Let me get one thing straightened out. We all have to be genuinely happy about ourselves but always strive for improving whatever can be improved. So always maintain high spirits and a positive attitude
Physical appearance:
A strong, well defined body will ATTRACT a great majority of women.
Why? Because this is what they are attracted to on a PRIMAL level. Pure fact. Do not dispute this. This is the law of mother nature. Walk into a room full of women and if you are not displaying signs of physical prowess, then the MAJORITY of women will not be attracted to you on a PRIMAL level.
Note that I said majority of women. Yes, there will be those who will disregard this fact, but why should we have the odds against us?
Appearance on a social level:
Another important aspect. When you are seen with attractive women, others will see you as attractive as well. Thus, you may not posses a strong, well defined body, but your "social connections" compensate that. This is the situation of DJer's who consistently argue that looks do not count. They are skinny/fat/bald/short, but they are pulling ass nonetheless.
So we have those whose successes are based on appearance on a social level= ATTRACTION REGARDLESS OF LOOKS
Those whose successes are based mainly on appearance on a physical level=ATTRACTION BASED ON LOOKS
So which is better?
I would lean more towards the physical aspect. We do not want to be egotistic about are bodies, but in today's society, there is a level of competition in which displaying physical prowess is a prerequisite for attracting the very beautiful women. Once we have attained that, others will see (social proof), and then we will appear attractive on a SOCIAL level.
For those who disagree on this, thats fine. I know MANY guys who have little to show on a physical basis, but I and others find them cool as hell cause they have charisma, confidence, and attitude.
We have to remember, though, that they had attained this at an early age, probably junior high school, and as a result gained MASSIVE social proof well into college. Did their physical appearance matter? Not at all. As long at they got into the CYCLE OF SUCCESS, that did not matter.
We can also get into the CYCLE OF SUCCESS. Go the gym, make some considerable gains. Physically attract a hottie (this is where your DJ skills and mindsets come into play) and ultimately bed her. Take her to a social setting, be seen with her and BAM. SOCIAL PROOF. Cycle repeats.
To each his own way, find what works for you best.
Comments are appreciated
Physical appearance:
A strong, well defined body will ATTRACT a great majority of women.
Why? Because this is what they are attracted to on a PRIMAL level. Pure fact. Do not dispute this. This is the law of mother nature. Walk into a room full of women and if you are not displaying signs of physical prowess, then the MAJORITY of women will not be attracted to you on a PRIMAL level.
Note that I said majority of women. Yes, there will be those who will disregard this fact, but why should we have the odds against us?
Appearance on a social level:
Another important aspect. When you are seen with attractive women, others will see you as attractive as well. Thus, you may not posses a strong, well defined body, but your "social connections" compensate that. This is the situation of DJer's who consistently argue that looks do not count. They are skinny/fat/bald/short, but they are pulling ass nonetheless.
So we have those whose successes are based on appearance on a social level= ATTRACTION REGARDLESS OF LOOKS
Those whose successes are based mainly on appearance on a physical level=ATTRACTION BASED ON LOOKS
So which is better?
I would lean more towards the physical aspect. We do not want to be egotistic about are bodies, but in today's society, there is a level of competition in which displaying physical prowess is a prerequisite for attracting the very beautiful women. Once we have attained that, others will see (social proof), and then we will appear attractive on a SOCIAL level.
For those who disagree on this, thats fine. I know MANY guys who have little to show on a physical basis, but I and others find them cool as hell cause they have charisma, confidence, and attitude.
We have to remember, though, that they had attained this at an early age, probably junior high school, and as a result gained MASSIVE social proof well into college. Did their physical appearance matter? Not at all. As long at they got into the CYCLE OF SUCCESS, that did not matter.
We can also get into the CYCLE OF SUCCESS. Go the gym, make some considerable gains. Physically attract a hottie (this is where your DJ skills and mindsets come into play) and ultimately bed her. Take her to a social setting, be seen with her and BAM. SOCIAL PROOF. Cycle repeats.
To each his own way, find what works for you best.
Comments are appreciated
