Which is better Number or MSN

[I_Wanna_Learn]

Question is pretty much just that which would you guys consider a better thing to get number or MSN/ICQ etc......... I'd like to get the number but alot of my guy friends are like no go for the MSN it's the thing of the future and more girls are willing to give something out like that rather then there number. What are your thoughts on the issue

 

[NoMoreMisterNiceGuy]

I start with :

1.Wich is your msn address?
2.whats ur email address?
3.whats your cell number ?
4.and your home phone number?

odds are that shes gonna say yes to the first ones but not the other way around ...if her interest is low u might increase her IL with an email .... and she might give it to you through email or msn ....

 

[NRM]

Of course women prefer MSN. They can turn down multiple guys with a simple copy+paste line they've been storing. They have a convenient block feature to easily let guys think that they died or their computer exploded. No wonder women are more willing to give out their MSN names rather than their number.

But really, what are you looking for? A woman who can easily let you down through MSN in various ways or a woman you want to date? If you were attracted to a woman and she asked for your number, you'd give it in a heartbeat. A less attractive woman? Throw her your MSN, you could always block her later.

If she won't give you her number, she probably won't give you much else. So unless you're looking to join one of her bookclubs, stick to the number. In the dating world, quit looking for quantity, look for quality.

 

[jonny football hero]

# all the way.

On msn, it is to easy to just end up pretending you are someone your not, you can't do that on the phone.

 

[Dukester]

if you ask for msn, she will probably give it. if you im her, she might never answer or something like that, and you dont have concrete evidence that it's her.

get a #! if she is interested she will give you the number. if not, she may give a fake one, but # is always better. trust me!

 

[Unforsaken]

I prefer e-mail address. I don't bother calling, just leave a e-mail (also can plan the e-mail and make it perfect). It a low risk move. After she write it down tell her to write her # underneath (if she says no, you still got her e-mail. Also could make her say "What the hell, I already wrote my e-mail address). I have had alot of e-mail address by women and 99% has replied..


The reason # is higher rejection is because of all the wuss guys who get it and call her 9 times a day. She doesn't know if your one or not, so she might not want to take the risk.

 

[MrBond_Age]

Is it just me or the wave of new users is wussified? All the major player know that they have to get the digits, the dates and the lay. The order isnt important.

 

[Unforsaken]

Originally posted by MrBond_Age
Is it just me or the wave of new users is wussified? All the major player know that they have to get the digits, the dates and the lay. The order isnt important.

Does it matter how it happen aslong as you get laid?...

 

[MrBond_Age]

Originally posted by Unforsaken
Does it matter how it happen aslong as you get laid?...

No it doesnt. What matters is how YOU make things happen. Ill give you a secret: You cant make her interested in you if she wasnt interested in the first place. If you ask for her phone number and she declines, chances are she is not interested.

 

[TooColdUlrick]

Originally posted by MrBond_Age
Is it just me or the wave of new users is wussified? All the major player know that they have to get the digits, the dates and the lay. The order isnt important.

agree. anything but the number is weak. second choice is email. preferably both.

wake up guys, the point is to get the date right? you've already met the chick. what advanage does MSN have over the phone or email in getting a meetting with her?

MSN and the like, i would never even consider asking. you're explicitly saying, "golly gee, let's be chat buddies". W E A K!

if she's an MSN frequent flyer, you're just one of her 500 bizzilion friends. probably yapping with someone else AND you at the same time. W E A K!

 

[TooColdUlrick]

Originally posted by Unforsaken
I prefer e-mail address. I don't bother calling, just leave a e-mail (also can plan the e-mail and make it perfect). It a low risk move. After she write it down tell her to write her # underneath (if she says no, you still got her e-mail. Also could make her say "What the hell, I already wrote my e-mail address). I have had alot of e-mail address by women and 99% has replied..


The reason # is higher rejection is because of all the wuss guys who get it and call her 9 times a day. She doesn't know if your one or not, so she might not want to take the risk.

this is weak game too. you said it yourself, it's a "low risk move". she knows it's a low risk move and probably assumes you're a wuss. she should know if you're a wuss or not BEFORE you call her. if you've done your groundwork on the initial contact, and she likes you, she will call back.

 

[Unforsaken]

Originally posted by TooColdUlrick
this is weak game too. you said it yourself, it's a "low risk move". she knows it's a low risk move and probably assumes you're a wuss. she should know if you're a wuss or not BEFORE you call her. if you've done your groundwork on the initial contact, and she likes you, she will call back.

Goodpoint, thanks on the tip

 

[h2o]

i agree with TooColdUlrick. email and instant chat are a bit weak, because as one who does use those i know that you usually talk to more than one person at once. plus, i think the difference between instant messaging and phone convo is sort of like the difference bettween a phone convo and real/physical; it is a lot more personal and one-on-one on the phone, it's more real. i'd say go for her cell number. plus, her phone is probably always with her, and a computer usually isn't always with someone, so you have a better chance of reaching her when you do decide to call.

 

[S0LID]

well ask for her number! If she says no well you've saved time instead of waiting for her to come online.

 

[TooColdUlrick]

btw, i do chat and IM. i've picked up chicks there. i'm not saying IM is bad, just that if you have a face to face, forget MSN handle and get the digits.

 

[NoMoreMisterNiceGuy]

I say it all depends on the enviroment you meet the girl ... on the street you hardly will get a number specially home phone numbers , but the odds increase if its a cell phone number or email or msn ....

 

[NoMoreMisterNiceGuy]

Originally posted by TooColdUlrick
this is weak game too. you said it yourself, it's a "low risk move". she knows it's a low risk move and probably assumes you're a wuss. she should know if you're a wuss or not BEFORE you call her. if you've done your groundwork on the initial contact, and she likes you, she will call back.

what if you don't do your groundwork in the initial contact? ... if you get a date with her you have plenty of time to show her you are a man and not a wuss ...

 

[becker]

Just the other day I had a gal who I chatted with maybe twice on the internet just give me her number out of the blue, without me even asking for it. It was totally random, but apparently she wanted me to call. I didn't call, because she's not totally my type of gal, but she'd be fun to hang with once in a while. A bit too much on the wild side for me.

I also had another girl give me her number after I asked her online for it, and I called her, we got to talk, and will be going out tomorrow.

I think it's very crucial to move to the phone number and calling as soon as you get that, because if you stay on MSN, not only will you end up talking too much and depleting all the topics for the actual meeting, but you'll also run the risk that she will create some image of you that you'll have to live up to or else she'll be disappointed.

I spoke to a girl friend of mine the other day, and she met her BF online, but she said she could tell a lot about a person by the way they speak on the phone. For women, that's a pretty important gauge it seems, so you're going to have to suck it up and call her if you want anything to happen.

 

[NoMoreMisterNiceGuy]

email is more indirect but it works though ... you still are gonna see her interest level anyway....
on the street I don't bother asking for a number only emails ....and they work better ... why? cuz the enviroment is tooo public .... you have to lower her risk .... and increase yours ....thats the idea

 

[I_Wanna_Learn]

Oh I have no doubt that i have to call in order to get things moving but i'm just wondering if people find girls more willing to give out msn first rather then phone number. If i did go for the msn first i'd pretty quickly move onto getting the phone number