Why are YOU here on a Friday night?

[aftershock]

(Err, because I worked fvck knows how many hours this week and I'm going out on the piss tomorrow night)

I really think that the first step to becoming a Don Juan is not to be on the Internet on a Friday and/or Saturday night.

Get out there and enjoy life. Now.

 

[frivolousz21]

i Hear ya..I have to work till 9 tonight.

then again my Sarging days are over.


for now:woo:

 

[Kaliffoo]

Well, Im still at work....but as soon as I get out its a date with an HB!

 

[h2o]

i'm going clubbing in an hour or two...just got back from a movie...don't worry i'll be sarging

 

[Centaurion]

i had the most exciting friday night EVER!!!11!!oneone

I went to bed at 4pm for a quick nap before hitting town.....woke up at 9 AM SATURDAY MORNING!!!!!!!!

AAAAARGGGGGHHHH!~!!!!!!!1


ha3t!!

 

[Jariel]

Spent Monday night with a woman, Tuesday night with friends, Wednesday with a friend, Thursday night with another woman so tonight I'm chilling out on my own watching movies.

I prefer going out mid-week anyway. It's more relaxed, cheaper and there are less drunken idiots and sluts taking up space.

 

[fender85]

Trying to watch the damn Busch race but it keeps getting delayed by rain. Not any real sarging going on this weekend - I have a meeting tomorrow evening in Mooresville to see about getting on a team. Career > women right now . . .

 

[Wyldfire]

I'm stuck at home because my car is broke. I'm getting a new one Monday, though. I was supposed to get it today but the bank didn't finish the paperwork they have to do, so now I have to wait a few more days.

 

[backbreaker]

I make more money on Saturdays then any day of the week... Therefore I hardley ever go out on Fridays and if I do, it's to an early movie, I can't afford to be too sleepy to get up on Saturday and not work

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Just got off work, broke (school, car repairs, bills) blew off this girl that called me earlier to hangout.

 

[RedPill]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being home on friday night. Yes, this is one of the two nights a week in which the "party" goes on late. It's totally ridiculous to me how some people will say it's lame if you are not at some establishment staying out til 4 am getting drunk at every possible opportunity.

At 24, I'm working my a** off with my own business. Cash, time, and energy are critical resources for me. I'm getting my proverbial sh1t together. While many I know are out getting crunk and lamenting about how their $10/hr job sucks and this town sucks, I'm working toward building something that will feed me for life. If there were some compelling reason to go out, that would be cool. But after spending my college years getting trashed, eating taco bell at 3 am, and spending every sunday as "recovery day," this activity just isn't so interesting anymore. Now, if there was an actual event involved, that would be something different. Let's say there's a band to go see, or people are out celebrating a birthday. Good deal.

If I went out to the downtown bar/club areas right now - most of the people there are doing this - getting wasted and ESCAPING their lives instead of CELEBRATING them. That or looking for a one night stand. All good fun every now and then, but if your whole weekend is defined by staying out til closing time, getting junk food and passing out, and sleeping away half the next day, man that's sad.

My favorite good times with other people on the weekend almost always happen in the daytime/early evening. Going to the beach, grilling out with friends and watching the game, going out for dinner and beer after getting some project done. And oh yeah the girls you meet during the day are so much higher quality than your typical club tramps.

What do you guys think? Am I so far off base here? Is making sure you're out engaged in the nightlife at every possible chance really that big a deal?

 

[AFK Protector]

well I can't drive.

i hate public transportation. so many weird ppl on it.


and least important, i'll probably get mugged or shot if i set outside past 9 pm

 

[blinkwatt]

i work at 6am in the morning.

 

[diablo]

I work at noon, however tonight I went to a titty bar. I'll post pictures soon.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Originally posted by RedPill
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being home on friday night. Yes, this is one of the two nights a week in which the "party" goes on late. It's totally ridiculous to me how some people will say it's lame if you are not at some establishment staying out til 4 am getting drunk at every possible opportunity.

At 24, I'm working my a** off with my own business. Cash, time, and energy are critical resources for me. I'm getting my proverbial sh1t together. While many I know are out getting crunk and lamenting about how their $10/hr job sucks and this town sucks, I'm working toward building something that will feed me for life. If there were some compelling reason to go out, that would be cool. But after spending my college years getting trashed, eating taco bell at 3 am, and spending every sunday as "recovery day," this activity just isn't so interesting anymore. Now, if there was an actual event involved, that would be something different. Let's say there's a band to go see, or people are out celebrating a birthday. Good deal.

If I went out to the downtown bar/club areas right now - most of the people there are doing this - getting wasted and ESCAPING their lives instead of CELEBRATING them. That or looking for a one night stand. All good fun every now and then, but if your whole weekend is defined by staying out til closing time, getting junk food and passing out, and sleeping away half the next day, man that's sad.

My favorite good times with other people on the weekend almost always happen in the daytime/early evening. Going to the beach, grilling out with friends and watching the game, going out for dinner and beer after getting some project done. And oh yeah the girls you meet during the day are so much higher quality than your typical club tramps.

What do you guys think? Am I so far off base here? Is making sure you're out engaged in the nightlife at every possible chance really that big a deal?

Exactly, this guy gets it. To the original poster, the first step in being a "DJ" is to do whatever you want, whenever you want, because you want, and not because you feel the need to go with the masses, or others expect you to be out. In other words, because you want to, by choice,not because you have no other choice, or can't get anyone to hang out with you. My guess is that RedPill could pick up the phone, or already had several offers to go out and waste time had he wanted to.

I actually work tomorrow morning, but I like staying in a lot of times during weekends. Guess is my natural loner personality that needs relaxin', recovery time alone. After working with a lot of people for 5-6 days, I look forward to it.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

It's Saturday midday.

 

[HereToImprove]

Moving. Putting my shiznit in boxes...going from the ghetto to a sweet top floor apartment overlooking the river though...gonna be one heck of a love nest!

 

[Climax]

My 2c....

RedPill: you have a great way of thinking, nice!

Last night (Friday night) I had a few friends over (well, there were actually 18 of us, so i duno if thats a few or not) ... We had great fun... played poker, watched the Liverpool game (wooohoooo!!:woo: ), had a few drinks, music, and lots of KFC, hehe... Then after that, went to a girl friend's house (she had a friend over) and took them to a club for a while. We danced, met some people, I got 2 phone numbers which I didn’t even try to get, (they asked me for my number)... then we went to the petrol station where they have a little shop, got some food, and went back to her house where we chilled, listened to music, etc. Then at 2:30am I left to go to town to meet up with some friends. Got there, said hi to everyone, then went to this other club (upper class place) danced a bit, had fun, then went home at 4:30am.

Was a good night, did a lot, had a lot of fun. I personally don’t really LOVE the whole clubbing/getting drunk scene as much as I use to. (I started clubbing etc when i was 14) ... Its nice to have a night out like that here and there, but now I tend to enjoy the chilled out nights, house parties etc more than the clubbing scene.


Laterz...

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

RedPill i hear you man, i dont go out at night clubing either, partly as im only 17 altohugh i was out this friday night, i genraly go out in the day time, go round a friends house at night but dont hang around outside at night ussualy.

Just because people think you should be out fri and sat nights and oyur not, meanos nothing as long as you do go out during the week, which you said you do. Im at home tonight but i dont feel like some loose as iv been ouy with freinds on 7 of the last 10 days.

 

[backbreaker]

Originally posted by RedPill
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being home on friday night. Yes, this is one of the two nights a week in which the "party" goes on late. It's totally ridiculous to me how some people will say it's lame if you are not at some establishment staying out til 4 am getting drunk at every possible opportunity.

At 24, I'm working my a** off with my own business. Cash, time, and energy are critical resources for me. I'm getting my proverbial sh1t together. While many I know are out getting crunk and lamenting about how their $10/hr job sucks and this town sucks, I'm working toward building something that will feed me for life. If there were some compelling reason to go out, that would be cool. But after spending my college years getting trashed, eating taco bell at 3 am, and spending every sunday as "recovery day," this activity just isn't so interesting anymore. Now, if there was an actual event involved, that would be something different. Let's say there's a band to go see, or people are out celebrating a birthday. Good deal.

If I went out to the downtown bar/club areas right now - most of the people there are doing this - getting wasted and ESCAPING their lives instead of CELEBRATING them. That or looking for a one night stand. All good fun every now and then, but if your whole weekend is defined by staying out til closing time, getting junk food and passing out, and sleeping away half the next day, man that's sad.

My favorite good times with other people on the weekend almost always happen in the daytime/early evening. Going to the beach, grilling out with friends and watching the game, going out for dinner and beer after getting some project done. And oh yeah the girls you meet during the day are so much higher quality than your typical club tramps.

What do you guys think? Am I so far off base here? Is making sure you're out engaged in the nightlife at every possible chance really that big a deal?

You "Get it". The same people that you see now, "kicking it" will be the same people you see "kicking it", people who live for thoose 5-7 hours a weekend and the rest of the their lives are just the buildup to get there.

I go out, but I have a rule... If I have any financial problems that need to be fixed, or if I have no reason to celebreate and need to be working, then I wont' go out. I don't care what kind of party is there, you go out to "celebrate"... what are you telling yourself if you make a goal list, don't do h alf the stuff on it for that week, but you make sure your wardrobe is ready to go clubbing the day before you go out? Your prorities are out of wack.

I stopped really going out on Friday's a while back, and I don't usually go out more than 1 time a week.