Why are girls so cold?

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HappyHarryHardon said:
These types of girls guys have to play games with are not the right ones to begin with. We shouldn't have to play games with each other, it's ridiculous. Find a real mature woman, not a girly girl.
Agreed, most women are simply not worth the effort. If she's gaming, she's sending a strong message.
 

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It'd be nice to have an affectionate girlfriend. Never had one.

In fact my ex girlfriend didn't even let me cuddle with her.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
It'd be nice to have an affectionate girlfriend. Never had one.
You will find one soon!
 

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oh, bs, they are cold, in most cases, cause they want nothing to do with you. In a lot of cases, they want NO man at that point in time, or they've got a steady guy and want no other.
 

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If their IL is high then in general they are very affectionate....obviously you guys saying no are not commanding high IL/too available/not attractive enough to them..ect......
 

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a great many women want no man, or at least, not one that they just casually meet at some bar. That is stupid of her. Nowadays, she's going to get a look at your ID, Google about you, check you out thru friends, etc. Why should she risk involvement with the typical flake? Any woman who would do so is not worth MY time, certainly. When I spent months online with my Filipina, sent her a bit of money, then spent $1000 to fly there, 4k to lived there with her for 6 months (while we waited on her visa), and then 3k to get us both back here to US, she knew damned well that I was serious about her. I also gave her 2k for the risk of coming here with me, leaving behind her job, etc.
 
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goundra said:
a great many women want no man, or at least, not one that they just casually meet at some bar. That is stupid of her. Nowadays, she's going to get a look at your ID, Google about you, check you out thru friends, etc. Why should she risk involvement with the typical flake? Any woman who would do so is not worth MY time, certainly. When I spent months online with my Filipina, sent her a bit of money, then spent $1000 to fly there, 4k to lived there with her for 6 months (while we waited on her visa), and then 3k to get us both back here to US, she knew damned well that I was serious about her. I also gave her 2k for the risk of coming here with me, leaving behind her job, etc.
Do you not worry about hypergamy? What if she finds a better deal. Women from all cultures are basically the same, money, status, power. If she's marrying up, things are great, unless a better deal comes in. It's still the same game.... and needs to be played - you just start with a better start hand :)
 
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