So by extension the whole of psychology is a waste of time?Warboss Alex said:most guys on here are trying to apply a science to something that isn't at all scientific no matter how much you want it to be to justify spending your time reading the 'dj bible' when you could just be going out and finding your woman.
Do we just ignore the guys' lives that by learning a little bit about women they are much happier? Why argue with results? Aren't you the one who in bodybuilding preaches "try it and see if you get results." The DJ stuff is the same thing. We give some examples of stuff that works for other guys and a particular guy tries a couple things that are him and work for him. I don't care how huge you get doing 30 reps i'm not going to do 30 rep sets when it doesn't work for me.
I assure you that being able to cry all the time in front of your woman and all the sappy stuff you say you do constantly is the very rare exception of the world and just may be skewing your view of how the rest of the world of dating is going. I'm sure we all would love if things really did work that way - so many guys would already be perfectly happy - but it almost never does.
You might say that we should just wait for the woman that lets us do exactly what we please and not change ourselves at all. But we'd like to have women and fvck women while we're waiting for 'the one' if it's in our personality to want a one to begin with.