Who has it easiter girls or guys?

[iqqi]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
iqqi - if you're hot, then ask yourself this:

Have I demonstrated to him that I can do something else than fukking? Did you talk about "smart things" or did you just smile?

please, playa! not only do i "demonstrate" that i can talk about "smart things" but i also have a very cool personality. believe me, they get hooked on me because of those things.

buuuut my point was that in the end because i am pretty they can dismiss all that they know about me, and just label me as pretty.

they are able to objectify me, therefor they dismiss the real connection that was established. i become some trophy that they can display.


this is all superficial, and i realize that it really says more about the person, but it is reality. when trying to get over someone, it is human nature to dismiss and objectify, so that you are no longer so emotionally involved and subjective. and women, especially pretty ones, are easy targets.

 

[Ice Cold]

please, playa! not only do i "demonstrate" that i can talk about "smart things" but i also have a very cool personality. believe me, they get hooked on me because of those things.

Ummm.... Kinda doesn't answer the question. You can still have "cool personality" and come off really dumb.

buuuut my point was that in the end because i am pretty they can dismiss all that they know about me, and just label me as pretty.

they are able to objectify me, therefor they dismiss the real connection that was established. i become some trophy that they can display.

And it's not gonna change. You're a cool cat when you have a beautiful girl, not a girl who can solve differential equations.

BTW: How do they know if they're dismissing all they know about you? They still see the inner you, it's just they don't mention it to their friends.

Still it's intresting. Why do you have such a strong desire to get your identity accepted?

 

[PlayerSupreme]

1. Unfortuantely if being yourself got you to where you are...alone and dateless then you do need to remake yourself.

2. Wishing shyt was a certain way will not make it come true...I wish there was a Santa Claus so I wouldn't have to spend so much each year.

3. I feel you though. It's to bad shyt is this way. That is why I set out long ago to master the game. It just takes doing the work. By work I mean go out and meet people.

4. There are no magic techniques to learn. What you need to do is just make yourself walk over and open your mouth. Whats the worse she can say...and those are only just words out of someones mouth.

5. I just told my white buddy yesterday this shyt and over time it gets easier. The more you open your mouth to women the easier it will get. The easier it gets the more confident YOU will become. The more confident you feel the greater your success margin becomes. The greater your success margin is the more women will become attracted to YOU... Until you end up like:

http://www.sacscene.com/pn1/modules...ame=gallery&file=index&include=view_photo.php

Then getting women becomes no big deal. And when the more women you get the more you learn how to handle them and yourself as a MAN. The easier it becomes to get them the less shyt you take from them...cause you know you can replace them in one weekend. The easier you can replace them.....the less importance they take upon YOUR happiness....then you come full circle and realize that you never needed women to make YOU happy to begin with..

But you can't take short cuts to get there...cause it will only be fake. Some paths you really do have to tread to get to the destination.

 

[PlayerSupreme]

Hiya Iggster

"please, playa! not only do i "demonstrate" that i can talk about "smart things" but i also have a very cool personality. believe me, they get hooked on me because of those things. "

Are you trying to sell yourself to another player behind my back!

***bytch slap****

HELL NO HO!!***

GET YO ASS BACK OVA HURR!

http://www.sacscene.com/pn1/modules...ame=gallery&file=index&include=view_photo.php

 

[deeloo]

from pink bible someone posted: " I hate guys. They never have reason for anything. Hugging and sharing one day and quick glances with no exchange what-so-ever the next. What is the deal? How do mens minds change so frequently and over night?"

lol.. i think thats kinda ironic and funny.. dont you think?

btw Player_Supreme, although I respect that you get women all over you, i don't understand why you have posted that picture in nearly every single thread.. cuz personally and honestly that woman in the picture is buttugly.. at most UG5... all wrinkles and ****.. and she's wearing makeup.. imagine what she'll look like without them.. just an old woman.

 

[prosemont]

Originally posted by PlayerSupreme
1. Unfortuantely if being yourself got you to where you are...alone and dateless then you do need to remake yourself.

2. Wishing shyt was a certain way will not make it come true...I wish there was a Santa Claus so I wouldn't have to spend so much each year.

3. I feel you though. It's to bad shyt is this way. That is why I set out long ago to master the game. It just takes doing the work. By work I mean go out and meet people.

4. There are no magic techniques to learn. What you need to do is just make yourself walk over and open your mouth. Whats the worse she can say...and those are only just words out of someones mouth.

5. I just told my white buddy yesterday this shyt and over time it gets easier. The more you open your mouth to women the easier it will get. The easier it gets the more confident YOU will become. The more confident you feel the greater your success margin becomes. The greater your success margin is the more women will become attracted to YOU... Until you end up like:

http://www.sacscene.com/pn1/modules...ame=gallery&file=index&include=view_photo.php

Then getting women becomes no big deal. And when the more women you get the more you learn how to handle them and yourself as a MAN. The easier it becomes to get them the less shyt you take from them...cause you know you can replace them in one weekend. The easier you can replace them.....the less importance they take upon YOUR happiness....then you come full circle and realize that you never needed women to make YOU happy to begin with..

But you can't take short cuts to get there...cause it will only be fake. Some paths you really do have to tread to get to the destination.

Good shiite PS.

 

[PlayerSupreme]

Originally posted by prosemont
Good shiite PS.

Thanks Playa! Just tryin to spread the Gospel. Wake a few minds up from their sleep...lol.

 

[Walldorf]

Who has it easier?

An interesting question, and one that seperates the DJ from the not so DJ yet...

The Answer is: Who the fvck cares?

As a DJ all what matters is that you create your own world and the woman has to qualify herself to be part of that world.

If you just look at the numbers, of course it is easier for women. But woman do not want some random guy, the want a real quality guy. Once you realize this, the odds are on your favour and by a very large amount as I might add.

 

[Juan_Man]

Girls have it easier. Even if they are ugly, some guys will still want them.

BTW, girls judge guys by their looks just as much as guys judge girls, if not more. As an average-looking guy, I know this from experience.

 

[Fragem]

They are more stupid than we are.

Girls aren't stupider than us. They are more like Equal. There are lot of fellow men that I meet that act way stupider than the stupidist gal I have ever met.

They can get raped, we can't.

Not true in all circumstances. Men get raped by other men, and a very small minority have been raped by women. Please don't state myths as facts next time you open your mouth. You'll wind up looking stupid.

 

[backbreaker]

it's about equal when you take all of the pros and cons. I wouldnt' want to be a woman. I like the freedom I have as a man.

With that said, woman aren't stupid, but are more iirational than men.

 

[Oxide]

Great, backbreaker!

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[Tails]

since i've been growing my beautiful curly hair, i've been getting more looks from just about every girl i walk past. i'm not going to lie to you. i am good looking. not the best looking, but i am above average. i've been told i could be a model, if i excercised enough

so i guess i know how it feels for women when all the guys are checking them out and panting like dogs. a lot of them probably like it. alot don't. i know i do! but the part i hate is they don't like to approach, since it's our job :/

when you get checked out alot, you start getting use to it and it seems normal. so i guess they're use to guys staring at them 24/7 (duhh)

i think it goes both way. it's easier for both women and guys. but truthfully? women have it easier

 

[MindOverMatter]

I have it easier. Girls can look good, but if they are like most the girls i meet, they are never approaching a guy.

And since most of the guys are shy as hell too, these girls just sit there dreaming about a guy approaching them.

I agree with you there Oxide. We have much more freedom, we can approach any girl we want without being labeled as a slut by society. We don't have to wait forever and ever for someone to approach us, we can take matters into our own hands.

 

[Fragem]

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