Why are chicks so indecisive!

[mahon83050]

This has happened to me twice now, once with an online chick (whom i never met in person yet)and another with a girl I met on a double date. Both chicks seemed to have high interest or let us say "decent interest" to start. Then all of a sudden....Poof!!...it all dissapears and they both blew me off. They both went from hot to cold by not returning my calls. I can promise you, I did not do anything AFC either. Anybody else have similiar situations or have an explanation.

 

[Walden]

They gave you their number to make you go away. Don't take it personally maybe they were just unavailable but gave you the number so you wouldn't feel bad.

 

[mahon83050]

Originally posted by Walden
They gave you their number to make you go away. Don't take it personally maybe they were just unavailable but gave you the number so you wouldn't feel bad.

I doubt that, first off the online chick made contact with me via online first. The second chick returned my phone call "right away" the first time I called her. So, I do not agree with your theory. Of course, the interest level on both of these chicks plummeted, whatever it was.

 

[Mazman]

Maybe girl #2 went on another double date.......

 

[THA REALNESS]

Nothing really happened .This doesn't really say anything about you or your style so fukk them.

 

[confus4ever]

i concur with tharealness. chicks are undecisive beacause they need to be "captured" then, after that, they are decive. All in all, they wonder to much, and need somebody to sweep them off they're feet....only in my opinion of course

 

[violator]

Maybe they met someone they liked better.

Yes, the dating game is quite competitive. That is why you have this site to give you a leg up on the others.

That said, however, you must accept the fact that not every chick is going to like you and can easily be swept by some other dude. It is a fact of life.

Forget about them and move on. It has nothing to do with you, trust me.

 

[LowPlainsDrifter]

women are decisive...

A bit of ******** I've learned is, "I can't decide, I can't commit, or I'm confused" in regards to whether they want to continue seeing you.
These lines are BS. They really mean, "my interest level isn't high enough but I don't want to hurt your feelings."
I always interpret a "no" as a "no," a "maybe" as a "no" and a "yes" as a "maybe."

 

[Austin Allegro]

Damn right. And with online chix, if they are pretty and have a picture on their profile, they are going to be wading through dozens of emails every day. Since most chix online are looking for their 'ideal man' (and we all know no such person exists) they will continually move on in search of someone 'better' - it's like trying to find a picnic place - there's always a better looking one down the road.

So don't be surprised if they email you for a bit then disappear, it's no reflection on you.

 

[mahon83050]

Thanks for all the replies. I agree that alot of it has to do with interest level. For example, the girl I went out with on the double date: My friend Ryan met this one girl online and then she hooked me up with her friend (the double date girl) My friend Ryan was not into his online chick, so he dumped her. So I figure this girl dropped me as well because her friend just got dumped by my friend. Her interest level was probably only mediocre and if it were higher, she would not have dissed me. In conclusion, she chose her friend over me.

 

[learningtopimp]

They never make up their mind...thats why you have cojones and they don't, because you are a man. Just keep playing the game getting more #'s approaching more and you don't have to worry.

 

[learningtopimp]

For those of you who don't speak Spanish cojones=balls

 

[Ricky]

mahon, I feel ya.

I've had this happen many a time. I call it the Jekyl and Hyde act.

I've had it a few times after I banged them. For some odd reason that feels even worse. I guess I kind of bond with them too, even though I see myself as a bit of a player.