Who would I rather bang? The 20 year old stripper. Who is more "wholesome", which is the topic of this thread? The 40 year old.
No stripper is wholesome. Not a single one. There's never been one, there never will be one. Every single girl who strips has an issue; or multiple issues.
For you to get naked in front of strangers, ranging from 18 year old horny college kids, to 70 year old unhappily married men, and everything inbetween, and get groped by them on a nightly basis while people throw dollar bills at you, is a patently degrading experience. For girls to do it, they have to have some sort of emotional or psychological damage. They lie like it's a bodily function. They tell you they can seperate their work life from their personal life but that is of course, one of their many lies. I hear the same tired argument from the strippers I used to know back when I used to frequent one club in particular. "This is just something short term, blah blah blah, I'm gonna be done with this soon." Guess what, every girl who said that is still working there. Or left to dance somewhere else. Being a stripper is not a job, it's a lifestyle. A lifestyle only certain (damaged) women can live successfully. The idea of banging a stripper is no doubt a hot one, I mean who doesn't want to bang a stripper? But the drama that comes with such things, for me personally, far outweigh a busted nut. Sexy they are, hot they are, wholesome they are not.