Why are American women so cranky, rude, snobby?

[Robert28]

And if they are satisfied then who am I to judge? It is none of my business -- we agree on that. My experience though, much of it based upon MGTOW guys themselves, is that it comes off that they have done it out of defeat and exhaustion for not being able to understand women. They aren't truly "satisfied" with where they are so much as they are just resigned to an almost fatalistic outcome in their eyes. That (to me) is not the right reason to be "going your own way." But others may disagree.

Women understand women and they hate each other. To expect guys to understand women is just not going to happen. If women wanted to be understood they’d make it easier. They don’t understand us anyways.

 

[2Rocky]

Women understand women and they hate each other. To expect guys to understand women is just not going to happen. If women wanted to be understood they’d make it easier. They don’t understand us anyways.

You didn't have grandparents who were married 50 plus years did you? Or at least you didn't see how their dynamic worked? Grandma knew what Grandpa was gonna do and how he was gonna react before anything came up...Grandpa knew she was playing and let her think she was getting her way...While she was doing what he wanted all along...

"We have a deal....I make all the big decisions and she makes all the little ones. In 50 years, nothin' big came up!" Which wasn't the case.

It's gotta be WIN-WIN. if you don't understand that, you can't maintain a relationship. Some of you go looking for fights and then wonder why people don't like you.

 

[bat soup]

Working for women in general is simply a disaster. I had a job as a bank teller for 6 months when I was 22. Everyone was a woman. It was hell. Women in position of authority, especially government are on power trips. They will treat their follow women fine though.

This is the problem in work too. Now you have women in Human Resources doing the hiring for jobs they know nothing about. Like at a tech company for example you will have a 29 year old blond bimbo hiring engineers and she knows nothing about the qualifications and who to hire.

It's true. The worst bosses I ever had were female. They probably got promoted to fill quotas rather than for competence, because they didn't have any.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Modern western women are never held accountable for bad behaviour by simps, it's like a dog that hasn't been properly trained all it's life.

 

[rjc149]

OP, don’t you find posting these threads all the time exhausting? It’s exhausting.

 

[Barrister]

I agree with you, but it shouldn't be this hard to "understand" females. Humans have been mating for hundreds of thousands of years for fvck sake. You're a creep if you do xyz, you're not desirable if you say xyz. Don't text too often, or too little. Don't get too frustrated or be too detached. Don't validate too much or too little. Don't escalate too fast or take too long. Society is too stable for humankind. A little turmoil and hardship then all of a sudden any guy is good enough.

The truth is men have never “understood” women since the beginning of time. Men never needed to really until the past 100 years or so. Men just mated with the woman when they wanted to. The only thing stopping them was typically more alpha men. With more freedom of choice for women, the dynamic has changed.

The bottom line is this is the world we live in now. This isn’t the Stone Age anymore. Either adapt to it when it comes to the dating world or go MGTOW. The constant whining and complaining gets old though. And a lot it, in reality, usually has nothing to do with the shortcomings of women.

 

[Barrister]

Modern western women are never held accountable for bad behaviour by simps, it's like a dog that hasn't been properly trained all it's life.

Your only tool to hold women accountable is to give your attention elsewhere if she steps out of line. Women aren’t children even though they have many of the same qualities. This behavior you refer to is here to stay. Magically, that behavior will improve drastically if she wants your c0ck.

 

[biggoal]

He's got a point though. Women nowadays are generally rude, obnoxious and have bad manners. This has not always been the case. Find an old lady in her 70's or 80's and chances are, she will not be a b!tch. Different generation.

Who's to blame for the current state of women? First and foremost, parents and teachers.

Not entirely true though. Here in FL we have TONS of women in that age range, especially from Nov to end of March when the snowbirds are down. Those old ladies can be very rude to servers, cashiers, retail and service workers. Actually a lot more rude than a young woman in a lot of cases. The ones from New England are the worst though.

 

[Willie Naylor]

OP, don’t you find posting these threads all the time exhausting? It’s exhausting.

He does not.

 

[2Rocky]

Not entirely true though. Here in FL we have TONS of women in that age range, especially from Nov to end of March when the snowbirds are down. Those old ladies can be very rude to servers, cashiers, retail and service workers. Actually a lot more rude than a young woman in a lot of cases. The ones from New England are the worst though.

 

[Willie Naylor]

Couldn't get enough of Justified

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Mr. Reductive back on the scene with another million dollar insight. You put a country boy in Portland, who's the a55hole then?

Not entirely true though. Here in FL we have TONS of women in that age range, especially from Nov to end of March when the snowbirds are down. Those old ladies can be very rude to servers, cashiers, retail and service workers. Actually a lot more rude than a young woman in a lot of cases. The ones from New England are the worst though.

Italian, Jewish, and Yankee women. What could possibly go wrong lol? Thankfully here in AZ the snowbirds are Midwestern and Canadian.

As has been said ad nauseum, you've got to move bro. At least to Tampa or Miami.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Not always. I know girls who were raised by a two parent household that are just as big of fvck ups as those raised by a single parent. Not everyone raised by a single parent is a fvck up either, many have made something of themselves. Women just choose to make bad choices because they think life gives you endless chances. Must be a hell of a way to live. Too bad it isn’t reality.

Good parenting is not the same thing as being raised in a two parent household (although there is often a correlation). There’s no shortage of dumb@ss parents raising entitled, spoiled brats while somehow managing to stay together.

 

[lgbs2004]

They think he is doing an under the radar pass at them. They give great customer service to chad.

It's over for mailcels

 

[Robert28]

It's over for mailcels

It’s over for handshakingcels

 

[Mike32ct]

It’s due the “celebrity” culture pushed by the media (especially social media).

So most chicks over a 4 in looks think they are a low level celebrity who is too good to talk to “mere mortals.”

Looks stuff aside, she views most strange men as something like “annoying fans” trying to get an autograph.

I see this all the time and don’t really care, but just wanted to respond for the purposes of the thread/discussion.

 

[derby1]

I do quite a lot of work in local villages that are the next Tax bracket up, the women are Fit, feminine and friendly.

as soon as I come back into my working class area, they are absolute entitled trash.

The sad thing is working class used to be the salt of the earth, its literally decayed within 30 years. Welfare,free healthcare and instant communication through technology has corrupted the hell out them.

 

[2Rocky]

Mr. Reductive back on the scene with another million dollar insight. You put a country boy in Portland, who's the a55hole then?

This Country boy knows not to buck a stacked deck in Portland and try to deal with hipsters. Instead he goes to the St Paul Rodeo or the Clark County Saddle Club. Or Hit the dozen or so Country bars in town. A guy's gotta know what audience is receptive....

 

[Epimanes]

Women need sex without a condom... it balances them. But that is unsafe with the way the "culture" is today. When they "recieve" us... they are getting a wack of hormones they don't produce normally... ie: testosterone especially... so when they get it... they feel better ... it balances their emotions. The problem is todays society is all about instant gratification so... they can't have it without major risks and pregnancy. So this in turn makes them grouchy af. That lack of balance. ... btw... men receive estrogen during unprotected intercourse... and that balances us too... we are meant to share.. but... again... its unsafe in today's "hook up" culture. Find a life long partner that you don't have to worry about that with and spend the rest of your life balancing each other out.