Who gives a f***!? Do I....?

[kev me723]

I've had a few diff. user names, but I don't really post very often. About a year ago, however, I stumbled upon this site, setting in the motions to change my life forever. In the last year, I have become a completely changed person. I can spark interest in almost any girl (even though holding it is a bit tougher for me, but that will be a post to come soon) and I have billions of times more confidence than I ever did before. I've done things I never thought I would. However, it's not as great as it sounds.

I know that deep down I am still insecure. I try to say that I don't care what other people think, but I do. One of my best friends is probably the biggest stoner in our school (which isn't that bad, cuz it's a private school, so he's one of the only ones). and sure I've smoked a few times, but that's not really my thing. However, this has lead to everyone in my school thinking I am a huge stoner too. (it's literally everyone, cuz my school only has about 500ppl in it.) My real friends obviously kno the truth and they don't care anyway.

Now everyone says 'don't give a **** what other ppl think' and all of that. But what I'm wondering is, "how?" how do I find a mindset that I truly don't care. Because I can say it all I want, but that doesn't mean I think it. btw, this doesn't only apply to one thing, I mean caring about anything that other people think. How do I actually stop caring and become secure.

All I am asking here is for some real DJ to show me the right path to start on. I know that I am getting better, but I am in a huge rut right now. I greatly appreciate the help from you pimps. Thank you

 

[Anomalous]

I think your the same guy i told to rent "Fight Club"!!

If you haven't seen it, then its about time you do.!!!!

You'll be surprised at how much you'll change into that "I don't give a ****" attitude.!!!!

 

[kev me723]

I'm not the same guy, but I've only seen like half of Fight Club. Thanks for the advise, I'll definetly watch the whole thing.

 

[08aisaac]

Yeah it's a good movie. I also suggest watching about 50 different Bruce Lee movies, because they are hillarious, and really great for getting into the mindset. Well at least they work for me.

Basically I get into that mindset, by doing stupid ****, and just not caring. I mean it's not something you can just change over night, but maybe if you got some sort of career started, like I fix computers, and if I cared what people thought about me, I wouldn't let them know.

Just do something and don't care.

 

[KaminoSS]

almost to add 08aiscaac said, get in to your own groove, no mattter how you do that, just lose your selff into what ever it is, for me that going to a concert and moshing. when i get to the concert im almost totaly PARANOID of what people think i mean , i will ditch a fun time to be scared, but once i start feelin the music and jump into the moshpit, no matter how beaten i get im invincable, becouse i think " hey, im here while all those guys our thinking ' man im scares sh1tless of goin in there and gettin my ass kicked like that kid did' and it brings out a part of me that just doesnt care becouse i know that im better than to worry about what the guys who are scared to do what ive done are thinking of me". but to be more to your point, find something that brings out the best of you and utilize it. even if im not at a concert il turn my music up hella loud and it brings back that feeling of indistucability and 100% confidence. good luck finding that thing i might take some time but when u find it its gold.

 

[Ouzo]

Is drugs that big of a deal? **** I have a big position at my school and half the people know I have tried weed lol.

But still I don't like it / won't do it anymore.

 

[08aisaac]

Originally posted by KaminoSS
almost to add 08aiscaac said, get in to your own groove, no mattter how you do that, just lose your selff into what ever it is, for me that going to a concert and moshing. when i get to the concert im almost totaly PARANOID of what people think i mean , i will ditch a fun time to be scared, but once i start feelin the music and jump into the moshpit, no matter how beaten i get im invincable, becouse i think " hey, im here while all those guys our thinking ' man im scares sh1tless of goin in there and gettin my ass kicked like that kid did' and it brings out a part of me that just doesnt care becouse i know that im better than to worry about what the guys who are scared to do what ive done are thinking of me". but to be more to your point, find something that brings out the best of you and utilize it. even if im not at a concert il turn my music up hella loud and it brings back that feeling of indistucability and 100% confidence. good luck finding that thing i might take some time but when u find it its gold.

I have never been in a mosh pit. lol. Guess I should try it.

As for drugs...
They are bad. I mean there are alot of things that can go wrong. But you are going to die one day, so you mught as well. But then you might become addicted. You might get in a car crash, and you might overdose.

Even drinking can ruin your life, and you can always have fun, while staying sober. It all depends on your outlook on life. It's your desicion. Choose well.

There are alot of great people I know, that don't drink. There are alot of great people, that do drink. Just remember, there are going to be consequences.

 

[Anomalous]

Haven't tried pot, won't either!!

Im not trying to impress someone with it. Anyways, if your going for the high, its scientificly proven that you get a bigger high off of running ("runner's high") You get it off like the 3rd or 4th mile. It feels so good, its like you can't feel anything but you just move your legs faster and it's kind of like a numb feeling. You know your legs are tired, but the don't hurt that much.

 

[B-Lemond]

I don't see what the big deal is at all. Practically EVERYONE at my "private" school smokes and theres even less kids in my school compared to yours. No one should really care because everyone does it. In fact they do it more at private schools because they can actually afford it. I personally don't smoke but I even heard stories about parents encouraging and smoke with the kids.

 

[kev me723]

k the post isn't about weed, cuz I really don't smoke regularly anyway. And my school is christian, that's why most the kids are gay like that. But back to the point, I'm getting better ideas, and getting better already, but who else knows how not to care, how to be ur true self without worrying what the hell anyone else thinks?

I'm looking for some good dj advise here. Thanks guys

 

[Inquire]

think back to when u were superior to everyone else. like u won a competition by urself and say its just like tat. **** them im better then them, there is no need for
"me" to make fun of someone else, only losers do that.