Who came up the rules for what makes a "real man"?

[ConantheLibertarian]

I would think everyone knows Devane is being sarcastic. Didn't you try to rail the TA in your class Devane? Anyways, if you want to stay who you are, so be it. To each their own ultimately. I'm sure you can find someone just as you are. But just because we don't have to live like our cavemen ancestors doesn't mean women no longer seek the traits that made them attractive.

And it isn't an overt way of acting, I'm sure you've observed men who you would describe as "macho." Tell me, were they thumping their chest, fighting other men, or committing other such ridiculous acts? No, of course they weren't. It's not how you act, it's just who you are.

We have evolved, from needing to kill for food to having it delivered. We have evolved from building shelter to signing a mortage. But we still have the instinct to perpetuate the species. And I can guarantee you a dude 10,000 years who hightailed it after an encounter with a caribou was not getting any cavewoman poonani and making an jr. Ugs.

And women subconsciously still seek out the guy who could take the caribou down with a single blow to the head, or at least give off the impression he can .

 

[FatHairyM4F]

An example of what I'm talking about

This is from a thread I found called "not talking makes you creepy". The original poster says I have this guy in a class who I never see talking. He sits in the front row to make matters worse. He dresses like his mother picked out his clothes and is really goodboy-looking. All the girls in his group are completely creeped out by him and usually talk about him everytime he leaves the room.

And he's doing WHAT wrong exactly? He's "goodboy-looking"? Oh how awful! He appears to be a person who obeys rules and stays out of trouble (basically what a "good boy" is like; I should know because I was one and am proud of it). So he appears to be the kind of person who obeys rules and stays out of trouble, and that's creepy why?? And another poster in the thread said something about not "waiting for a reason to talk". Well don't we do most things for a reason?? I don't have much reason to say anything to anyone in real life. I say what I have to say, I answer when someone asks me a question, and that's it. I really don't have much interest in other people and consider them a necessary evil most of the time honestly. The only exception is wanting a girlfriend to take care of my needs. I'm concise, which the dictionary describes as marked by brevity of expression or statement : free from all elaboration and unnecessary detail <a concise summary> <a concise definition>.

But according to that OP, the women in his class find him creepy. Stupid, meaningless rules about what a man is "supposed" to be like. No, people are "supposed" to be concerned about whether someone is nice (meaning he doesn't do anything that infringes on the rights of others) or not. But I guess people are just degenerate immoral pieces of trash. Especially women for having these ridiculous rules for what qualifies a man as being "deserving" of her love and attention (when in fact every guy who is nice and decent already DESERVES to have a wife/girlfriend who makes him happy). Of course that doesn't surprise me because in the post about why women get into porn, someone said that women like to feel "naughty". So if it makes them feel good to feel that they're doing something "naughty" (immoral), then I shouldn't be surprised if they're degenerate pieces of trash in general.

 

[Alphamale1821]

Fathairy why don't you go get a sex change and go crawl back under the rock you came from. You are indeed a very pathetic man and a disgrace to yourself. You'd be lucky if you even got a women to look at you with your desperate, dependant, needy personality. Whether or not you like the way things are this is how they are and they won't be changing. Either you make the change or you wallow in your self pity and countinue to be lonely, lazy, fat and desperate loser. The choice is yours, though it sounds like it's already made up.

 

[Jerry Maguire]

Calm down

Don't flame the guy.

The goal of our lives shouldn't be about women or sex, money, the perfect body, a nice car, big house etc

And it shouldn't be to become a 'man' like somebody else on an internet forum says a man is...

It's quite simple: the goal of our lives is to be happy.

If you're happy without feeling the need to be different than you are just now, then excellent. It's just the fact that more or less everybody comes here because they want to change themselves.

I love cuddling, kissing, cute nicknames, etc with my girlfriend just like you do. I'm not going to appologise for it, there's nothing to appologise for. I feel affection for my girlfriend and I express it, not doing so would make me decidedly unhappy.

That isn't to say that I wouldn't like to improve myself, however.

 

[Serialized3]

:crackup: DevanE's tongue-in-cheek sarcasm really highlights the intelligence levels of the posters on this forum.

 

[John-467]

Lol. :crackup: Now this is funny. And while the original poster is sorta of like a whiner or "wimp" in the eyes of the "So-symp" boys....he's actually got a point.

A point that, the defintion of man is nothing more than a defintion that some guy, maybe 7 years ago, got up on a Seduction site and posted. Then a site called sosuave was formed out of it, then a guy named Pook came along, etc., etc.

For this forum is comprised of 10% PUAs and 90% of useless people that quite frankly have no inner BALLS to succeed.

I keep saying this shyt, over and over and over and over again.

Women choose men based on:

1. A Great Fvck First
2. A Good Relationship Second

It's the men with the sexual power that get to choose from the litter box first, it's the men that are so great in relationships but LACK the sexual power, that are hoping that guys like me "fvck up" and that will give them a chance.

But see, lol, I'm getting better and I fvck up less often now. Hell, I'm 23....I'm a grown man now.

Guys the bottom fvckin line, BE WHO THE HELL YOU WANT TO BE! You dont' have to be the Definiton of Man, bullshyt. You dont' have to be strong, and the rest of that shyt. I mean...if you live in the hood or a dangerous environment then hell yeah you need to be strong and all that, I mean your life depends on it.

But I keep fvcking saying this over and over....and I sound like a broken record.

WOMEN FVCK THE SEXUAL GUYS!!!

The guy could be gay, could be nice, could be a thug, could be a biker boy, could be fat, could like Clay Aiken songs, could like Tupac songs, could dance like a weirdo, could be a comedian, could be rich, could be broke, could have a car, could not have a car, could ........

Damn it, why do I even bother with you guys? You're going to believe just what the fvck you want to anyway lol fvck it.

 

[DJVladdy]

John, I like your posts, and there is truth to them, but some of it i still struggle to believe, even though i want to:

1. How the **** do girls know how good of a fvck you are? Dawg, im sure nerds are horny as hell, but they dont get jack sh1t.

2. If ur fat, OR look weird, OR are not dressed very cool, OR unattractive, OR dont radiate the right "energy vibrations" (we both know about the LOA, sou know what im saying)... girls won't even LOOK at you, nevermind wanna fvck u! If you approach them they'll have this look on their face, like why the hell is he even trying to talk to me? Mannn, sometimes im like FVCK WOMEN! i swear to god. Like theyre from a different planet or something. Geez. Bad night at the club tonight

 

[DJVladdy]

and John, seriously bro, i need to talk to you 1 on 1, send me ur SN or something to contact you. Thanks

 

[Jon55]

For this forum is comprised of 10% PUAs and 90% of useless people that quite frankly have no inner BALLS to succeed.

I come across threads like this with some guy who posted something "wussy", and then see all these replies that sound like a bunch of kids telling him he's "such a b1tch", "go chop your balls off" "(insert childish insult)", "you'll never get laid" stuff and realize how right you are.


DevanE's sarcastic post (how no-one understood it) just backs that up even more.

 

[WaterTiger]

Well if that is the criteria then I am not anything even resembling a "real man" and really don't see any problem with that. I dont see why I should have to be in order to find a woman who will accept me and love me just the way I am. Im a bit on the timid side, passive, not interested in "social" activities, pretty inexperienced about life in general/innocent (I have NO idea why this would be considered a bad thing; to me it just means I'm a good person compared to most guys my age), pretty lazy, very insecure, get my feelings hurt easily...

I DO need a woman to love me, make me feel important, attractive, special, lovable. I'm very affectionate and want to constantly cuddle, hold hands, tell her how beautiful she is, talk about each other's feelings, call each other pet names, talk baby talk, etc. Ideally my whole world would revolve around her, and hers around me.

Timid, passive, not social, inexperienced, pretty lazy, insecure, emotional hurt easily, needs others to make you feel important, attractive, special & loveable....

What this tells me is that you are looking for a Mommy, not a girlfriend/wife. You want some woman to stroke your hair and tell you "Oh poor baby" all day and shelter you from the big scary world. You want her to pick up after you, cook your meals and support you.

This is NOT going to happen. WHY????

BECAUSE WE MADE THE RULES!
That's right! WOMEN decided what makes a "man". WE choose who fathers our offspring, we choose who we sleep with and we don't want to sleep with a child or another woman. (Well, some do, but that's another post entirely)

You think "your way" is better and can attract women? In the words of the infamous Dr. Phil: "How's that workin' for you so far?"

 

[BlackJackal]

Timid, passive, not social, inexperienced, pretty lazy, insecure, emotional hurt easily, needs others to make you feel important, attractive, special & loveable....

What this tells me is that you are looking for a Mommy, not a girlfriend/wife. You want some woman to stroke your hair and tell you "Oh poor baby" all day and shelter you from the big scary world. You want her to pick up after you, cook your meals and support you.

This is NOT going to happen. WHY????

BECAUSE WE MADE THE RULES!
That's right! WOMEN decided what makes a "man". WE choose who fathers our offspring, we choose who we sleep with and we don't want to sleep with a child or another woman. (Well, some do, but that's another post entirely)

You think "your way" is better and can attract women? In the words of the infamous Dr. Phil: "How's that workin' for you so far?"

And there you have it. Women already have a pvssy, they dont need another one. But then again you could be a troll, seeing how your post is just extreme.