Who has it easiter girls or guys?

[marketboy]

Seriously,

Do you see any boards like this for girls trying to get guys?

I mean we are both supposed to need each other, but we have to play games and use tactics to get and keep a girl?

Whatever happend to just being yourself?

I just hate how we make girls prizes. There shouldn't be boards like this, and guys like Doc Love.

 

[ToP DoN]

youre missing the whole point

read the DJ bible

 

[fezz]

he is right about there not being any sites on girls getting guys. you can search it on google. There are hardly any at all.

Males are suspossed to be the ones to initiate and stuff like that, and thats kinda what this site is for. And this site isn't just about how to hook up with women, its also about controlling your life so you dont need women. This site is here to help the men that constantly think about women and constantly worry about them, and it is for them to know that they really shouldn't worry, because girls aren't the most important thing in life.

 

[AndoraStar]

Boys.. we think about you just as much

 

[Trance]

lol why would girls need a site to teach them this ****? All they have to do is look above average or average depending if the guy is very good looking or good looking, and insinuate to him and that's it. So easy for them really..

 

[teflon]

Women have it is so much easier then men it is not even funny. There is one site for giving dating tips to women out there. It is called the Pinkbible. You can check it out at www.pinkbible.com. WARNING: the PinkBible is extremely sexist against men. The female author is an extreme misandrist!

 

[AndoraStar]

Trance.. (love the name and the music)

That's so untrue.. If anything men are more hooked on how a girl looks! Granted beauty is in the eye of the beholder however from experience w/ my guy friends they go for women just by her looks.. so dude I don't know what you're talking about?? and I'm not an ugly chicky!

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

girls, hands down

Not even close.
Women are trained to study men at an early age by their mothers, mass media, etc. They read their teen mags, watch sappy movies (Titanic), watch MTV and talk to each other on the phone for hours about boys.
When I was 12 I was playing baseball and blowing stuff up with M-80's.

However, men catch up as they get older, more sophisticated, and richer.

 

[Slashco]

I think women have it easier in the beginning just because it's considered more 'traditional' for males to do the approach, to be aggressive, etc. But when it comes to maintaining good relationships with quality people, it's about equal.

 

[Oxide]

I have it easier. Girls can look good, but if they are like most the girls i meet, they are never approaching a guy. And since most of the guys are shy as hell too, these girls just sit there dreaming about a guy approaching them.


I can approach whoever, and if she rejects me i play it off and keep moving. I dont sit and wait for a girl to approach me, and i am in control of my own love life.

 

[iqqi]

this is one thing i wish you cats would realize. women do not have it easy! unless they are easy, and easy come easy go is their motto.

women are judged by their looks constantly. it affects the hows and the whys much too often.

i have had people hate me because i'm pretty.
i have had people like me because i am pretty.
i have been in serious relationships where at the end, they dwindled me down to pretty. you know how that feels?
i have had guys diss me, because i am pretty. like it strokes their egos.

not to mention that men usually want sex. this is something that is more emotional for most women. but men will lie and decieve to get it. how do you think that feels?

my girl friends would not believe half of the sh!t you guys worry about on here. it has definatley helped me to see you all as more human than you sometimes feel. whenever they b!tch or moan or generalize, i tell them some of the sh!t you cats say on here. it usually adds perspective, and hope.

i could say this more eloquently but i just woke up. so later.

 

[JB101]

I think girls have it much tougher:

99.9% of them are insecure about their looks. And insecure about alot of things in general.

Cosmo is the female equivilant of this site. Plus all the other beauty and fashion magazines.

This site is about improving your life in general and having a well rounded life. Exercising more, feeling better about yourself, feeling more confident, taking new chances. Those skills are invaluable in life. They can last for a lifetime. Beauty never lasts for a life time.

 

[Porky]

Guys have it easier.

Any of my minor flaws, if put on a girl, would make her unattractive. But, I'm still attractive before I even open my mouth and let my personality shine.

 

[Ricky]

This issue is a bit more complicated than you think

On one hand, girls have it easier in that they can sit back and be approached. But imagine that, how many losers do you have to turn down when you are a woman?

Imagine having to turn down guys you have no interest in, having to deal with knowing the only reason a guy is talking to you is because he want's a piece of ass, etc.

There are some thing girls go through that I would never want to have happen.

Yeah I get mad at chicks sometimes, mainly when they act irrational or reject me (which is pretty much acting irrational).

But hey that's how it goes.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

wow, that pink bible stuff is very sexist.

it keeps saying how men are so simple and how women should stalk their prey like men are some kind of dumb animal that should be devoured by woman.

haha it also says to use plenty of lotion, and that if you dont smell like fruit the guy will find someone that does.....man i remember hearing guys complain and complain about the smelly lotions that most girls use. I hate the stuff too. do all guys hate the bath and body works smelly lotions?

omg it also calls guys a victim...this woman who wrote this book is horrible! what a femnazi.

i worry for any female that buys that book and takes it seriously.

 

[Ice Cold]

We (guys) have it easier. Much much easier.


I can dress like a bum, have messed up hair and still get girls.

I get to approach. I get to choose who to hit on. Even if 10 SUPER HOT girls reject me, I know that 11th will take me in. As long as I have the balls to approach and fail, I will get girls.

Girls on the other hand are forced to be passive. 95% of them don't get approached too often. If they do get approached, it's not the guy they want. If they approach themselves, they are labelled as hoes.

Their social status is determined by the husband they have.

Our social status is determined by what we are.

They are more stupid than we are.

They have the ability to read body language sub-counsciously.

They can get raped, we can't.

They are forced to spend money on makeup, clothes and shoes...

Their career is interrupted by pregnancy and kids...

I (and most of my friends) view them as pieces of meat... But that's cause they're not intellectually stimulating...

not to mention that men usually want sex. this is something that is more emotional for most women. but men will lie and decieve to get it. how do you think that feels?

For me, deceiving a girl for sex feels bad. I become incongruent and usually screw up the lay.

But: I don't want to deceive for just sex. "just sex" sucks. Been there, done that. I want a girl who's pretty, but who's also intellectually stimulating. The one I can talk about topics. The one who reads books, is intrested about the world, has passions besides "friends and partying".

usually, the most convo I get are knee jerk reactions like. "I read a story about that guy who died in a crash, I felt so bad for him" * makes a puppy face *

Or "Look, it's a butterfly! Isn't it beautiful?" Jumps in excitement

How can I explain to her that the guy who died in the crash isn't special at all. That it's just one of the statistics plus the job of the journalist who made it emotional. Why won't she understand that it looks stupid when a 20 year old woman with mature boobs and butt jumps up and down because a butterfly?

I don't know why, but I don't get any other convo from them. All I have is the discussion of events. I've done this today.... blah blah blah.. My girlfriend told me this.... blah blah blah...

And I don't date scum. They all go to decent unis, yet none are genuenly intrested in their professions.

I just don't see what girls have to offer beside sex and imbecile chit chat.

 

[Ice Cold]

iqqi - if you're hot, then ask yourself this:

Have I demonstrated to him that I can do something else than fukking? Did you talk about "smart things" or did you just smile?

 

[Slashco]

I think at least part of the 'ditzy' mindset is because many girls are taught they should conceal their intelligence and not appear too smart because boys will be intimidated, and they'll never get a man, etc etc. And some are just dumbasses. But that shouldn't be a problem since you just said you get to choose who to approach; find a smart girl to be with and you're set (if she likes you back at least - DJ games don't really work on the smart ones).

 

[Lola]

of course we have it easier. We let you all do all the work. Approaching us, calling us, everything. Its true.

 

[( . )( . )]

isnt this a trick question?

obviously its harder for AFCs and rightly so, and easy for us if you follow the basics have half a brain with average looks the game is literally childsplay.