Ever since I’ve been coming to this site, I’ve never understood why scoring with a chick and getting laid is made so complicated. We’re not talking seduction of a particular woman here, an elusive oneitis, nor are we talking about quality women with great personalities, intelligence and good conversation. We’re talking about finding a decent looking girl who is up for sex, period.
Why are there books, websites, DVDs and seminars dedicated to this and why do guys look at getting laid as a big deal? You hear guys go on about fvcking 10-100 women like it’s an achievement, and go on to divulge their “secrets” using this weird geek jargon: running patterns, openers, sets, wingmen, isolating, kino, standing on your head and chanting the Russian alphabet and whatever. What they don’t seem to understand is that any average Joe can and does get laid on any night of the week without all this complicated pseudo-scientific nonsense. The fact is, the most promiscuous men in the world have never read a seduction book or visited a PUA site in their life, and I doubt any of them know what “running a pattern” even means.
Ok then, put all that geek jargon and keyboard jockey theory aside. I’m going to tell you the easiest way to get laid in just 10 steps:
1. You’re going to be judged on your appearance so get clean, dress up nice and spend time to look your best.
2. Go and visit a club. You will increase your chances by aiming for the lower end clubs with less male competition.
3. Look around for any women you would consider a good lay and try to make eye contact. If eye contact is returned in a positive way, make a mental note of her.
4. Continue scouting until a bit later in the night when everyone has had a few drinks and let their guards down.
5. Hopefully you’ll have a few prospects now, so when you see any of these women on the dancefloor, go and dance in front of them, making eye contact as you do.
6. If she continues dancing with you, wait for a song or two to pass and try making physical contact as you dance – place your hands lightly on her waist, or dance up real close to her. She’ll most likely encourage it or grind on you if she’s interested.
7. Go and sit down with her somewhere, introduce yourself, ask about her. You can put your arm round her, rest your hand on her leg or alike.
8. Go for the kiss.
9. Providing she responds well, continue what you’re doing – dancing, drinking, making out.
10. At the end of the night, bring up the subject of her getting home and invite her to your place. If she accepts, you’re getting laid.
To say this is field tested would be an understatement. This is the basic mating ritual of clubs that males and females come to learn and recognise through real life experience as early as their teens. It’s the sort of thing any regular clubber knows, and as a guy looking to get laid, all you have to do is engage a woman in that ritual. When she ackowledges your signals (eye contact or dancing with her) she is not only approving you, she is letting you know that she’s aware of the ritual and knows what moves to make. It’s plain sailing from there. Providing you’re average looking or above and don’t scare her off by being unnaturally pathetic or creepy you should see some success. It is a numbers game where your looks and your standards decide your odds - though I’ve seen ugly guys being successful with attractive women and good looking guys taking home fat chicks. Of course, you’ll get rejected, ignored or shrugged off, but if that happens, move to the next.
If you just want to get laid, forget the malls and streets and number closing. Even if successful there you still have to call, make a date then go through that process. Unlike streets and malls etc, more women in clubs are open to being approached and ready for action that very night.
Personally, I want more than to get laid and have particularly high standards, but my judgement is irrelevant. I’m just sharing a simple process as it’s done in the real world. I tried this out last night just to demonstrate to my friends, so I’ll add a field report to this thread later today.
Why are there books, websites, DVDs and seminars dedicated to this and why do guys look at getting laid as a big deal? You hear guys go on about fvcking 10-100 women like it’s an achievement, and go on to divulge their “secrets” using this weird geek jargon: running patterns, openers, sets, wingmen, isolating, kino, standing on your head and chanting the Russian alphabet and whatever. What they don’t seem to understand is that any average Joe can and does get laid on any night of the week without all this complicated pseudo-scientific nonsense. The fact is, the most promiscuous men in the world have never read a seduction book or visited a PUA site in their life, and I doubt any of them know what “running a pattern” even means.
Ok then, put all that geek jargon and keyboard jockey theory aside. I’m going to tell you the easiest way to get laid in just 10 steps:
1. You’re going to be judged on your appearance so get clean, dress up nice and spend time to look your best.
2. Go and visit a club. You will increase your chances by aiming for the lower end clubs with less male competition.
3. Look around for any women you would consider a good lay and try to make eye contact. If eye contact is returned in a positive way, make a mental note of her.
4. Continue scouting until a bit later in the night when everyone has had a few drinks and let their guards down.
5. Hopefully you’ll have a few prospects now, so when you see any of these women on the dancefloor, go and dance in front of them, making eye contact as you do.
6. If she continues dancing with you, wait for a song or two to pass and try making physical contact as you dance – place your hands lightly on her waist, or dance up real close to her. She’ll most likely encourage it or grind on you if she’s interested.
7. Go and sit down with her somewhere, introduce yourself, ask about her. You can put your arm round her, rest your hand on her leg or alike.
8. Go for the kiss.
9. Providing she responds well, continue what you’re doing – dancing, drinking, making out.
10. At the end of the night, bring up the subject of her getting home and invite her to your place. If she accepts, you’re getting laid.
To say this is field tested would be an understatement. This is the basic mating ritual of clubs that males and females come to learn and recognise through real life experience as early as their teens. It’s the sort of thing any regular clubber knows, and as a guy looking to get laid, all you have to do is engage a woman in that ritual. When she ackowledges your signals (eye contact or dancing with her) she is not only approving you, she is letting you know that she’s aware of the ritual and knows what moves to make. It’s plain sailing from there. Providing you’re average looking or above and don’t scare her off by being unnaturally pathetic or creepy you should see some success. It is a numbers game where your looks and your standards decide your odds - though I’ve seen ugly guys being successful with attractive women and good looking guys taking home fat chicks. Of course, you’ll get rejected, ignored or shrugged off, but if that happens, move to the next.
If you just want to get laid, forget the malls and streets and number closing. Even if successful there you still have to call, make a date then go through that process. Unlike streets and malls etc, more women in clubs are open to being approached and ready for action that very night.
Personally, I want more than to get laid and have particularly high standards, but my judgement is irrelevant. I’m just sharing a simple process as it’s done in the real world. I tried this out last night just to demonstrate to my friends, so I’ll add a field report to this thread later today.
