why arent any girls on sosuave?

[ezio]

i've observed an absence of females on this forum. granted this is a male oriented forum but since it deals mainly with male female interactions i believe a female's opinion is occasionally needed to put things in proper perspective. I think there were a few around back in the days but you guys probably scared them off with your misogynist talk and PUA lingo..lol jk

 

[Eternal_water]

Can't trust their opinions anyway, how often do you hear them say they want nice sensitive guys?

I've heard it pretty often and in alot of cases it seems they don't actually know what they wan't themselves.

I don't believe a girl would genuinely give real advice on how to pick them up, they prefer to keep the power.



besides we don't really want them picking up on our tactics do we

 

[Gro0ver]

Can't trust their opinions anyway, how often do you hear them say they want nice sensitive guys?

I've heard it pretty often and in alot of cases it seems they don't actually know what they wan't themselves.

I don't believe a girl would genuinely give real advice on how to pick them up, they prefer to keep the power.



besides we don't really want them picking up on our tactics do we

I've seen advertisments that are aimed at females so i wouldn't be so sure. There's probably ones that lurk just for kicks or to try and understand and rationalise dj behaviour.

 

[Iceberg]

i've observed an absence of females on this forum. granted this is a male oriented forum but since it deals mainly with male female interactions i believe a female's opinion is occasionally needed to put things in proper perspective. I think there were a few around back in the days but you guys probably scared them off with your misogynist talk and PUA lingo..lol jk

There are one or two steady female posters who have been here for a few years. The average girl, however, is useless in giving advice on how to pursue women.

Imagine what a gazelle would say if a lion asked him for advice on hunting.

 

[ezio]

Interesting points but i'm referring to hard hitting girls who call it as it is. not the lovey dovey i like nice guys but still date jerks kind of girls. For instance a guy with oneitis who is being strung along by a chick would rather accept the truth from a girl than from a guy.

 

[perseverance]

From my perspective, women are largely more hypocritical than men. A woman will say "any man who doesn't date a larger woman is a swallow moron", yet they'll drool over someone with a six pack and abs and will flat out refuse to date someone with a bit or a lot of man-tub on their body.

At least with men, you get a honest opinion, a frank assessment.

 

[Iceberg]

Interesting points but i'm referring to hard hitting girls who call it as it is. not the lovey dovey i like nice guys but still date jerks kind of girls. For instance a guy with oneitis who is being strung along by a chick would rather accept the truth from a girl than from a guy.

Hard-hitting, honest girls are hard enough to find in real life, let alone on a site dedicated to male issues. I think you'd agree.

 

[Mike32ct]

It's complicated. I can think of many reasons.

1. Some females have posted and been insulted by some SS members. Then they stopped posting. I tell female posters to have a thick skin lol. Of course, plenty of SS members are respectful and don't mind a friendly debate.

2. I don't think that many females are interested in this site. Or they quickly lose interest because it might SEEM like a bunch of misogynists.

3. They don't want to get swamped with PMs from guys hitting on them or asking 1000 questions lol.

4. With a few exceptions, I don't think females are interested in helping guys with this area of life. It's not necessarily some "We can't give our girly secrets out to men, the enemy" kind of conspiracy. It's more that most females have a binary or black and white view of men. You are either the attractive smooth "natural" or you are a loser, creeper. There is NO in between, and trying to "improve your game" or "make yourself more attractive" is looked at with scorn by most women. First, you were only an ugly loser. Now, in their eyes, you are a desperate TRYHARD loser who won't accept his lot in life, which is considered worse. F283000 said it best, "Women want James Bond. They just don't want you to become James Bond."

Notwithstanding, can some women give good honest advice? Yes, but it's not easy to find, and a guy needs some experience to tell the good advice from
the bad.

 

[MisterD]

F283000 said it best, "Women want James Bond. They just don't want you to become James Bond

This is absolute gold.

Agreed, when you're a natural ladies man, you're a charmer. When you try to become a ladies man, you're a creep.

I would only trust a woman's advice if I've seen her live what she preaches. If she says all girls want xyz, but she's banging a dude that offers abc, we have a problem.

 

[Eternal_water]

No matter what anyone says I will only trust advice that is coming from guys, any advice from girls is getting discarded.

I'm more likely to do the exact opposite of what they say like be a nice guy, respect a girl - haha yeah, no thanks

I completely agree about them wanting 007 license to thrill but don't want you to be bond and certainly don't want to be for your eyes only

 

[Zerro]

A girl's advice is only useful if you do the opposite: ie "I'm looking for a nice guy" really meaning "I'll only give you the time of day if you treat me like garbage."

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Simply put, getting advice from a girl about the dating game is as reliable as getting a field sobriety test from a drunk.

If I want information on premenstrual cycles, I'll talk to a woman. If I want solid dating advice, I'll talk to a man. :yes:

 

[Nik TPT]

Because they don't even know what they want.

 

[Aaron B]

i do my best to run them off when they appear

the vast majority of women have no experience dating women and are thus not qualified to give advice

in addition, women tend to communicate indirectly and will likely answer questions in a way that makes them look good and makes you feel good, regardless of the truth or what they actually believe

 

[timmylivingalie]

There are one or two steady female posters who have been here for a few years. The average girl, however, is useless in giving advice on how to pursue women.

Imagine what a gazelle would say if a lion asked him for advice on hunting.

Exactly