Who initiates after setting up a date?

[JaegerPilot217]

I agree and it's true. I've had girls that I don't like, that have been dying for a chance to be with me. This one even said she will be an option if the one doesn't work out... and this is only because I don't care about dating them and I'm guessing it shows value. So I am for this piece of advice, as it does work.

that part feels like a catch-22 because isn't the guy supposed to lead?