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Which Type Of Girl Is Easier To Get Over?

soulforge

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Which type of girl did you find the easiest to get over?

A] The very hot & exciting, yet toxic girl

B] The average looking girl, who was the most perfect girlfriend

Thoughts?
 
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Girlfriends were tough but the toxic ones were easier for me to get over because i knew there was no way i could have married them.

getting over a wife that you were really happy with for many years and had a kid with is brutal
 

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A

she ain’t always gonna be hot but she’s always gonna be toxic.
 

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Definetly B for me. I can make peace with myself for breaking up with a girl i couldn't have a future with. But somehow losing a potential good wife and mother to my childrern, in these times... It would haunt me a bit.
 

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Which type of girl did you find the easiest to get over?

A] The very hot & exciting, yet toxic girl

B] The average looking girl, who was the most perfect girlfriend

Thoughts?
its less about her and more about you, I told this before and I will repeat, you can get over anything as long you can concentrate your mind in it, want to get over a girl? concentrate on all her bad traits and all the sh!t she did, if you have trained your mind and have control over it anything you want to do can be done
 

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much easier to get over the toxic chick for obvious reasons she's toxic :rofl:

I still think about my average looking LTR now and that was over 2 years ago she was a brilliant GF in literally every department

I just physically wanted more attraction which I got with a toxic chick last year

But that didn't last long 6 - 7 months and it was done , I was over her in about 4-5 weeks
 

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I'm going to go with the majority here - it's usually easier to get over girl A. Girl B type relationships tend to be longer term and you build up feelings and shared bonds. So, generally they're more difficult to get over.
 

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I do not think is just as simple as that

Have you guys ever met a sl8t that knows all the tricks in the book and for some reason she does not want to sleep with you? Mission Impossible
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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I'm going to go with the majority here - it's usually easier to get over girl A. Girl B type relationships tend to be longer term and you build up feelings and shared bonds. So, generally they're more difficult to get over.
True but it's also possible to end up with girl A types for a longer term too.
 

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I know, bro - somehow I ended up married to one! (unforunately).
Yeh and those type of relationships I would say are much harder to get over.

That toxic mess, trauma bonding, ups and downs, can feel like coming down from a toxic drug.
 

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Yeh and those type of relationships I would say are much harder to get over.

That toxic mess, trauma bonding, ups and downs, can feel like coming down from a toxic drug.
Horrific, mate. The whole thing was a nighmare.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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you get no bitches my guy what are u still here posting stupid ass sht for...
 

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From my experiences, the worst cases of oneitis I have ever had were from girls that fit option B
 

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I just got done with a type A and damn... being with a head-turner is hard to get over. She was toxic too but damn she was so cute and pefect petite body. Average looking girls arent gonna give you boners just by thinking about them.
 
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