Maximus Rex
Banned
Rex is really tried of reading threads like these on this broad
Y'all already know how Rex feels about texting, but that's not reason for this thread. The reason for this thread is because cats aren't doing rudimentary sh*t as it pertains to this DJ thing, and that talking to more than one woman at a time or as we call here, spinning plates.
It seems as if bdbee and fmfan08 got one chick's number, then just focused on that one chick instead of trying to holla at other women. It's not only these dudes, but I'm seeing a lot of threads like this, dudes, that are almost obsessive with making things work with this one broad. If you were spinning plates, then you wouldn't be worrying what one low interest chick is doing because you're working on other leads.
This "one-chick-at-a-time," implementation of the game is only going to hinder your growth and development, in addition, to giving you the feeling that you're perpetually starting over. If you want to get good with women, talk to many as you can reasonably handle. If you do this, then you'll not only stop caring about their seemingly flaky behavior, you probably won't even notice because there's going to be somebody else that you're focusing your attention on.
I met this Spanish girl on an online dating website and we've had two dates, in which she has shown plenty of IOIs like touching, laughing at my bad jokes, asking me questions and getting very close to me in the cinema.
After both dates she has contacted me as normal, we've teased one another before I ask her out for the next date, which is always my aim when texting.
Last Sunday, we arranged a date for this current Wednesday. The conversation started by me pretending to read her mind, joking that she wanted to have drinks with me then take advantage of me. She replied "Well I'd like you sober to take advantage, you'll have to wait and see what happens". I then arranged place, date and time and she agreed.
Now, the last three days she has initiated contact, texting me stuff like "hello!! hows your day going?, "hello naughty boy!! how you doing?" and "Hi naughty ninja how r u?".
Our recent texting went as follows:
GIRL: Hi naughty ninja how r u?
ME: I'm as cool as a cucumberhow about you, cheeky?
GIRL: Hahahah I'm ill!!
GIRL: I got a cold!
ME: I bet this means I'll have to bring a protective mask tomorrow, so I don't catch your cold (n)
GIRL: Or maybe we could change the plans, cause I don't feel too good to go for a drink, except if it's a hot toddy in a place with blankets! Hahah
ME: I was going to take us bowling, no drinks. Should be warm in there if you're up for it, I'll bring my secret special blanket for you
(Two hours later at 11:30 P.M.)
ME: No worries anyway, we can always do this another night.. Just let me know when you're feeling better and up for it
(following morning) GIRL: Yes please! Cause I had fever last night, and I feel terrible!
I should have just sent her that second text, than both, but guess because she always texts multiple times in a row to me, I wasn't bothered with two texts in a row.
Do you think she is blowing me off and is uninterested, or genuinely ill? I know people CAN get ill, but I've had similar problems in the past with other girls, although that was a time when I'd be chasing/acting more interested than the girl... Whereas here, this girl keeps initiating, etc but cancels.-
Girl has Initiated Contact Last Three Days, but has Cancelled Date Due to Sickness, http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....but-has-cancelled-date-due-to-sickness.230540
Y'all already know how Rex feels about texting, but that's not reason for this thread. The reason for this thread is because cats aren't doing rudimentary sh*t as it pertains to this DJ thing, and that talking to more than one woman at a time or as we call here, spinning plates.
It seems as if bdbee and fmfan08 got one chick's number, then just focused on that one chick instead of trying to holla at other women. It's not only these dudes, but I'm seeing a lot of threads like this, dudes, that are almost obsessive with making things work with this one broad. If you were spinning plates, then you wouldn't be worrying what one low interest chick is doing because you're working on other leads.
This "one-chick-at-a-time," implementation of the game is only going to hinder your growth and development, in addition, to giving you the feeling that you're perpetually starting over. If you want to get good with women, talk to many as you can reasonably handle. If you do this, then you'll not only stop caring about their seemingly flaky behavior, you probably won't even notice because there's going to be somebody else that you're focusing your attention on.
