Where to get it...?

[mzplk]

Well, the situation is:
-I'm a virgin
-also never had a girlfriend
-Don't have friends that go out
-Finished undergraduate education at university,
(definitely missed opportunities there...),
now finishing up at a community college (two courses)
-Currently live with parents, one unemployed
-Looking for a job
-I am 21 years-old

Any ways to meet girls, get laid quickly?

(hey I know a lot of the things I listed have to change,
just want to know what my prospects are)
(If a get a good job, hopefully the situation will improve
greatly, right? So I can then get out, meet girls?
At least enter a new or better social life?)

 

[runner83]

To be honest, your prospects are grim.

I mentioned you to two of my girl friends and they immediately ran off in the opposite direction screaming.....


Seriously though, just focus on improving yourself in all aspects.

To meet girls, pubs, clubs, bookstores, anywhere, just go and approach girls. Online dating is another option, but time effectiveness and getting experience is not as good.

Take the attitude of experimentation in the early stages to learn what works.

PS - Don't mention to a girl that you're a virgin or never had a girlfriend, that turns them off for some reason

PPS - Perhaps have a look at the DJ bible.

 

[Duracell_Bunny]

PS - Don't mention to a girl that you're a virgin or never had a girlfriend, that turns them off for some reason

Yeah it's proberbly a good idea not to mention it "directly" but I would disagree that it turns them off (especially older women) as long as you don't bring up the subject at all. They will jump at the chance to get laid with you and take charge to teach you a thing or two but ONLY as a one off. They will not come back for more but it is something you will not regret.

This is how I lost mine, a freinds g/fs older sister (he got drunk and slipped it out one night). Before I had only spoken to this sister breifly. She knew I was too shy at that time, on our next encounter we randomly bumped into each other at a bar, she litterally jumped on me and started kissing me (at the time I didn't know she knew, and was like WTF?). There was practically no small talk and she seemed really horny, bought me a drink and asked if shes going back to mine.

As for your job hunting. I could recommend getting some bar work (not local pubs etc) until you find a job more long term. Working with similar people around your age (including HBs) and gives you the chance to go out after and have drinks with the people you work with. You may also get to know the regulars.

 

[EFFORT]

Any ways to meet girls, get laid quickly?

The quickest and easiest way for you to get laid is buying an escort

If you want to do it on your own "merit" it depends on where you are mentally. There isn't a quick fix. You have to get your life together. Start out with getting a job (something social would be good). Then start adding in hobbies, and going out and approaching as many women as you can.

 

[BananaSmile]

get a job
get a hobby (here you will meet friends and maybe LTR women)
then with your new friends go Happy hour and there you can get cheap sl#ts like you wanted

 

[mzplk]

Thanks for the replies guys...

Basically,
-get my life together
(meaning, get a job, move out, possibly even a car...)
-get out, experiment, try new things
-meet more people
-then get laid

Otherwise, we get "grim prospects", as runner83 said.

Makes sense to me...

 

[KingofHearts]

aaah, everyone is forgetting the loser badboy that abuses his low esteem girlfriend. Then asks for money to pay rent, then turns and buys drugs for himself. He finds a way to get laid! I promise I'm not talking from experience, sort of...

I didn't have a lot of things when I decided to propose to my future ex-wife. She still hopped on board, for the potential I guess. And our situation did improve over time (while our relationship went to crap). No job, lived at home with parents. Not much relationship experience (but I always had girls around and spun plates before I knew what it was called).

I think most people, regardless of their circumstance and status, have the opportunity to get laid, get a girlfriend and possibly even get married. BUT (here's the important part...) your status determines the "quality" of girls you pull. Yes attractiveness, but I'm talking more about character, personality, depth - also the lack of poor traits & habits such as mental disorders, drug addiction, attention whoring etc. This is not to say that you won't run in to poor quality girls as you make your way up the food chain. It simply means that you will have other options besides skanky girls that have crooked teeth, big moles on their face and an itchy pussi. And with more options you won't be as needy with any one particular girl, plus you are more likely not to put up with BS, ****tests and other female manipulation tactics that drive men nuts.

So yeah, you can go out and get laid right now. Hell, you can probably bag a decent looking girl too. But its best to get priorities straight and date very casually and sporadically. There are so many other things to get done and straighten out that women and sex should be at the bottom of the list, if anything just so it doesn't distract you as much. Hard to find a job online if you're girlfriend is on your bed watchiing porn on your laptop and only wearing underwear. Sounds like fun, but seriously it takes discipline to wait on the fun stuff until you truly have the opportunity to enjoy it.

Build your castle first, then search for a queen.