Why are so many hot chicks so emotionally unstable?

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As stated before, a lot of them coast by on their looks. Where is the incentive to flesh out a personality and show you're a human being when being a robot with a fat ass gets you just as far? Seriously. Maybe if more men put their foot down and decided they would next a girl once they crossed a certain line. They would have to look in the mirror and form a better identity. Much like some of us have had to do. But because a lot of men are happy clinging to the scraps women leave them, and don't demand more from their women, this is what happens.

I can't even blame them for it. For every man that grows a pair and leaves a chick no matter how hot she is, there is another guy ready to take his place that will deal with her crap, just because she's hot.
 

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Mister: That's why I don't bother with those types anymore. It's wired into them to act as they do, and feel entitled to everything. Even if you don't let them get away with everything - there's 500 other guys who will. They know this. They end up getting their needs met one way or another. The world revolves around them, and everyone is here to satisfy their needs. Bah.
 

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Mister: That's why I don't bother with those types anymore. It's wired into them to act as they do, and feel entitled to everything. Even if you don't let them get away with everything - there's 500 other guys who will. They know this. They end up getting their needs met one way or another. The world revolves around them, and everyone is here to satisfy their needs. Bah.
Yeah. I've labeled this phenomenon in another thread as ***** Inflation. I think back before technology was what it is today, it was the cream of the crop getting all the male attention and praise. That's not the case anymore. Due to social networking sites like facebook, or text messages, girls of all kinds, even low quality ones are getting attention 24/7. People commenting on their wall/pictures, texting them throughout the day feeding their ego. They never get called on their ****. You have women turning down men of their same level of quality because they're holding out for higher quality men. So now you have men fighting over women that are barely worth it.

I know no contact is supposed to be done to get over a chick. But sometimes I use it to take the girl down a peg, and make her rethink her actions, but it almost never works because she gets so much attention from every other guy, she barely knows that you've been gone. You may get a rare case where an interested woman hits you up first like heeey we havent spoken in so long, whatsup! To which you play it cool or whatever. But it's usually "oh yeah? i'll show her. im gonna go NC and make her get all anxious wondering why I havent hit her up". Meanwhile she doesnt even know you're gone. It's because the ***** is inflated. We have to be confident, masculine, take charge, be interesting, funny, sexual, attractive, smart, charming and even then she may turn you down for someone who has all that plus another element. They just have to be marginally attractive and they've got options of men!
 

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Yeah, its pretty sad. As long as the girls are attractive enough to **** - guys will make up all sorts of lies to bed them. Said lies get to the women's head, they realize they have options, and start to think they're something special. They don't seem to realize that no one actually likes them, and let it get to their head anyway. Now they have high standards, act stuck up, etc - even though they're not very appealing. They only think they are.

This is more apparent with average and overweight girls. Guys seem to know that they're easier to lay, and feed their minds with nonsense - similar to how pretty girls believe they're smart and nice. They're getting the same options as the pretty girls now - especially with Facebook, internet dating sites, etc.

As well, because of these social networking tools - they are also becoming as popular as them. It's so easy to make friends on there, so everyone thinks they're hot and popular. Attention whoring in male dominated arenas - such as online video games - is also apparent.

Everyone is becoming the same way.
 

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floydb25 said:
Yeah, its pretty sad. As long as the girls are attractive enough to **** - guys will make up all sorts of lies to bed them. Said lies get to the women's head, they realize they have options, and start to think they're something special. They don't seem to realize that no one actually likes them, and let it get to their head anyway. Now they have high standards, act stuck up, etc - even though they're not very appealing. They only think they are.

This is more apparent with average and overweight girls. Guys seem to know that they're easier to lay, and feed their minds with nonsense - similar to how pretty girls believe they're smart and nice. They're getting the same options as the pretty girls now - especially with Facebook, internet dating sites, etc.

As well, because of these social networking tools - they are also becoming as popular as them. It's so easy to make friends on there, so everyone thinks they're hot and popular. Attention whoring in male dominated arenas - such as online video games - is also apparent.

Everyone is becoming the same way.
Yeah seriously. You look at some of these girls on facebook. 500 friends. Come on; who has 500 "friends". But they see that number everytime they log in and I'm sure it excites them. Hey! 500 people like you for being hot! Twitter too, a hot girl will have thousands of followers and only tweet garbage. Nothing of substance or value. Just stuff like "My hair is soo bad today ugh!", yet she'll have thousands of people out there that are like yeah, I want to follow this girl.

The worst are the guys who leave picture comments on facebook. Its like come on bro, you're making things worse. They dont need any more ego boost.

It's like, girl posts pic:

Comment 1 (chick): Haha that night was so crazy!
Comment 2 (poor dude): Wow you look gorgeous in that pic haha I'm like stunned lol hit me up later
Comment 3 (another chick): Is that the red sweater I gave you for your birthday! You look so cute in it!
Comment 4 (the girl who posted pic): Haha yeah that night was crazy and yes that's the sweater you gave me!

the guy gets completely steamrolled. its sad to see. social networking has also killed their ability to actually be social in real life. They're more involved with their phones and facebook than anything else. Their eye contact sucks, their ability to interact is poor. Its very sad. I refuse to take part in that ego boosting because they get enough as it is. So I try to bring them back to reality but I'm only one man. Who is she gonna listen to, one man who is trying to knock her down a peg, or 200 men sucking up to her.
 

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idk, i guess if i had everybody and their mother trying to f*ck me or getting all flustered over me, i suppose i'd be a little nutty too.
 

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OnTheWayUp said:
So are we saying that hot girls are crazy... because most men allow them to be?
In a word, yes.
 

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Mister: Yes, but the game hasn't changed. Only now more people are playing. So, you used to have all these hot girls getting attention from all the guys in real life. With the internet exploding - average girls are getting it too. You just have to game them the same way, show that you're of value, not fawn all over them, etc. The nice guys who worship them still won't get anywhere. The hot guys still don't want anything to do with them. They just have their own popular crowd among the average folks, and it still makes them egotistical in that sense.

The internet just makes it more accessible. It's easier to connect to others, and find suitable interests. There were still average girls who would gloat back in the day, but none of us gave a ****. They met reality when the hot guys wanted nothing to do with them. The internet isn't much different - just more expansive, and allows average folks to play the game within their level.

It's not all that bad, and makes it more fair for them. They don't get completely over-looked because they're not hot. But, like the hot, popular girls - they still think they're better than everyone else because of the attention and what not - regardless of who its from. Snobs will be snobs.
 

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Mister: Yes, but the game hasn't changed. Only now more people are playing. So, you used to have all these hot girls getting attention from all the guys in real life. With the internet exploding - average girls are getting it too. You just have to game them the same way, show that you're of value, not fawn all over them, etc. The nice guys who worship them still won't get anywhere. The hot guys still don't want anything to do with them. They just have their own popular crowd among the average folks, and it still makes them egotistical in that sense.

The internet just makes it more accessible. It's easier to connect to others, and find suitable interests. There were still average girls who would gloat back in the day, but none of us gave a ****. They met reality when the hot guys wanted nothing to do with them. The internet isn't much different - just more expansive, and allows average folks to play the game within their level.

It's not all that bad, and makes it more fair for them. They don't get completely over-looked because they're not hot. But, like the hot, popular girls - they still think they're better than everyone else because of the attention and what not - regardless of who its from. Snobs will be snobs.
All very true. Its just a matter of how much you're willing to deal with and how much you're willing to play the game. Sometimes I don't get that urge to chase because of how **** some of their personalities are. We all have our limits to how much we can put up with
 

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Mister: Mos' Def. In hindsight, there were always snobby, prissy, stuck up, unattractive girls. They just never entered the radar, and weren't as bothersome - because they weren't attractive enough to care about. Many of them acted just like the hot girls in every way imaginable, and even wore the same attaire. They had this aura of arrogance, belittled people, acted like they were too good for them, bragged about their options, got off on rejecting people, and even pre-rejected them before they could get "any ideas", abused the friends card as a form of power, etc. I used to call them notties. Worst of both worlds.

It all comes down to personality and character. These status / party / bar girls aren't worth a damn. They're all cut from the same mold. Regardless of their looks - they're all trash, and only good for one thing. Unsuprisingly, that's all people use them for.

These days, I view them all under the same lens. They don't get away with being retarded and annoying because they're hot. When you become infatuated and have your head up in the clouds is when problems occur. If you focus on who they are - instead of on how you want them to be - its so much easier to spot and eliminate worthless women before its too late.

Hot women are used to acting like retards, getting their way, being spoiled, playing games, acting difficult and bratty, given multiple chances, having people make up excuses for them and believing their lies, allowed to get away with all sorts of BS, etc - simply because they're hot. Once you get past their looks - you will not run into this problem. It's just another dumb trick with nothing to offer. You don't have to do anything for her. She's nothing special, and doesn't deserve anything. You don't have to fix her, act all nice, prove your worth, or jump through hoops - because she's not worth it. You don't owe her anything. You don't have to play her stupid ass games, chase after her, or allow any kind of nonsense. They're used to having all the power, and so, act this way automatically. It's learned behavior.

This doesn't mean neg her or destroy her self-esteem - just don't allow her to get away with being unfair, and treating YOU like crap. If she's a dumb ***** - don't wait it out, in hopes of getting better. Just get rid of her.

Infatuation and desperation causes a lot of these problems.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Why are a lot of celebrities emotionally unstable? Think about it. Imagine how different your idea of the world would be if you had become accustomed to everyone kissing your ass and treating you differently.

Many gorgeous chicks have had guys going gaga over them since they were 14. They've had other girls feel intimidated by them and kiss up to them. Based on their looks, they have received very different treatment from most people.

Thus, they have very different expectations from you and me.
 

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Floyd: Absolutely. The looks are smoke and mirrors. I was reading some blog somewhere that was spot on. It talked about how basically hot girls get hotter. That's the extent of their development. Instead of focusing on developing a personality that would keep a man around, they focus more on buying the best makeup, clothes, etc and making themselves as hot as they possibly can. It reminds me of a baseball team that is weak in pitching and they keep buying sluggers to mask the holes of their pitching. They figure they'll cover up the defense with more offense. But the holes remain. Girls fill the void in their personalities with hotness in the hopes it will be enough. Sadly for most men, it is.
 

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Aye... It's all-consuming to some people, and all they revolve their entire lives around. I've known women who just wanted to stay hot by any means necessary. It's all they had; the only thing that mattered to them. They did not want to lose it.

These girls were also horribly insecure and had low self-esteem, which is a classic trademark of a barbie. They will do anything to be accepted, and have no self-respect. That's why they dress like hookers, paint their face with make-up, get implants, attention *****, sleep around, etc. They just want to be hot and popular, and will become anything to be accepted by their peers - including being fake, stuck up, shallow, snobby *****es. A lot of these girls were plain and nice at one point, but it didn't work to become popular and get the hot guys.

It's sad, and some people never snap out of it. For others, its just a phase. The lifestyle they lead is very shallow and meaningless. Some learn that its not all its cracked up to be. Everyone at least wants to know what its like to be cool and popular at one point. Some people just take it too far, and continue on being shallow and worthless forever. Mostly the ones who are pretending in the first place. They're empty, and have nothing else.

This is also why a lot of these hot, popular girls get with jerks. They're hot, and want their approval. Even if they treat them like **** - hey, at least they're being accepted by them. Now they're cool and can show off to their friends. They can get hot guys and act like ****s, too!

Bah. Again, these people are a waste of time, and so is their lifestyle. I was involved in it for a while, and couldn't take the shallowness and stupidity anymore. These people are nothing. Completely fake and insecure. The guys are douche bags, and the girls are retarded. They're all the same, which is why they're attracted to each other. It's all just a big contest to see who's the hottest, has the best of everything, gets hit on the most, has the most sex... They're all idiots who try to one-up one another in the most superficial ways imaginable. "I have more STD's than you!" They also ***** about everything in their shallow lives, cause problems and drama wherever they go, and should be shot in the face repeatedly.

As snobby, ****y, disrespectful, *****y, stuck up, and rude as they are - they cannot accept any kind of criticism or rejection, either. They must always be wanted, accepted, pined after, and better than everyone else. Only they can do the insulting and rejecting. They have no self-esteem, and make up for it by having huge egos. It's the only thing they have, and it needs to be fueled constantly.

It's all a facade, anyway. These people are horribly, horribly insecure, and desperate to be accepted - despite acting like they don't care, and are too good for everyone. It's just an act. They become incredibly defensive and insecure at the smallest comments towards them - which is why they try to keep the focus off them, and on everyone else instead. They do the criticizing, demanding, and belittling before it can happen to them. Cowards.
 

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floydb25 said:
Yeah, its pretty sad. As long as the girls are attractive enough to **** - guys will make up all sorts of lies to bed them. Said lies get to the women's head, they realize they have options, and start to think they're something special. They don't seem to realize that no one actually likes them, and let it get to their head anyway. Now they have high standards, act stuck up, etc - even though they're not very appealing. They only think they are.

This is more apparent with average and overweight girls. Guys seem to know that they're easier to lay, and feed their minds with nonsense - similar to how pretty girls believe they're smart and nice. They're getting the same options as the pretty girls now - especially with Facebook, internet dating sites, etc.

As well, because of these social networking tools - they are also becoming as popular as them. It's so easy to make friends on there, so everyone thinks they're hot and popular. Attention whoring in male dominated arenas - such as online video games - is also apparent.

Everyone is becoming the same way.
good post.

so where does this end?

Are girls of my generation age 20-30 just going to commit slow suicide of the ego becoming less and less desirable as their heads swell bigger and bigger from all the ego boosts they get from online dudes.

Not yet I think

because for every 1 of us who refuse to play games with stuck up hoez there are 500 suckers happy to do so. And that is the real problem.
 
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