Why are you suddenly arguing with your GF?

Greasy Pig

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I read a survey recently that showed the second-most popular way women admitted using to "get out of" having sex with their husband/BF was to start an argument.
The classic "I have a headache" was No.1.
It got me thinking about my ex and how she would just start fights for absolutely no reason.
We'd go out for a romantic dinner, and I'm expecting the night to end with a good fvcking, but numerous times on the way home she'd accuse me of ogling the woman at the next table or flirting with the waitress.
Complete lies! But it did the trick and there was no sex that night.
Just food for thought if your woman is making up bullsht to argue about.
I don't know what the solution is but this could help you identify any patterns of shyt behaviour.
I'm still shaking my head thinking about the number of times my ex made up shyt to be upset about. It's sad really.
 

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If a girl gives you drama, inside or outside a relationship then you SOFT next them.

They ruin a romantic dinner- you don't take them out again- when they ask why- you tell them 'because you ruined it last time'

Attention and rewards are the currency you use, you should only give them to reward (clues in the name!) GOOD BEHAVIOUR

This also comes from being able to walk away. Fear of loss will reduce the arguments, **** testing and the drama.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
I don't know what the solution is but this could help you identify any patterns of shyt behaviour.
Solution: Kick the frustrated hoe to the curb.


15 minutes later, I felt so butthurt that I had to stop the car and tell her in a serious tone that "only little 2 year olds scream like that, you don't 't talk that loud again."

She tried to kiss me but I held her face back and asked her If she understood what I told her.
That's how I dealt with a raging hoe.
 

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Fvck Mauser, I lost count of the number of times the absolute first thing out of my ex's mouth when I walked in the door were "God, I'm so tired". Morning or night, no matter what time of day, she would always make a point of volunteering it. And of course, no sex. And if it did happen it was a huge chore and she whinged the whole time.
I tried everything espoused on these boards from agree and amplify to withdrawing attention but nothing worked.
It's hard for me to accept but I now realise that those tactics only work on women who are passionately interested in you and want to keep you around.
She obviously wasn't and didn't.
Oh well, you live and learn.
 

YawataNoKami

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Greasy Pig said:
I read a survey recently that showed the second-most popular way women admitted using to "get out of" having sex with their husband/BF was to start an argument.
The classic "I have a headache" was No.1.
It got me thinking about my ex and how she would just start fights for absolutely no reason.
We'd go out for a romantic dinner, and I'm expecting the night to end with a good fvcking, but numerous times on the way home she'd accuse me of ogling the woman at the next table or flirting with the waitress.
Complete lies! But it did the trick and there was no sex that night.
Just food for thought if your woman is making up bullsht to argue about.
I don't know what the solution is but this could help you identify any patterns of shyt behaviour.
I'm still shaking my head thinking about the number of times my ex made up shyt to be upset about. It's sad really.
Water is wet and women loves drama.And that's is an universal truth.

Next time something like that happens ;with straight face tell her you are too old for that stupid behavior.Work for me every time.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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