A lot of times when I ask a girl out, she gets shy and speaks very nervously.
I usually have a little of rapport built between us.
What would happen is I go up to her ask her some questions and small talk for a little and then proceed to ask her for her number or ask her out. They start to talk less confidently. They would give me a very timid yes and then I smile and say see you later.
Then after a bit sometimes right away, sometimes the next day, the girl would express some doubt through text. Like "i have to think about it" and bs like that.
So why does this keep happening to me? I do get a little nervous when I pop the questions, is that the problem? Is my nervous vibe causing this?
I usually have a little of rapport built between us.
What would happen is I go up to her ask her some questions and small talk for a little and then proceed to ask her for her number or ask her out. They start to talk less confidently. They would give me a very timid yes and then I smile and say see you later.
Then after a bit sometimes right away, sometimes the next day, the girl would express some doubt through text. Like "i have to think about it" and bs like that.
So why does this keep happening to me? I do get a little nervous when I pop the questions, is that the problem? Is my nervous vibe causing this?