Which One Is It?

[justiceseeker]

I've been told that if a woman is disrepecting you, the best policy is to simply not react and walk away.

But

Have any of you guys had an experience where some beotch was ragging on you incessantly, and when you finally told her off, she immediately treated you better afterwards?

This has personally happened to me several times. I always thought I was just letting her know she got to me, but to my surprise it worked in my favor.

 

[ARrocket]

I've been told that if a woman is disrepecting you, the best policy is to simply not react and walk away.

But

Have any of you guys had an experience where some beotch was ragging on you incessantly, and when you finally told her off, she immediately treated you better afterwards?

This has personally happened to me several times. I always thought I was just letting her know she got to me, but to my surprise it worked in my favor.

Yeah....my junior year of high school, there was this girl who was a total b!tch towards me. One day I said "why are you always such a b!tch?" and she says "well then don't talk to me." I turned around and started joking around with some friends.

I don't think you have to let her know she's getting to you....just let her know that her behavior is childish and uncool...the fact that you can walk away after saying that does wonders...
She was super nice to me after that...and even started flirting with me. lol go figure.

 

[Mavrick]

There's not enough information to give a good reply.

If you've always been passive towards someone when they've done you wrong, it always pays off to act the opposite to have the individual back the f off. It's called doing a 180. If you're always angry, it pays off to be indifferent.

 

[guru1000]

Disrespect happens as a result of No Boundaries implemented.

Every woman whether in an exclusive or not exclusive relationship needs to be directed. Directing is a MUST after rapport is in place.

Implementing OVERT boundaries is key here. The blatant disregard or respect to an implemented boundary is walking away.

Because no two people could possibly share identical thinking, it is important to communicate and understand each other DO's and DON'Ts.

Some boundaries are just not negotiable. Overtly expressing them is KEY to clearly set the pace and show the DO NOT CROSS areas.

Many men come here and start threads of how their woman are acting strange, disrespectful, distant or unavailable lately. These are the men that have weaker communication skills and have not implemented or expressed their boundaries. How could you blame the woman if she was not AWARE of his boundaries?

Without boundaries, there is no ACCOUNTABILITY. Without accountability, there can be no consequence. Without consequence, there is Disrespect.

Read that again.

I believe and have much success with OVERT expression. It does not take away from my PRIZABILITY in any form. Quite the opposite. It shows the woman what I expect from her because I hold myself to a higher standard. This is important to differentiate. I covertly tell her because I find such VALUE in myself, you must step up to the plate.

Covertly, the dynamics of qualifying are reversed and the frame is in place. Remember your girl must always RESPECT you. Part of this respect lies in the standards you apply to yourself and follow. You lead by example.

 

[DannykDJ]

NO good can ever come from "telling someone off" imo

I believe a man loses tremendous value every time he shows negative emotions. No good can come from telling someone off who is disrespecting you. It's fighting a war where the loser gets hurt and there is no prize for the winner

When someone can get under your skin so much that you have to lash back out at them then they have control over you.

99% of the people you meet are neutral about you so if someone disrespects you it is because you have done something that has caused them to lose respect for you. Don't worry about what that reason is, just let it go and move on.

If someone is disrespecting you the best thing you can do is respect yourself and walk away. Now in your case she started treating you better because you passed her test and showed her you had a pair and would not put up with her bs. It doesn't always work like that so you have judge the situation for yourself.