Why a woman cheating on a man is worse than a man cheating on a woman

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Even this whole "back in my grandads generation" still betrays an unwillingness to accept female nature and is blue pill at its core.

Women have always been duplicitous, selfish individuals. Hemingway, Shakespeare, The Bible, Homer. Doesn't matter how far back you go.

The ONLY key difference is that women's power was almost solely via proxy and so men could keep them in check to some degree. Now they have the political, legal and economic means to exercise their sexual strategy in virtual broad daylight with little repercussion.

I read that the extremely rich French women in the days before the French Revolution acted almost exactly as typical snobbish women of today, though I don't see how. Can you provide me with examples (not necessarily from France either, just from any time period)?

It's pretty terrible when a woman cheats on a man. Their cheating instincts kick in and that thing does not take any blame. Continue and she is on the path to narcissism. They will literally FLIP their emotions to their spouse, because their brain cannot accept that they are fvcking up badly, so they will fault find, and be ultra critical on husband and he didn't do anything wrong. They will literally HATE husband to validate their affair, it's not conscious, it's subconscious. I tell people all the time, cheating within serious relationship opens a Pandora box and that can literally put people in murderous thoughts.

I knew some guys who used to bone wives and film it, they blackmailed those women for money. Occasionally they would target husband to be robbed or for "random" violent incidents. This is why it's not to be taken lightly.

At first, I did not quite understand. Though I read this again and thought about it. I see exactly how this is true and it is something scary. A women will forget about everything she ever had with the other person. Hence the no loyalty part. But that last part, what do you mean that they would target the husband? This I do not fully understand.

I will add my two cents to this discussion.

1) We see women as caretakers, mothers, or somebody we can trust. A cheating girl breaks all of these points to us.

2) We were raised with the disney mentality from TV, our parents, and the media. We were raised to think all women are innocent and could only be corrupted by men not by themselves. A cheating ***** shatters these stereotypes that were groomed in to our mind as we grew up.

This is huge too. Society puts up an expectation of women that they will not meet, and men get hurt when this illusion is shatterred.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It's pretty terrible when a woman cheats on a man. Their cheating instincts kick in and that thing does not take any blame. Continue and she is on the path to narcissism. They will literally FLIP their emotions to their spouse, because their brain cannot accept that they are fvcking up badly, so they will fault find, and be ultra critical on husband and he didn't do anything wrong. They will literally HATE husband to validate their affair, it's not conscious, it's subconscious. I tell people all the time, cheating within serious relationship opens a Pandora box and that can literally put people in murderous thoughts.

I knew some guys who used to bone wives and film it, they blackmailed those women for money. Occasionally they would target husband to be robbed or for "random" violent incidents. This is why it's not to be taken lightly.

This reminded me of how BAD a unfaithful woman is. When she cheats on you she quickly takes side to playing the "game" of life AGAINST you. One one night stand, and scared and coming home and loyal is different. An affair by choice and greed, it won't take a few weeks for her to be working HARD against the husband.

 

[Atom Smasher]

In the sex act, the woman is the receiver, the man, the giver.

The woman walks away having absorbed and internalized the man physically, mentally and spiritually. The transference flows from the man to the woman.

Therefore, the woman carries with her every man she has slept with until the last day of her life. Every sexual interaction with a DIFFERENT man degrades her. It literally shows in her face.

This is why we men are completely repulsed by a woman's sexual past. She has absorbed these men and they have become a part of her. She is a host to them forever.

 

[dude99]

Well I was referring to the stigma that a man who sleeps around is a stud, but a chick who sleeps around is a slvt.

First let me say i don not condone either sex having an affair. Now :

The reason is because 100 or 200 or etc.. years ago, the man was the sole provider. He was the one who took on the financial burden himself. He was the protector of the family, he is the one that bared all the financial risk of the family.

Traditionally men used to take a woman who didn't work, didn't have enheritance, didn't financially support the family ( but did in other ways,) and take him under his wing. He then married her and paid the bills for everythig and provided for her emotionally and financially and for their offspring and men asked for only one thing in return

Loyality.

Now women want equal pay equal rights but all he the perks of men still footing the bill and too boot they dont want to be loyal

 

[bigneil]

Well I was referring to the stigma that a man who sleeps around is a stud, but a chick who sleeps around is a slvt.

This is not a double standard. This is based on odds of reproducing. A man who cheats is a stud because he procreates more. A woman who cheats is bad because it reduces her odds of surviving.

Hence, female virgins are coveted and male virgins are shunned. A FEMALE SLVT IS LIKE A MALE VIRGIN - NOBODY WANTS THEM.

Every time a woman has a new sexual partner, her value intrinsically goes down. Likewise, men gain energy from being with more women. That's why men pay for it. They gain from it. Women lose from it.

People thought that by taking money from men via the State and giving it to women this would even the double standard. No. It only removes any incentive unattractive women have at becoming better humans (the way lesser men work harder to obtain more resources to compensate). See Stefan Molyneux for more.

http://www.fdrpodcasts.com/#/3571/the-ugly-truth-about-the-womens-march

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

In the sex act, the woman is the receiver, the man, the giver.

The woman walks away having absorbed and internalized the man physically, mentally and spiritually. The transference flows from the man to the woman.

Therefore, the woman carries with her every man she has slept with until the last day of her life. Every sexual interaction with a DIFFERENT man degrades her. It literally shows in her face.

This is why we men are completely repulsed by a woman's sexual past. She has absorbed these men and they have become a part of her. She is a host to them forever.

Damn, that's true. Women have a pack-like behavior, so that's why even though they say they are repulsed by a man who sleeps with a lot of other women, they secretly desire him more.

 

[logicallefty]

Women cheat when their man is no longer a challenge and another man comes along who is either more of a challenge than her current man, and/or, she perceives him at a higher status level than her current man and maybe even of herself. Men do cheat. But. I think you have a lot of men who only think about cheating but never actually do. That would be because men have those things called morals that women today seem to lack all together or darn near lack. And as someone else already said. With women it's just about the emotion of the moment . all of these factors make for a bad scenario that are not good for a man who wants a life long relationship.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Women cheat when their man is no longer a challenge and another man comes along who is either more of a challenge than her current man, and/or, she perceives him at a higher status level than her current man and maybe even of herself. Men do cheat. But. I think you have a lot of men who only think about cheating but never actually do. That would be because men have those things called morals that women today seem to lack all together or darn near lack. And as someone else already said. With women it's just about the emotion of the moment . all of these factors make for a bad scenario that are not good for a man who wants a life long relationship.

It could be a number of factors, but I think it is when they think that their current man isn't as masculine as the man in front of (or behind) them, then they cheat. But the problem is, women are so much more unstable than ever before. They allow their emotions to make them forget about the guy who they are in a relationship with even if he is a better catch than the guy who they are fvcking. It is messed up, and I cannot come up with a plausible conclusion other than these women being at least somewhat mentally ill. But to generalize the entire female population with +/- 0.5% error? That is rediculous.

 

[bigneil]

You also have to factor out the beauty effect. Better looking people have more options so they are more likely to be promiscuous. I think the word cheating is outdated because it implies a commitment, which is sadly obsolete. Women fall in love slowly over time, so it's silly for men to assume the woman will just commit after a ONS. These are men who want arranged marriages in the West.

 

[Milano]

This might be the conclusion: all men should try to cheat while in a relationship, that way she will love him for being strong and centered, not desperate for sex. The women would benefit from this, and the men. Obviously if you are in love it will be hard, but perhaps never fall deeply in love is the answer cause then your power is dead

 

[zekko]

I reject the notion that you have to cheat to be appreciated. That has not been my experience. Also, you're just as likely to destroy the relationship as enhance it.

 

[kronreiff]

I honestly could care less if a woman cheats or not. I no longer get emotionally vested in the modern day Western female!

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

This might be the conclusion: all men should try to cheat while in a relationship, that way she will love him for being strong and centered, not desperate for sex. The women would benefit from this, and the men. Obviously if you are in love it will be hard, but perhaps never fall deeply in love is the answer cause then your power is dead

This only works if she thinks your are clingy/needy or if she is to you and has low self esteem. Otherwise it won't.

 

[bigneil]

I honestly could care less if a woman cheats or not. I no longer get emotionally vested in the modern day Western female!

I agree. Note it's couldn't care less, but that's beside the point. Bitter males here have decided to impose impossible standards of faithfulness on other men's women, allowing them to dismiss such women as unworthy of them (as they stay home and masturbate to gang bang porn).

 

[Armend]

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It was a wonderful experience.