Hoodie
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 2, 2020
- Messages
- 106
- Reaction score
- 56
- Age
- 31
I realised my neediness with women actually came down to loneliness.
Trying to make the women fill the need for connection which ended up with being needy for company and attention.
And thus breaking every "rule" of attraction.
I think this all boils down to me losing contact with my previous friend group as I stopped playing video games and besides video games we actually had little in common, thus I lost contact with them. I found video games to be time consuming and didn't resonate with who I wanted to be.
So I've come to the conclusion that I need to find new brothers who are on the same path, to go out together, banter together and hold eachother accountable.
I realise this would fill the loneliness that I try to make women fill and the neediness with women would decrease.
Also I think bringing a friend to nightclubs or bars would make picking up chicks alot easier..
Basically someone that helps eachother out on: Girls, Business, Connections, Banter, having fun, company, holding eachother accountable.
Trying to make the women fill the need for connection which ended up with being needy for company and attention.
And thus breaking every "rule" of attraction.
I think this all boils down to me losing contact with my previous friend group as I stopped playing video games and besides video games we actually had little in common, thus I lost contact with them. I found video games to be time consuming and didn't resonate with who I wanted to be.
So I've come to the conclusion that I need to find new brothers who are on the same path, to go out together, banter together and hold eachother accountable.
I realise this would fill the loneliness that I try to make women fill and the neediness with women would decrease.
Also I think bringing a friend to nightclubs or bars would make picking up chicks alot easier..
Basically someone that helps eachother out on: Girls, Business, Connections, Banter, having fun, company, holding eachother accountable.
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