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White knights at bars

zinc4

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If you were here I would be the one beating the sh!t out of you. If anyone came to help I'd just say you'd prefer they mind their own business, then just continue.

Are you fvcking serious??! Do you not see how fvcked up that is?

What you're talking about has nothing at all to do with not white knighting. You're talking about not giving a single sh!t about other people. Why should anyone give a single sh!t about you? You don't fvcking deserve it.

I did dislike you based on your previous fvcked up statements, but thought you may not really be as crazy as I perceived. With this there's nothing left to doubt, I hate you, go fvck yourself.

I once saw a guy like you get his arm hacked off with a machete and damn near murdered by a Taiwanese gangster because he foolishly tried to stop one of them from slapping his gf in public in front of his friends.

I will help if it's someone attacking a kid or defenseless animal, but among peers, leave everyone to their own business.....you might have to learn that the hard way. Everyone creates their own happenings/karma and more times than not, the person being attacked is getting what they deserve. Anything else is being a white knight.


American Sniper is the most overrated movie ever by the way....by far Clint Eastwood's dullest movie ever. I know a guy who did special forces with Chris Kyle, though and says he was legit. The dude was an admitted former white knight who joined the military thinking he was going to be a hero...help everyone...until about a decade later he had to be institutionalized for a while and said he was a fool for letting the US government ruin him mentally by twisted covert special forces training and serving overseas in battle and on assignments.
 
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@zekko I very much identify with being the middlepoint between weak and strong. I find it wrong for the strong to abuse the weak. I'm strong myself today, but I know how it is to be weak and be at the mercy of someone abusive. I don't care if it's two strong people going at each other, they stand a chance protecting themselves. What we're talking about in this thread is NOT a fair fight, zinc4 is talking about allowing straight out abuse. It turns wrong in the instant one of them (in this case the woman) does not want to continue and the other (the man) continues against her will. This very clearly puts the man as you say in the role of wolf and the woman in the role of sheep. The wolf stops for nothing and doesn't give a damn, the sheep is incapable of defending itself and thus suffer from the attack. I would prefer not to see people suffer, I would rather they fight me. That's at least a fair game, because I fight back.

I think we would all be better off helping others in need. I don't care if the world goes one way or the other or how the times have changed, I stand by this with rock solid integrity.

I don't think he meant any disrespect either, I didn't feel disrespected by his response. I felt horrified that he thinks it's ok to don't do sh!t about people being brutally attacked, even if it was to his own detriment.

Feminism and white knighting is a common connection, one I can easily resolve. Protecting a feminist is what a white knight would do, because a feminist takes the strong position. A white knight protect those who do not really need it. Feminists are wolves, not sheep. As you pointed out.

@zinc4 Most of us I assume live in the western part of the world. Taiwanese gangsters are criminals, what they do is illegal by any definition of any law. Cutting someone's arm off is a reaction waaaaaay out of proportion. Just because they don't give a fvck about other humans, it does NOT justify you doing the same. Are you going to let these people win and run the world through fear, threats and intimidation? Only way this was foolish is if he knew he couldn't fight them, it would then be a much more prudent choice to let the girlfriend take a slap. Minimizing the losses. Anyways the barbaric minorities of asian countries is completely irrelevant to the discussion of basic fvcking morals.

You do have some understanding about the concept I'm talking of I see. To protect a defenseless animal or child, to protect the weak from the strong who choose to abuse their power to cause harm. Not all adults are equal in strength. Violence is NOT an acceptable way of acting, the only exception being physical defense against those who do attack with violence.

I'll tone it down a little from slashing people's arms off since it's waaaay more extreme than the topic here. If there's a man forcing himself onto a woman who does not want the man it's wrong, he's using force against someone else with no consideration for the woman. Such harmful use of force I will use my own force against, to defend those unable to defend themselves so they don't get abused.

Last thing, nobody deserves to have their arms chopped off regardless of what they've done. If you think so you're as rotten as the gangsters as far as morals go. We're not in the dark ages anymore last time I checked, but if you continue thinking like this and other people adopt this thinking of yours, then we're gonna degenerate into a new dark age.

I sincierely hope you get on better thoughts.
 

zinc4

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@zekko I very much identify with being the middlepoint between weak and strong. I find it wrong for the strong to abuse the weak. I'm strong myself today, but I know how it is to be weak and be at the mercy of someone abusive. I don't care if it's two strong people going at each other, they stand a chance protecting themselves. What we're talking about in this thread is NOT a fair fight, zinc4 is talking about allowing straight out abuse. It turns wrong in the instant one of them (in this case the woman) does not want to continue and the other (the man) continues against her will. This very clearly puts the man as you say in the role of wolf and the woman in the role of sheep. The wolf stops for nothing and doesn't give a damn, the sheep is incapable of defending itself and thus suffer from the attack. I would prefer not to see people suffer, I would rather they fight me. That's at least a fair game, because I fight back.

I think we would all be better off helping others in need. I don't care if the world goes one way or the other or how the times have changed, I stand by this with rock solid integrity.

I don't think he meant any disrespect either, I didn't feel disrespected by his response. I felt horrified that he thinks it's ok to don't do sh!t about people being brutally attacked, even if it was to his own detriment.

Feminism and white knighting is a common connection, one I can easily resolve. Protecting a feminist is what a white knight would do, because a feminist takes the strong position. A white knight protect those who do not really need it. Feminists are wolves, not sheep. As you pointed out.

@zinc4 Most of us I assume live in the western part of the world. Taiwanese gangsters are criminals, what they do is illegal by any definition of any law. Cutting someone's arm off is a reaction waaaaaay out of proportion. Just because they don't give a fvck about other humans, it does NOT justify you doing the same. Are you going to let these people win and run the world through fear, threats and intimidation? Only way this was foolish is if he knew he couldn't fight them, it would then be a much more prudent choice to let the girlfriend take a slap. Minimizing the losses. Anyways the barbaric minorities of asian countries is completely irrelevant to the discussion of basic fvcking morals.

You do have some understanding about the concept I'm talking of I see. To protect a defenseless animal or child, to protect the weak from the strong who choose to abuse their power to cause harm. Not all adults are equal in strength. Violence is NOT an acceptable way of acting, the only exception being physical defense against those who do attack with violence.

I'll tone it down a little from slashing people's arms off since it's waaaay more extreme than the topic here. If there's a man forcing himself onto a woman who does not want the man it's wrong, he's using force against someone else with no consideration for the woman. Such harmful use of force I will use my own force against, to defend those unable to defend themselves so they don't get abused.

Last thing, nobody deserves to have their arms chopped off regardless of what they've done. If you think so you're as rotten as the gangsters as far as morals go. We're not in the dark ages anymore last time I checked, but if you continue thinking like this and other people adopt this thinking of yours, then we're gonna degenerate into a new dark age.

I sincierely hope you get on better thoughts.
The entire point of what I said just flew right over your head.

The girl who was being slapped by the way started kicking the white guy for interfering in the whole deal as he lay there in his own pool of blood.

Point is....it's not your place in such situations to judge what's really going and who deserves what...nor is it your place go intergere. Any trashy girl foolish enough to date a violent gangster and who's turned on by that deserves what she gets.
 

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@zinc4 Well those details changes things. Yes he made the wrong choice. Don't tell me it's not my place to judge a situation when you don't fvcking tell me crucial details about the situations you use to illustrate, don't be a d!ck.

I think my point flew straight over your head as well. I said to help a woman if she needs the help and when you can provide help, not just recklessly interfere in a situation. As I've come to understand, people in Asia might not even give a fvck about a child that's been injured in traffic. Unless of course it's their own or something. You seem very affected by that culture, but I find it horrible to not give a sh!t about other people.
 

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@zinc4 Well those details changes things. Yes he made the wrong choice. Don't tell me it's not my place to judge a situation when you don't fvcking tell me crucial details about the situations you use to illustrate, don't be a d!ck.

I think my point flew straight over your head as well. I said to help a woman if she needs the help and when you can provide help, not just recklessly interfere in a situation. As I've come to understand, people in Asia might not even give a fvck about a child that's been injured in traffic. Unless of course it's their own or something. You seem very affected by that culture, but I find it horrible to not give a sh!t about other people.
You speak in naive generalities showcasing yourself as someone not that experienced with the real world and just stuck in his own bubble.

That's in China ..and there's a lawful reason for it....anyone who helps, including his/her family, can be held both legally and financially responsible for the victim.

It's a problem with their government and laws... not the people in general and it has zero to do with what we are discussing.....so enough with the uncalled profanities and name calling.

Get out and experience the real world some before making such broad generalizations off of videos you happened to come across in youtube. There is a big culture difference, which someone sitting in their little comfy chair at home in the US or wherever you are from the west would never understand.

In general, industrialized parts of non third world Asia are much more humane and safer than the west. Rural parts of China, the Phillipines and Southeast Asia stricken by poverty are a different story, though.
 

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Well I wasn't talking about the fvcked up parts of asia to begin with, you were the one dragging that sh!t into discussion. Don't fvcking put that on me.

If we're just going to conclude there's huge local variations then there's no point discussing this. You did understand I'm talking about the relative safety of the west.

I am NOT generally speaking about how things are in asia, I'm talking about how it generally works in the western world. The part of the world that is most relevant to the users of this forum.
 

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^ Can he be mad about getting bullied/harassed and also have a point?
 

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Already told you guys, I knocked a random white knight out at the bar here about six weeks ago.

I wasn't being bullied.....just harrassed...I can more than stand up for myself but realize it's not worth my freedom and ability to travel being taken away to retaliate against a trouble maker.

If someone ever physically touches me first, though, it's on, because I will have camera proof of self defense.
 

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Funny interaction, Tyler RSD funnily dealing with an idiot white knight....

 

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In my opinion and experience a guy that steps to "save" a woman or her "honor" is simply a guy that failed and is trying to save his ego and sense of value by "doing something worth".

A guy who got a girl and is taking her home is not gonna risk a conflict to step between an unknown woman and an unknown man.

Also in my experience 90% of women harassed at public places in some way wheter direct or indirect are responsabile for that, from stealing a drink through faked interest then leaving to baiting someone into approaching them for the sole fun or rejecting him.

I may be an a$$hole but if I see a guy pushing a girl in a club unless I need a reason to beat that guy, I'll pass.
If women have abilities to manipulate men, they surely have abilities to avoid problems as long as they want.
 

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In my opinion and experience a guy that steps to "save" a woman or her "honor" is simply a guy that failed and is trying to save his ego and sense of value by "doing something worth".

A guy who got a girl and is taking her home is not gonna risk a conflict to step between an unknown woman and an unknown man.

Also in my experience 90% of women harassed at public places in some way wheter direct or indirect are responsabile for that, from stealing a drink through faked interest then leaving to baiting someone into approaching them for the sole fun or rejecting him.

I may be an a$$hole but if I see a guy pushing a girl in a club unless I need a reason to beat that guy, I'll pass.
If women have abilities to manipulate men, they surely have abilities to avoid problems as long as they want.
Exactly.
 

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American Sniper is the most overrated movie ever by the way....by far Clint Eastwood's dullest movie ever. I know a guy who did special forces with Chris Kyle, though and says he was legit..
Eh, I thought it was pretty decent. Worth a watch at least. I don't think it really took a strong side on being either pro-military or anti-war/anti-government. I thought it presented the facts and let you draw your own conclusions.

I do think that the way Kyle died - he liked to take veterans out to shoot. I think that putting firearms into the hands of a potentially crazy person without really knowing that much about them - I don't think that's a particularly good idea. I mean, it's one thing to go shoot with someone who had a bad injury or something, it's another to take someone out who's got stuff clattering around in his brain.

Here's another movie I saw, Batman: Year One, which is an animated film. In it, there's a scene where Bruce Wayne goes out to fight crime, and he sees a pimp beating a young girl he has out turning tricks. Bruce steps in, and of course the girl protects her pimp - buries a knife in his thigh. That's a pretty classic case of white knighting, where the guy steps in to protect her, and she attacks him. Because she's loyal to her abuser, not her would be protector.
 

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I get the point. Yeah, it can be dangerous intervening especially if you dont know the previous events. I guess I have been conditioned, but I will also help children, delicate men, old people or animals if they need it. Sorry, just seems like the right thing to do. IMVHO YMMV
 

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Don't get me wrong, id definitely help a dog being attacked.
 
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