It's time to reflect on another year that has passed, and to appreciate the time you spent with that girl who now will be remembered for all of time as your favorite girl of this year. Even if you lost her in the end, you should still be thankful of the memories you have of your time together, and especially to never show bitterness. Maybe it's time to drop her a line.
Who was your Miss 2012?
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Trailboss
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Yes...my favorite is Vicky Vette....if she would only return my phone calls!!
Fly By Night
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I would like to nominate my first BPD I came into contact with. I learned about how crazy women's emotions can be and how to walk away even if she is hot. Also learned to gradually escalate and not be too rushy. Learned to never be vocal with your intentions, but make your actions convey them.
She had mega high interest in me, initiating contact with me over and over, but sadly I found out she had ridiculous mood swings so her high interest went to zero contact by the next day.
I mean I didn't like her that much or anything, but I think I learned the most off of her.
She had mega high interest in me, initiating contact with me over and over, but sadly I found out she had ridiculous mood swings so her high interest went to zero contact by the next day.
I mean I didn't like her that much or anything, but I think I learned the most off of her.
3countriesPlan
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That would be the girl I met in Seoul on the street on just a random approach I did when there on a business trip. Well, it went real well, had an instant date, then that night had a wonderful night at Hongdae, then we started to fly to see each other and then she finally moved to Beijing for me and we lived together etc.. that woman really knew how to cook!!! all the other girls after her couldn't cook worth crap, one didn't even know how to make rice with a rice cooker... ugh, well in the end the relationship died though in part due to communication issues, oh well.. I'm still in touch with Miss 2011... haha , shes ready to leave her bf for me if I want but I don't live near her anymore.. that is life I guess.. we all need to look forward 
Packers2010
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i haven't had too many girls this year..
nothing solid enough to say " i miss her" so i'm going to say the blond girl i played pool with that one time.
nothing solid enough to say " i miss her" so i'm going to say the blond girl i played pool with that one time.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
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JohnChops
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i told every girl i was speaking to , to go fvck them selves. So no, no miss 2012s . Clean slate in 2013, more like a clean slate every time i wake up in the morning.
sageproduct
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Easy, my one-itis who I dated casually for a month and a half. Awesome, awesome girl, really sweet, kind spirited, pure hearted, smart, no emotional issues that I knew of. She was the first girl who has ever truly made me feel like a part of something special and reciprocated my feelings at least somewhat. I felt like she was the first girl who ever took the time to begin to understand me. And she was the first girl I ever went past kissing with.
Katie, you're probably getting the sh1t fwcked outta you by your ex-bf as I'm typing this, but I don't care. I truly appreciated every single moment I had with you, and I'm no longer sad that you chose your ex over me. When I consider the memories we made in our short time together, happiness is all I feel. Thank you.
(Don't worry guys, I haven't broken NC.)
Katie, you're probably getting the sh1t fwcked outta you by your ex-bf as I'm typing this, but I don't care. I truly appreciated every single moment I had with you, and I'm no longer sad that you chose your ex over me. When I consider the memories we made in our short time together, happiness is all I feel. Thank you.
(Don't worry guys, I haven't broken NC.)
NobodyCares1
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For me that would be my oneitis girl that I reffered to as Merry in my journal but I guess I can tell her real name too, which is Monica.
We dated for about a month and a half, then in two dates it all went downhill and I went NC. She basically called me three weeks ago, probably wanted me to ask her out because she did it three times but just talked with me. I actually thought about going out with her again but right now I'm at a crossroad, because there is one other girl, though I'd still rather be with Monica I'm not sure it it would last or if it would be healthy for me.
The other girl is really nice and seems intersted so far, they are both basically equally hot but still there is just something about Monica that attracts me to her so ****!ng much.
Monica was also the first girl that I got a bit more serious with. So for all these reasons she is my Miss 2012.
We dated for about a month and a half, then in two dates it all went downhill and I went NC. She basically called me three weeks ago, probably wanted me to ask her out because she did it three times but just talked with me. I actually thought about going out with her again but right now I'm at a crossroad, because there is one other girl, though I'd still rather be with Monica I'm not sure it it would last or if it would be healthy for me.
The other girl is really nice and seems intersted so far, they are both basically equally hot but still there is just something about Monica that attracts me to her so ****!ng much.
Monica was also the first girl that I got a bit more serious with. So for all these reasons she is my Miss 2012.
Vantagepoint34
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Her name was Brittany and she was the size of a house.
In July I broke NC with the (former) stripper and once she saw how much weight I lost she has been better than ever. She said "I'm not saying you didnt look good before but you look so much better now." For those still missing the girl who left you, that's the best way: get in better shape and try again. But if she vanishes again, next time you have to wait it out. I endured a 19 day span and she broke NC that time. And that was the last time I offered diet advice!
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I would say Cindy on a scale of HB8 and extreme oneitis at one point , the girl whom eventually led me down the path into finding and joining this forum, first girl I got emotionally attached to and first girl to teach me how to be emotionally bitter, my first BPD that turned 4 months of my life into a emotional roller coaster
- I'll thank her tho, without her I wouldn't be here, I'm happier than I use to be
- I'll say 2012 got the best of me, a life full of lessons
- 2013's gonna be different, I ain't who I use to be
- I'll thank her tho, without her I wouldn't be here, I'm happier than I use to be
- I'll say 2012 got the best of me, a life full of lessons
- 2013's gonna be different, I ain't who I use to be
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Agreed bro.JohnChops said:
No miss 2012, just a bunch of wh0res.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
None, because I learned to NEXT (courtesy of SS)
*sigh* Shouldn't talk with her. It would be my ex-girlfriend who was really bringing down my life. Still do talk to her occasionally, I miss her, but I needed to learn to live without her. I'd not be anywhere close to where I am now until I broke up with her.