I tend to respect Espi, he sort of vibes with me like a 'player Uncle in the family helping his virgin nephew get laid'. Get practical tips and pointers that deal directly with the situation at hand.
Other people on here have been rather helpful, or have at least made an genuine effort to state their views, whether I have listened to them or not, and have generally offered support and perspective, for example:
skip2mylou - is recognized for the emphasis on improving looks by going to the gym.
Nine Breaker - is recognized for emphasis on 'inner game' - and a few other alises I cant remember off hand at this time.
Self-Mastery - said a useful tip on finding the 'female equivalent' of yourself and start a relationship with her before jumping into anything.
SamPendo - has an excellent gym thread somewhere.
Desinova - helpful advice to tackle contact-close phobia.
Flabbergasped - liked post analysis of my Jedi bootcamp, helpful thoughts.
popparu - recommending to look at Gunwitch.
Generally, most posters, even those not mentioned, have offered some helpful advice and I think anyone who has contributed practical and intelligent advice on my threads deserves respect, even if I dont totally apply or agree with everything.