Where to meet older, attractive women?

[satelliteparties]

Even when I was in my teens, I remember liking women 10 or so years older than me. I thought "I can't wait until I'm in my late 20s" and here I am...28...and wanting to meet older attractive women. Problem is, I have no idea where to meet them.

I went to Florida last year on vacation (Orlando to be exact) and it was full of 18-25ish women sex and the city types just like it is where I live.

I'm into women like Rachel Weisz or Kate Winslet or Roz from Frasier (90s Roz, not her now)...and don't see these type of smart, mature, natural beauties in real life.

I'm wondering what type of hangouts I should be looking for? Upscale bars, jazz lounges?

It's not that I'm not into early/mid 20s women at all...if I was attracted to a woman and she was 23 for example but otherwise attractive and mature I wouldn't hold it against her at all...but I find when I am attracted, the woman is usually older...so I'm wondering where to meet such women?

I also hear that women are at their sexual peak in their 30s and crave intimacy the way a teenage boy does.

 

[DonJuan_DeRosco]

I also hear that women are at their sexual peak in their 30s and crave intimacy the way a teenage boy does.

This is most likely related to declining market value as they age.


As for where to find them, the old cliche library is one, though where I find to be a haven for them is folk music gigs. Not sure how common these are where you hail from but over here you can normally find one most weeks, they are great to chill out with nice people and music you may not listen to normally.

Not really hunted older gals for a while.

 

[Mike32ct]

If you go to some luxury hotels with good bars, you can find them traveling - which doubles their potential for fun and games.

Agreed. Traveling older women are the best.

 

[JimmyMack]

Also agree with the luxury hotel bars - just walking into one sets you up for a great story the following day.

On a more subtle side: Try grocery stores like Trader Joe's, and Whole Foods, as well as different book stores. We have a huge used book store/record store here in town and I was floored at how many hot older women were floating around on their way home from work.

 

[5string]

You guys have it all wrong. You get the older chicks at nursing homes. Here are the reasons why:

1) There are lots of beds
2) They can't run fast so it's easy to catch em'
3) Plenty of free drugs
4) They're in little nighties most all the time (easy access)
5) They are bored because all they do is play bingo
6) Most wear dentures. Get it?

 

[Nutz]

Even when I was in my teens, I remember liking women 10 or so years older than me. I thought "I can't wait until I'm in my late 20s" and here I am...28...and wanting to meet older attractive women. Problem is, I have no idea where to meet them.

I went to Florida last year on vacation (Orlando to be exact) and it was full of 18-25ish women sex and the city types just like it is where I live.

I'm into women like Rachel Weisz or Kate Winslet or Roz from Frasier (90s Roz, not her now)...and don't see these type of smart, mature, natural beauties in real life.

I'm wondering what type of hangouts I should be looking for? Upscale bars, jazz lounges?

It's not that I'm not into early/mid 20s women at all...if I was attracted to a woman and she was 23 for example but otherwise attractive and mature I wouldn't hold it against her at all...but I find when I am attracted, the woman is usually older...so I'm wondering where to meet such women?

I also hear that women are at their sexual peak in their 30s and crave intimacy the way a teenage boy does.

Hotel bars. The kind of women you're imagining are going to be business professionals on the go who take care of themselves. The problem wtih that age demographic is they more than likely will have a large heaping of baggage--kids, debt, ex-husbands, personality disorders, etc. On the upside their SMV is on the decline and they're feeling it sharply by that point, so they're much easier to date if you have your **** together and keep in shape.

 

[scrouds]

Even when I was in my teens, I remember liking women 10 or so years older than me. I thought "I can't wait until I'm in my late 20s" and here I am...28...and wanting to meet older attractive women. Problem is, I have no idea where to meet them.

I went to Florida last year on vacation (Orlando to be exact) and it was full of 18-25ish women sex and the city types just like it is where I live.

I'm into women like Rachel Weisz or Kate Winslet or Roz from Frasier (90s Roz, not her now)...and don't see these type of smart, mature, natural beauties in real life.

I'm wondering what type of hangouts I should be looking for? Upscale bars, jazz lounges?

It's not that I'm not into early/mid 20s women at all...if I was attracted to a woman and she was 23 for example but otherwise attractive and mature I wouldn't hold it against her at all...but I find when I am attracted, the woman is usually older...so I'm wondering where to meet such women?

I also hear that women are at their sexual peak in their 30s and crave intimacy the way a teenage boy does.

You were a mommas boy growing up, yes?

 

[satelliteparties]

You were a mommas boy growing up, yes?

Funny but no, I just like women, not young girls. I like a fertile, curvy body. Most young "hot" women are scrawny...no T n A.

 

[Zunder]

"Funny but no, I just like women, not young girls. I like a fertile, curvy body. Most young "hot" women are scrawny...no T n A".

go the beer fest in Germany. They have older women with huge mammaries serving beer there. Hook up with one and she can take you her place and you can suckle on her big titty like a lil bubba that want to be cradled by the older "curvy" women you so crave.

 

[satelliteparties]

Big words from people behind a computer.

I'm 28...what am I supposed to do, go for 21 year olds that I have nothing in common with anyway?

 

[backbreaker]

This is most likely related to declining market value as they age.


As for where to find them, the old cliche library is one, though where I find to be a haven for them is folk music gigs. Not sure how common these are where you hail from but over here you can normally find one most weeks, they are great to chill out with nice people and music you may not listen to normally.

Not really hunted older gals for a while.

i got into an argument about 2 months ago with this guy who was trying to tell me that older women are more sexual than younger women. it's amazing how brainwashed people really believe this jive. I mean seriously believe this


to the OP, that is 100% hogwash. You like older women becuase htey are easier to bag and are moree likely to be agressive. You are mistkaen agressiveness for sexuality.

IN fact, you have it 100% backwards.. the woman in the 18-25 year old are TOO sexual for you and you aren't sexual enough, so you want easier kill. You want to basically go bowling with the little bumper rails on and say you got a strike after you have banked shot the ball off the gutter.

 

[Mike32ct]

Welcome back BB.

 

[Zunder]

Big words from people behind a computer.

I'm 28...what am I supposed to do, go for 21 year olds that I have nothing in common with anyway?

big words? why u mad?

do you realise how utterly fvcking ridiculous your comments are about not bothering to go for 21 year olds (at your "ripe old age of 28" no less) because you "have nothing in common with".

mate, i am not claiming to know fvck all about women, I have fvcked up in the past, been a jerk, been a total AFC, been just about everything, made every mistake - but even me - for FVCKSAKE - would not be dissing off 21 year olds as I "don't have anything in comon with them".

having not much in common with a prospective lay/gf/ltr is GOOD! Contrast is king.

you go find the ripe old leathery cougars bro - I'll go fvck a tight bodied 21 year old any day of the week, no matter what I got in common with her or not.

:kick:

 

[satelliteparties]

It's a shame I have to clarify myself, but I will. Never anywhere did I say anything about looking for women my mom's age or women older than me exclusively. In fact, the number of the woman's age is irrelevant.

Natasha Henstridge around the Species days (who I consider to be the sexiest woman of all-time...haven't seen what she looks like lately) she was 22/23ish in that movie and around the time she was getting a lot of roles. But she was a woman, not a girl...had curves in the right places, a mature looking face and so on.

Also...the older women I'm attracted to are more like that...not even necessarily milfs or women old enough to be my mother. I just like a woman that has managed to break the stereotype of losing her looks in her late 20s/early 30s and still takes care of herself and looks feminine.

It's more so the look of sexual maturity and the attraction than the exact age. I just find that most women I see around where I live who are in their early/mid 20s are the no tits/no ass/overdressed/too much makeup type of wannabe jersey shore/sex and the city women...and I'm not attracted to that look at all.

The last woman I dated was 24 but she didn't look it and had curves in the right places and was extremely mature.

 

[Zunder]

It's a shame I have to clarify myself, but I will. Never anywhere did I say anything about looking for women my mom's age or women older than me exclusively. In fact, the number of the woman's age is irrelevant.

Natasha Henstridge around the Species days (who I consider to be the sexiest woman of all-time...haven't seen what she looks like lately) she was 22/23ish in that movie and around the time she was getting a lot of roles. But she was a woman, not a girl...had curves in the right places, a mature looking face and so on.

Also...the older women I'm attracted to are more like that...not even necessarily milfs or women old enough to be my mother. I just like a woman that has managed to break the stereotype of losing her looks in her late 20s/early 30s and still takes care of herself and looks feminine.

It's more so the look of sexual maturity and the attraction than the exact age. I just find that most women I see around where I live who are in their early/mid 20s are the no tits/no ass/overdressed/too much makeup type of wannabe jersey shore/sex and the city women...and I'm not attracted to that look at all.

The last woman I dated was 24 but she didn't look it and had curves in the right places and was extremely mature.

I am glad you clarified it to yourself - because I dont know what the fvck you are on about.

Is it maturity regardless of age?

Is it curvy girls rather than slim ones?

Is it women, as you said in your OP - that are 10 yars older than you that you have always been attracted to or not? you are 28 so + 10 = 38...thats cougarish to me bro.

 

[Mike32ct]

Dude just go for what you like, regardless of what the others say. I think the only concern is the perception that you might be "wasting" your youth when you could be pulling younger ones.

This is a valid concern coming from us older guys. There will come a time when won't be able to pull low 20s or eventually any 20s ones anymore. So I would still hook up with some 20somethings while you still can. Like for me, even with my best game on, 26-27 is about the lowest I can get right now.

But if your preference is older ones, mix in some of those too. I agree that there is something sexy about a mature lady that still looks good. A classy broad in a business suit can be hot .

We all have a certain age and looks range that we target. It's a combination of personal preferences AND what we can actually pull.

 

[scrouds]

How much older is your mother?

I have an inkling of a new theory. The lovemap develops when you are young. Women are having kids older, therefore in a freudianesque manner, the young, impressionable boys imprint their mothers into their lovemap. Since the mothers are older now then they used to be, older women get imprinted, hence a rather biologic / learned push for the milf.

But ignore the theory for now, I want to know how old was your mother when she had you.

 

[K2000kidd]

My forty+ coworker got divorced from his 36 year old wife and now fks 21 to 25 year olds as a rule.

High 5 Paul

 

[Delly2000]

To be honest a number of my notches are distributed towards older women. the oldest I have gone is 11 years my senior when I was 25. I look older so when you saw us together you really can't tell. Plus she looks good for her age suprisingly.

I think maybe I attracted them because I was seen as the nice conservative guy that was ready to settle down but an added bonus was that I was young. Truth be told I am conservative somewhat. But I wasn't ready to settle down by no means.

Go to the grown and sexy parties. Over 30's etc. They like to go out for a drink too. Not all of them just stop partying after they go a certain age.

Concerning the sex-drive and age thing. I really can't tell the difference. And I dated from 18 to 37. They seem ready to go when I am. But lol....the younger ones seem to have "lubrication" faster.. and there is more of it.lol.

Sorry to take it there.

 

[davewe]

big words? why u mad?

do you realise how utterly fvcking ridiculous your comments are about not bothering to go for 21 year olds (at your "ripe old age of 28" no less) because you "have nothing in common with".

mate, i am not claiming to know fvck all about women, I have fvcked up in the past, been a jerk, been a total AFC, been just about everything, made every mistake - but even me - for FVCKSAKE - would not be dissing off 21 year olds as I "don't have anything in comon with them".

having not much in common with a prospective lay/gf/ltr is GOOD! Contrast is king.

you go find the ripe old leathery cougars bro - I'll go fvck a tight bodied 21 year old any day of the week, no matter what I got in common with her or not.

:kick:

Exactly! I am currently dating 2 early twenties girls. What do we have in common? Sex for Christsakes! And when I tell them stories from my youth about hearing Jimi Hendrix live or meeting Abraham Lincoln, they get all giggly at my experiences and want to please me even more.

But to each his own and if you prefer older women - go for it. There are plenty out there not yet in the cemetary.