It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
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..or bothwolf116 said:Chess is a brilliant game but there is no money in it. Learn poker.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
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Damn straight. If you know an opening, then you are already at a huge advantage to someone who doesn't. My favourite has got to be Sicilian Dragon, as there's so much you can do with it and it's the best defence and a good offence.Quiksilver said:SS casual chess club?
I don't have a problem with chess as long as it's not life-consuming. Back in HS I had a scholarship to a prestigious private school thrown at me, but it required studying chess like 2-4 hours a day and competing in 24 tournaments a year... needless to say turned them down. far too much commitment, and wasn't desperate for private school education.
Whoever wants to learn, go get an Openings book and learn/memorize 4 different openings: 2 for black, 2 for white. One for Left side play, one for Right side play.
After that, go to games.yahoo.com and play 1000 games of non-blitz chess using each of the openings.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.