a guy not getting laid.

 

[ThreeStorms]

Hahahaha, glad you are enjoying yourself.
There is a difference between being slim and fit, and being underweight.
You think this guy gets laid a lot?
http://us.movies1.yimg.com/movies.y...eamworks_skg/road_trip/dj_qualls/roadtrip.jpg

 

[Soprano]

i dont trhink it's a skinny or fat thing, i think it's more what your body says about you, and a healthy/unhealthy thing

if you're bigger but if it's obvious u exercise and aren't a big blob of goo, then you're fine

if you're smaller but it's obvious you don't starve yourself all day, then you're fine

nobody wants to date someone who is UNHEALTHY

i used to be all jiggly and had no visible knuckles... yeah i was fat as ****... then i started working out and eating better (no jenny craig ****, just making an effort to be healthier). now i'm still not "slim", but it's obvious that i at least somewhat care about my body. despite not having the so called "ideal physique", ive been more usccesful since doing this.

if you're way off the deep end, on EITHER end of the scale (fat or skinny), it definitely shows.

i say if you're healthy then you have nothing to worry about

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Your charming personality wont make you look any better with your shirt off.

The in shape DJ will ALWAYS outperform even the slightly overweight one. Time to stop wasting your effort kidding yourself and spend it in the gym.

 

[Socialreject]

Hooray for more Poppy **** psychoanalysis...

You want to know who women love guys who look a bit athletic?

Let's think about this now. Oh i know... it's cause they LOOK GOOD. Because they have a strong masculine form! Yes it's already a very overly documented and proven point that women like to see strong men, mentally and physically. Skinny guys look to fragile, fat guys are just plain ugly.

There is no super below the radar primordial mating instinct psychology going on here. It is simply a matter of aesthetics.

You doubt me? OK fine, pick between a 200 pound woman and a a nicely toned chick, they both want you. What are you gonna pick? You know the fat woman is actually more prone to producing a lot of healthy round babies right? But you are still going to pick the good looking chick because she looks good.

Now why would women pick on different criteria?!