IKO69
Master Don Juan
It sucks when you're a young guy and your hormones are raging, but overall it is better to be a man. You'll realize this for sure when you get older. A man can only go up - a woman starts at the pinnacle and can't go any higher...it's a steady decline. It's the reason they are so paranoid at a young age about their appearance --- there are twenty something year olds who get botox for crying out loud.
Provided the man isn't a complete loser and does well for himself he can enjoy a nice dating life in his 30's and beyond with younger women. The same is not true for women when it comes to attracting "attractive" guys as they get older. They compete with younger, much better looking women sans the jaded bitter attitudes. They forever think they deserve "top guys" because at one point maybe these guys hollered at them, it's hilarious.
If you are accustomed to having things a certain way and it has been the case for a good portion of your life, to have that taken away from you would be very difficult. How do you think it has for women when the one "power" they have diminishes? And it is a mighty power indeed - it largely shaped their lives and a lot don't want to let go of that. The most pathetic thing in the world is 30+ year old women trying to recreate what once was. The same women that very well might have laughed at you and brush you off would probably suddenly give you the time of day (you went up while they went down).
Edit: When you understand this you can take things in stride because you realize it's not that serious. Everybody has problems but you are in a much better position then you think.
Provided the man isn't a complete loser and does well for himself he can enjoy a nice dating life in his 30's and beyond with younger women. The same is not true for women when it comes to attracting "attractive" guys as they get older. They compete with younger, much better looking women sans the jaded bitter attitudes. They forever think they deserve "top guys" because at one point maybe these guys hollered at them, it's hilarious.
If you are accustomed to having things a certain way and it has been the case for a good portion of your life, to have that taken away from you would be very difficult. How do you think it has for women when the one "power" they have diminishes? And it is a mighty power indeed - it largely shaped their lives and a lot don't want to let go of that. The most pathetic thing in the world is 30+ year old women trying to recreate what once was. The same women that very well might have laughed at you and brush you off would probably suddenly give you the time of day (you went up while they went down).
Edit: When you understand this you can take things in stride because you realize it's not that serious. Everybody has problems but you are in a much better position then you think.
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