Where there is a WILL there is a WAY!

[DonMEgaHoss]

Here's story that I will hope inspire others that NOTHING is IMPOSSIBLE and to never give up no matter how hard you want to fall.



To all those that feel down about themselves this is for you this site as helped me but you cant rely on a website for all your problems you have but if you truly wish to better yourself you'll understand what Im talking about if not then your wasting your time.






When I was 18 and I had oneitis for this girl who worked at my restaurant.. I was a naive afc she screwed me over.. More so I screwed myself over..
She liked me I got her number was a fool..
called all the time she never returned my phone calls.
Was nervous and insecure about my looks I was like 210 at my heaviest..slight man boobs and belly and love handles...

She snuck into my house in the middle of the night gave me a BJ In my sleep... (after I said I finally gave up. I guess to make me think I had I wetdream about her or something..but left signs of passage.. Found finger nail clippers disassembled on my floor in my bedroom by my futon.. didnt have one that size.. and like a few reminants of finger nail on the carpet... I had some funky weed from hawaii could of been laced. Dunno... Anyways I new she had been there I and ran off after smoking a litle I went of I was like up for 3 days wacked out.. chasing her. Cops pulled me over I was going 95 in a 35 , almost ran a car off the road before I finally stopped.. Sorta resisited arrest.... which is a felony.
Got sent to a mental hospital. Tried to blow my brains out from my depression.. Instead of letting whatever it was that freaked me out work itself out of my system they just put me on some medication... made me think the tv was talking directly to me... ( made me think I was the lost prince of whales cause it was on the tv the marriage... and I thought they where talking to me... So the put me on more medication and anti (whatever the word for multiple personality thing cant spell it right now.. )

Finally got out of there... Lost my job... Got a DUI and totaled my car.

I almost lost everything even my life over this girl.

I Thank god everyday for my luck... I SOMEHOW manage to get out of a felony. with only reckless driving. And my DUI I got out of that for just drinking underage...

Your be a man thread inspired me and I stopped taking my anti-depressants I feel better than ever... I exercised vigorously tried to surf everday.. now Im 6'1 164lbs 4% body fat from being a lifeguard swimming 1500meters ever other day. I get looks from tons and tons of girls.

I been sad and alone for most of my life.. I got my job back... where I work again with the girl the screwed me over. Im friendly to her all that happened to me because of her doesnt bother me anymore..

Now she's with one of my semi-friends who's fat not the good looking in the face doesnt do anything physically active hardly. Not going anywhere in life

The other day when I came in the cook my semi-friend was cooking and the chick was hosting.. She came back after I popped in became the center of attention with my charisma and & ethusiasm Practically all my female co-workers vibin on me as I flirted with them .. She seemed miserable and hug my friend sadly... Then slightly looked at me and left.

This was the greatest feeling ever... My revenge has been hard work but the taste is so much sweeter

I went from pudgy geeky acnefaced depressed loner to highly motivated/ambitous Lean muscle jock now From surfing/snowboarding/kitesurfing/paintball/soccer/football.

Doing Ocean rescue/lifeguarding and chief

I have saved people from drowning to shark attacks.
Best feeling in the world.This coming january I can be eligable to join the coast guard. ( Damn anti-depressants have to wait a year from the last time I used it. ) Where I hope... nay WILL become the helicopter rescue jumper diving into huricane storms 50 miles out saving people.

IF I can change that much in about a year in half.. There aint nothing I cant do if I put my mind to it. I still have trouble it wouldnt be life without it.


Heres a quote from Batman beyond, " Training is nothing! WILL IS EVERYTHING!"

Another Quote from 50 cent Sunny days wouldnt be special if it wasnt for rain. Joy wouldnt feel so good if it wasnt for pain. Death gotta be easy cause life is hard.

Believe in yourself cause one one else will.

 

[shiningshadow]

I like your story. You really, really improved. But where did it suddenly get to the point where she came and gave you a BJ in your sleep?

 

[flippinfreak]

schizophrenia?

That is a crazy story man, some people say you have to go crazy before you can find humor in everything and northing at the same time.

I bet when you get in the groove you can make people laugh about the most amazing things

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

The Dr. there was an ******* just kept me there to line is pocket ****@ I was there for 2 weeks and it cost me close to a grand. Food sucked I got ripped off I could of gone to a 4 star hotel for that much.My room mate missed the toilet *cringes* and I just happen to step in fecal matter.. bastards... about the BJ Man either I was trippin' my balls off . She was digging me but my phone skills sucked then.

I told her on the phone that she might as well plan to skip school the next day cause she wouldnt hardly be able to walk when I was done. Now with hindsight she was crushing me hard and I screwed up. But what doesnt kill you makes your stronger. Im Glad now that all this has happened. It has made me who I am today.

Oh When Im in the groove Im in it.. Im smooth like silk not the soy milk cause that will cause man boobies.

Feel free to use this if you want. Im sizzlean' like fine cusine' girls like that referrence since I cook. Lol

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

No more replies Im shocked I thought it would give a kick in the a$$ to some of you.

YOU know who you are! :box:

 

[JHeights83rd]

Motivation is only the first step

originally posted by DonMEgaHoss

No more replies Im shocked I thought it would give a kick in the a$$ to some of you.

thats great that youve had all that success in your life. Some of us had a harder path in life. Me, ive had it hard in every aspect of life. After i decided im gonna mack up, its been like a year and change. Its not just you want it, and it gets done, its not that simple for everybody. Can you get to the NBA if you had the will? Can you be MJordan if you wanted to?

Me, ive had to find my voice tone, my body language, my style, my clothes, my convo. My game is constantly evolving so that i can take more power so that i can work around hunger and racism. I remember at the beggining of last year girls would say "man, you need to smoke a L or get drunk or something, and chill out." This stuff all takes trial and error, its not just believing, or willing. This type of trial and error can take 3 - 5 years. So its really not motivation its finding your own mack.

I really hate all these posts that say "getting laid is easy" "girls are horny as ****, they want it more than we do" "youre making into a big impossible task" Also my family and my block says **** like that to me too, its annoying and demoralizing. Its just like going outside and seeing all the other guys get girls and you dont.

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

If you use your Will power yes you could be in the NBA. MJ is a perfect example Just do as search I remember a post mentioning MJ and about is trials and errors.
Who knows who will be the next Michael Jordan

My success has be due to the fact that I paid for it with my sweat, blood and yes tears.


That was just all the stuff that happend in the past year not my life story no way.


You have the mentality to succeed and everything else will stem and grow from that frame of mind. That Will to dominate. Thats what MJ had.

It shouldnt be demoralising when you realise you are no different from them. Why should you give them higher value then yourself? Are you working out any? Do it if you dont. You can only benifit from it. Gettting healthy feeling good and looking good. Just read Jvesti post on natural game and the effects of testosterone. Its in the bible

I myself Have alot not trying to brag or anything but Competition and exercise and environment all have effects on testosterone.

I cant give you the will power or ambition I didnt have much of either for a while. But I found hobbies I like the more active the better. Surfing. I wanted to get good a surfing so I paddled out nearly everyday even in winter when the water was like 34 F. Cause I found my ambition and will to become a fairly good surfer. I did good on a couple of heats at competitions got 2nd once. Boost my testosterone from the exercise and competiton..

Plus girls just like the traits the typical surfer has.

Most surfers are in good shape.
They have courage to go catch huge a$$ waves
That can kill them if they fall and get shredded to confetti by a reef.
So they have confidence in themselves in there ablities not to get killed.
Natural risk takers. Just for a thrill. I dont surf because chicks like surfers I love the feeling of gliding on the surface of the water. Completely free...

Damn Now I wanna go surf but no waves >.<

Just thinking about that get my blood pumping and the hairs on my arm to raise. Testosterone at work.



Dont worry about body language and tone of voice and all the stuff it will naturally emit itself out of you. Like Jvesti Said in the DJ bible when your congruent with your testosterone. You wont give a damn about racism.

Your right you cant just want it and it gets done.

Like saying in my shoes I want to be ripped why isnt it getting done? Cause you HAVE TO PUT IN WORK!

Its good as long as your moving foward every rejection you get is experience it makes you stronger you'll learn what works and what doesnt but if you just get in touch testosterone it will be so much easier. I cant explain it the feeling its empowering and I can unless it whenever I need it .

Its hard to ignore testosterone when its breaking down the door to your mind with an iron fist ( Quoted from jvesti. ) And when you build your T up it is easy to access it whenever you want.

Your 18 and still in high school I assume ( I dont know if you work or not)

But I dropped out of public school worked full time two jobs when I was close to 17 and at the same time got my diploma from an online school Plus take care of all the "Mans" job around the house cause my bro was in college.
Even before he went to school I had to do all the work. Cause he's a weak feminine homosexual. But you cant choose your family and I love him none the less. Even from all the horrible things he did to me when I was little.
But I manage to find away to defend myself. He smacked me one time backhanded when I was like 10 and him 16 so I threw a brick as hard as I could down on his bare foot ^_^
But Im off on a tanget. And rambling