Why are women on this site

Augustus_McCrae

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I found this forum by accident when I was Googling something about relationships (specifically if it was healthy to not be in one) and a thread here discussing “spinning plates” popped up. Never heard the term so I kept reading and that thread was amazing, insightful and changed my views on men. I never knew men put any thought into relationships or had any strategy or even discussed such things! Man i was impressed by the level of that thread. I read the entire thread then started reading old threads for about 2 weeks. I use the search feature and look up all kinds of questions here.

I only meant to read and learn, and I found this insight into men so eye opening and insightful. I was also impressed with the intelligence and maturity level here. My intent was to read only and never post (i liked “spying” lol).

And then, I am a female, and i can’t keep my mouth shut so I registered and replied. i hope I am adding value here as I greatly appreciate this forum and everyone’s contributions, those I agree with and those I may not. my mind has been changed on several things so far that i thought i knew about men.

So thanks for accepting us here and i do try to read more than i post. But i like to be part of this is a small way. :) Lots to learn!! It’s a great forum!
“...I am a female, and I can’t keep my mouth shut...”. Now that’s an honest statement. LMAO

-Augustus-
 

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“...I am a female, and I can’t keep my mouth shut...”. Now that’s an honest statement. LMAO

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She's not bad, at least not pretentious.

And she admits to plate spinning which we all know that most women does.

Anyhow it's better then those that comes off as being born again virgins who then has an agenda while giving off advice.

And the agenda is always turning men into a wuss or a feminized version of a male.
 

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One has to think that they are here because they want to better understand how men think (at least, that's probably the initial motive). The problem is that, like all women, they have a hard time handling the truth.
 

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They are likely here for entertainment and to kill time. In my experience women understand men a lot better than most men understand women, so they aren't here to learn about us. What they really do not understand is themselves.... Don't get me wrong, they understand other women, just not themselves. Most women are so narcissistic that they fail to see they are just like a majority of women they know.... They honestly believe they are different... they really aren't, not to a great extent... what they want might be different, or their value system varies, but how they behave when they find what they want, or get what they don't want, is pretty much the same.

I can't even begin to recall how many conversations I've had with female friends where the chick will go on and on why she just isn't 'feeling it' for a guy that is 'perfect' for her. "Mike I just don't understand... he has a really good job, he's kind, attentive, emotionally available, decent looking, love puppies... kittens... babies... wants a family... but I am so pi$$ed off that I'm just not feeling it." Then she will go home, and there on her nightstand is a copy of "50 Shades of Grey". The sad truth is that many women will just settle for less than they really want, marry a man they really are not lusting after, then torture the poor son of a b!tch because he's not what she really wants.

Men and women are all in the same modern culture sh!t show... dating and relationships is just as fvcked up for them as it is for many of us. Maybe they come here to learn, but more than likely they are just coming here to read what men are saying about them... because that is what narcissists do... it is all about them. BTW, I do not consider the term 'narcissist' as an insult... actually it's just saying you are human... we all view the world from our individual lens.
 

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I respect any poster (male or female) who is honest about their views and experiences. I don’t care if you’re blue pill, red pill, black pill or some combination thereof.

We all come from different backgrounds and have different strengths, weaknesses and goals. Just call it like you see it.

Our female posters are pretty honest. And I certainly can’t blame them for finding our discussions interesting.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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... what she really wants.
Reading that, I came up with this off the top of my head for what arouses a woman, trying to keep it concise and avoid the obvious (like not having bad breath):

Physical traits
- Tall, at least as tall as her
- Handsome face
- Full hair OR handsome enough face to cope with baldness
- Masculine body frame
- Big c0ck

Behavioral traits
- Dominant (also extends to the man's social status in of itself)
- C0cky
- Tendency to see and treat her like a "bad" girl, especially sexually (whether unconsciously or because he has learned to understand women)
 
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I actually like reading posts from the 3-4 female members that regularly participate here. I don't agree with everything they say, but a lot of it is good in that it does offer another perspective, whether I agree or not.

I think the women are on here to better understand what men are thinking and feeling regarding their dating endeavors and it probably helps them in their relationships. The advantage they have is that men generally tell it like it is rather than use a system of codes, signs, and innuendos that females often to use to communicate. So, they have a clear understanding of what we like and don't like and we don't mince words.

If I ever find myself with too much time on my hands, maybe I'll go undercover as a female on a largely female dating forum. Would be hilarious. Has any male member here ever tried it, for legit or kicks? I would be interested to hear the feedback.
 

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They’ve given me good advice on my various threads and ramblings, there’s no need for me to think deeper than that.

I get a woman hating virgin vibe from some people here, but again, I’m not going to think any deeper about useless things like that.
 

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There are also women in mgtow now. Women are drawn to whatever men are building, especially when they're not invited. They are infiltrators. Comic Con for example started as a small gathering of fat nerds. Now it's basically a t!t show. Gay Pride, an event for homosexuals, again now it's t!t show. Even when it doesn't concern them, even when it openly denigrates them, they will be there.

But let me break it down into one word - attention
 

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But let me break it down into one word - attention
You can't hold it against them too much when women do things for this reason. I have a saying about women that they are like fish. They can expend themselves to survive without validation (water) for short durations if they need to, but eventually, they need to go back to swimming in it to survive. It's just what they are.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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They are here because men are much more fun to hang out with than women are.
 

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Just because women admit to plate spinning or cheating doesn’t mean they are honest or not pretentious. They could admit to it to soften us up and let them in. How fast do US governments and powerful billionaires change their word when it doesn’t fit their agenda? Some older divorced women with children are going to tell the truth?

She said her opinion of men has changed since joining this site. I asked her “what has changed - what did she NOT know about men that she knows now?” She ignored the question.

All women have agendas and they use men to fulfill that agenda.
The lovey dovey stuff is for fairy tales.

Come on men.
 

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Just because women admit to plate spinning or cheating doesn’t mean they are honest or not pretentious. They could admit to it to soften us up and let them in. How fast do US governments and powerful billionaires change their word when it doesn’t fit their agenda? Some older divorced women with children are going to tell the truth?

She said her opinion of men has changed since joining this site. I asked her “what has changed - what did she NOT know about men that she knows now?” She ignored the question.

All women have agendas and they use men to fulfill that agenda.
The lovey dovey stuff is for fairy tales.

Come on men.
Women can come and go as they please.

It's not a problem since they are men here who could as easily dismiss their narratives.

But at the same time, the women here should also know that this site is a gathering of men deeply in the feminine imperative.

When women are continously exposed to men who are actively in the feminine imperative they then automatically mold themselves to be more masculine as a counter balance.

Over time this will be so imbued within their psyche that they themselves can't distinguish the difference.

Which is why the masculine world and feminine world could never combine lest one is absorbed into the other thereby producing a freak.

Masculinity and femininity can only ever touch the other which is why they must forever remain distinct.
 

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Just because women admit to plate spinning or cheating doesn’t mean they are honest or not pretentious. They could admit to it to soften us up and let them in. How fast do US governments and powerful billionaires change their word when it doesn’t fit their agenda? Some older divorced women with children are going to tell the truth?

She said her opinion of men has changed since joining this site. I asked her “what has changed - what did she NOT know about men that she knows now?” She ignored the question.

All women have agendas and they use men to fulfill that agenda.
The lovey dovey stuff is for fairy tales.

Come on men.
I just sent you a PM.

Thanks to everyone for contributing to making a great forum!
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Reading that, I came up with this off the top of my head for what arouses a woman, trying to keep it concise and avoid the obvious (like not having bad breath):

Physical traits
- Tall, at least as tall as her
- Handsome face
- Full hair OR handsome enough face to cope with baldness
- Masculine body frame
- Big c0ck

Behavioral traits
- Dominant (also extends to the man's social status in of itself)
- C0cky
- Tendency to see and treat her like a "bad" girl, especially sexually (whether unconsciously or because he has learned to understand women)
In simple terms... women want the best man they can get based on where she is in life at the moment.

Women need a man that knows how to stimulate her emotions... giving her a roller-coaster ride of feeling.

Authentically being the best version of yourself you can be will increase the number of women that find you attractive for what you have and what you are. At that point you weed out the users and chicks that are really looking for a different type of man.

Being a little bit selfish and demanding about what you want will naturally give women negative stimulation and trigger negative emotions... They have to have this otherwise they can not appreciate the positive stimulation and positive emotions you also deliver. It's a roller-coaster... you can not have the thrill of the drop without the boring parts of the climb. If everything is good: nothing is good and it's boring. If everything is bad: she has nothing to look forward too.
 
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