While her parents are around

[naluholo]

I've read tips on strikin' up conversations with girls while they're alone and some on when they're with a friend - But I've never seen any tips on hitting on girls while they're with their parents. I let too many go by because they're with their parents - do most of you let them slip by in that situation, too? If not what do you do?

 

[blienk]

If you know the girl reasonably well, you can just have a nice "fluff talk" conversation and maybe ask her if she wants to chill sometime. Always introduce yourself to the parent(s) or say Hi if you already know them, this will go far to raise their approval of you and diffuse any awkardness the girl may be feeling.

Cold pickups with parents are a different story, and I generally wouldn't recommend it. There's always going to be some awkwardness, and the parental presence really limits your DJ repertoire. Obviously any sexual innuendo is out the window, and Dad probably wouldn't be too pleased to see you putting on the kino either.

 

[naluholo]

If I know them it's no big deal... I'm talking about the girls I haven't met. Of course no one would recommend it unless they know how to do it, or at least have an idea that might work.

Too many girls slip by this way so if no one has any ideas that can take away some of that awkwardness, then we need to be coming up with some.


Thanks for the input blienk, but talking to a girl you know with her parents around (or at any time really) isn't much of a challenge.

 

[Salacious D]

Instead of waving to them or saying hi, just walk up, squeeze your crotch really hard with both hands and stick your tongue out at them. You'll undoubtedly make quite the impression.

No,

Just be yourself. Don't try to impress them, because chances are you're just going to look stupid and they're just going to see right through it. They're her parents for chrissakes, they've been around three times as long as you have, so they can probably tell when someone is spewing bull**** at them. So, yeah, be yourself, minus kino if you're meeting them for the first time or if you aren't in a LTR with the girl [yet].

 

[naluholo]

Sounds good... anyone else?

 

[4nando]

Act as though you were DJing a girl in front of her friends. It's basically the same thing. You trying to DJ a girl in front of people who don't want her to be Djed.

 

[seloifter]

No, no, DO use kino on parents! Kino isn't purely sexual....... it's also very friendly. Kino makes people feel closer.
Trust me, her father ain't gonna want to sleep with you because you touched his arm.

You can't do cold approaches with parents... the problem is that DJing and impressing parents are like total opposites. And you DO wanna leave a pretty good impession on the folks (unless maybe it's the kind of chick who really really hates her parents...... then it gets tricky lol)....

so, my suggestion is, if you've already DJed the girl some, and you see her with her parents, go up and chat up the parents, be very nice, warm, friendly, funny without the ****y; and hardly pay attention to the girl. In fact, don't at all. It'll make her jealous for the attention, AND it'll make her see a different side of you (which then makes her think "wait, I thought he was a jerk, but he's not with my parents...... is it only me? Why doesn't he like me?" and bam!) AND it'll get the parents on your side. Win win win

 

[naluholo]

"You can't do cold approaches with parents"

Why not? I'm sure it's hard, but I'm also sure it's possible. Again, way too many girls slip by because their parents are around.

I want to hear some ideas for hitting on a girl you've never met when they are with some parents. I'll be trying some things, but I'd like some more ideas to try.

 

[Biphoria]

Be honest. Walk up to the parents and say " Hello, nice to meet you. I'm xxx. I'm here to take your daughter home and steal her innocense"

 

[blienk]

The tricky thing is, what you can or can't do depends a lot on how protective her parents are, which is something you have no way of knowing. There are some parents out there who probably wouldn't think twice if some guy started flirting with their daughter and asker for her number. There's also parents who would flip out if you just made prolonged eye contact with her.

Cold pickups w/ parents are extremely difficult because you need to convince the parents as well as the girl that you're not a creepy guy, and it's hard to do this without coming off as a "nice guy".

I see two possibilities really. You can either just go full-on DJ and take the risk of being shot down by the parents, or you can tone things down a little, "be yourself" so to speak, and take the risk the girl just won't care about you.